Sorry, NookNook, I don't have any downregging experience.
Thanks, ladies, for your encouragement. I know I come across as overreacting, but honestly, had this woman got knocked-up at ReproG she wouldn't even have made herself known. She is nowhere to be found on FF and so didn't share her journey leading up to IVF or whilst cycling. Fair enough, just don't come whining to us who are actually slap-bang in the middle of it. You know what? I reckon IVF clinics everywhere have their cock-ups and, ultimately, the truth is that embryologists in their limited powers are constantly putting non-viable embryos back into women.
The embryo monitoring, Fabuluce, is a terrific scientific advance for analysing embryos through an embryoscope. It is done by time-lapse video sequencing and means that the embryos do not have to be brought out of their 'incubator' each day for analysis thereby reducing environmental decay. There's more about it here It costs £750 at CARE Manchester and I don't know who else in the UK has the embryoscope. I am paying 500 euros at ReproGenesis.
Twinkle, if we got the chance to freeze one embryo and transfer three then that is what we will do (multiple transfers, oddly, do not increase the chance of twins or triplets but it does increase the chances of a single implantation, obvs). We are guaranteed two 5-day blastos at transfer but we would be thrilled to have a frostie, too, as we won't be cycling again.
Right-o, I'm off to the doctor's to twat this hairdresser nurse....