JBrd, I really feel for you, what an yo-yo few days you've had. As others have said, take it easy and rest, try not to panic, (far easier said than done, I know) and I hope your EPU visit provides you with good news.
Calibee, thinking of you too, I hope you get good news later, as others have said the 3 weeks plus on the FR must be a good sign.
DrWho, good luck with your move - surely it's all coming together now?
Thank you JBrd, littlepink, morien, hopeful, diege, irish,mamaslatts, greenlizard, calibee, drwho, for your support over the past few days, sorry if I've missed anyone. This is the first chance I've had to post from a computer rather than my phone, so couldn't name check before. DH is working away overnight, and had to wait for MIL to go to bed though. We haven't had chance to talk again, though things have improved slightly - we actually DTD a couple of nights ago, so I've been a bit less weepy, although he seemed more withdrawn again today. As green & morien have said, agreeing to stop using contraception therefore means you are TTC with the possible consequence of an actual baby, but maybe some men don't think quite like that til actually presented with a pregnancy, and then panic.
I'm 6 weeks today. I'm constantly expecting to start bleeding, but all ok so far. If this pregnancy fails (I still can't quite believe I'm pregnant), I'm not going to TTC again, given the response at the moment. I think it's partly to do with DH being an only child, and a bit of a control freak, and also because DD is now at school and we've got a bit of time back and we'd have to start again is bothering him - I did think about this too of course, but I can deal with that. And because we both work unsocial hours and can't afford or have space for live in childcare, he has looked after DD on days I work, with the occasional visit from our mums to help when there's not enough days off to go round, but he works full time, so has had less time for himself if that makes sense.
I had a run in with MIL yesterday, so more tears - she'd already done something in our kitchen differently to how I would, I said so & she took it as criticism, but I've kept quiet for 10 days as she takes over our house and imposes her way of doing things in the guise of helping. I generally get on well with her, but she's been here too long, which has also meant I've had very little one-to-one time with either DD or DH which hasn't helped.
Sorry for the ramble. I hope everyone had a lovely New Year's Eve - I went for alcohol free beer in the end, so suspicions weren't aroused! Wishing everyone BFPs and healthy happy pregnancies in 2013 (here's hoping) xx