I am finished wth my rather shitty, long commute fortnight. Huzzah! We have been out for wine and tea and I'm glad to be home and working locally for the foreseeable future.
I'm so thankful for this thread and your help with my initial mental about options. After a think and talks it is my decision to pass up clomid and take my nhs ivf round which has been provisionally accepted, clear scan, tests etc to be confirmed. I have, with the hep of peanut butter and hot chocolate, gained 4 pounds this month!!!! So fingers crossed fsh is within boundaries. It is not likely to be anywhere near 4-6 weeks as I want to elect for a particular clinic with my pct, which will take time. I also need the tests and am away in march. So, most likely we are looong at June July and that is good with me. I have no idea why I can't self fund IUI in April/may but will be pursuing that with pct too. I don't think clomid is right for me. I want immune testing as my recurrent viral illnesses at implantation that vsnish with my period and allergies raise concerns that I'd like, for peace of mind, to follow up. I did mention I had a positive test day 35 and my cons said it counted for nothing. Which felt a bit poo, given it is the nearest I've been to creating anything.
sar I am wishing this to be your time. I do not want to fuel mental but a good friend of ours conceived after 4 years after removal of minor endo on the first cycle. It happens.
critter I second that you are sunshiny about your long cycles, it must be challenging. We might end up being cycle buddies. Though I'd bet on your horse over my lame mule!
euro you just can't tell. I'm so sorry a friend is cycling at the same time as you. But she won't be able to tell either, though I'd do exactly what you're doing and presume shed do it. Why do we do this to ourselves? It's not over yet.
Today on here has thrown me. I dashed in, during a moment at work to advise what I thought was a stranger with a slightly deluded idea about what a lap entailed. I log back in tonight to find it was viv, and that her posts have been deleted. If this is true, I think you've all been rather restrained as I feel quite pissed off by it. In this thread (and not elsewhere on MN I must say, if I choose to post in aibu I deserve what I get) but HERE is my safe place in the world.I've never been made to feel unwelcome, only treated with kindness and respect. And I've give the same back. I am quite shocked that someone who had talked here for a while would pull such a trick and I'm glad the posts have been removed, whatever they said. A laparoscopy is surgery. It hurts. It fills your body cavity with gas that can't escape. You have stitches. I couldnt roll over in bed or lie on my stomach. You bleed, and in my case, you find out shocking news. Maybe for some, sex after all of this is OK. Bt for the majority of women it wouldn't be, as it wouldn't be after and erpc. I think it is grossly insensitive to suggest that this is about being 'Hardcore' what the fuck does that mean anyway. As you can tell, this has made me cross. And I don't care if this post causes you offence, you've been well cared for here and it feels trampled on.
And breathe. I've missed people. I will double check this over sheepfile x