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Deck your halls & dress your trees, the BESH are gifting BFPs

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WinklyVersusTheZombies · 16/12/2012 16:21

Doff your top hats, lean on your canes, 'tis a Victorian Christmas for the BESH. Baste those turkeys in Victoria & Albert style, and maintain a stiff upper lip when you fill in the BESHtionnaire to see if you are cynical stoic enough to win a Baybee.

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Northey · 09/01/2013 18:25

Black banana up the fanjo, jethro, come on now, we're all rooting for you.

Are they going to give you another couple of days?

ArielThePiraticalMermaid · 09/01/2013 18:40

Dearest Jeff I am doing all those things. sorry it wasn't more immediately positive. Here for you,though conversely am out tonight. Try and spend the evening doing relaxing things xxxxxxxxxx

JethroTull · 09/01/2013 18:47

Dunno Northbynorthwest, consultant will tell me tomorrow. Tomorrow will be CD9 in effect so hopefully. Don't know if they can tell by now if anything will change.

lovesLemonDrizzleCake · 09/01/2013 19:43

Sorry about today jethro. I am crossing everything, including my legs for better news soon. Grow other follicles, go! Now. What did they say at the US? And what dosage of hormones are you on?

Well done on consenting and the rest, norf. We must have been in the same position Wink cos as far as I know it is just like IUI. And if you found it ouchy, and you have a normally tilted uterus, making sure you have a full bladder can make a big difference.

We had the doctor for the IUI today what told us my pregnancy would end in MC in Sept, and SB and I were both completely surprised she was young and friendly and open. We had made her into some evil witch in our head. Faif's positive thoughts obviously affected SB this morning, as we had an absolute record of 50mil (previous numbers have been between 4 and 15; it might mean I have to revise my quiet conclusion we were struggling because of mild male factor).

Northey · 09/01/2013 19:54

In pure blind faith in your ovaries I am sure they can squeeze out a few more follicles from round the back or something in the next few days, jeffy. Go, ovaries!

Ooh, lem, I also had the poo issue! My nurse remarked that she was "looking at some digestion". I was mildly confused for a moment until I remembered your situation. And then I started giggling. And hurrah for SB's superjizz!

EuroShagmore · 09/01/2013 20:15

I have faith (not faif, mind) in Jeff's ovaries. Come ON!

Great jizz result, Drizz Has the mister been doing anything different lately?

BTW, at work today a colleague was seen sprinkling maca powder on her food. I giggled and told her as far as I knew it was used to improve jizz quality so what was she up to? (She's the only one at work who knows about ttc.)

lovesLemonDrizzleCake · 09/01/2013 20:21

What seems to make a difference to SB's results is stress (we worked that our by his varying from 4-5 when working hard to 15 after hols). And clearly our shit Christmas, loads of dvd watching, eating and not exercising, drinking loads in December (and nothing in Jan, as I avoided both alcohol and coffee whilst on drucks) made a bigger difference... We were stunned and asked her to repeat the number a few times.

I share the FAITH in the ovaries. And come on cd 9 is early by all normal standards, right?

JethroTull · 09/01/2013 20:34

The regularity of getting rid of the sperm definiately helped SSG.

Thanks for all the positive comments Hags. Driz that's what I thought about CD9, surely they need to give me another few days on the stimms? Guess I will find out tomorrow when I talk to the consultant.

Have eaten chips for tea & am now having a cuddle with JethroDog which is making me feel better.

FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn · 09/01/2013 20:37

Yay for millions of spermz lemony Grin

HavingALittleFaithBaby · 09/01/2013 20:48

Not sure I'd fit in said ovaries Hmm

Glad the swimmer pep talk helped SB! :)

Sorry it wasn't too encouraging jeffers. I have no real idea about the process but do think they should give the drucks another couple of days. How many follicles would they like to see?

JethroTull · 09/01/2013 21:01

I've just heard from a fabulous former ESH who has comforted me with her IVF win story. She also had 4 follies, produced 3 eggs, then 2 embryos. One is frozen & the other one is asleep!

Quality not quantity that will be my mantra tomorrow.

Northey · 09/01/2013 21:02

I forgot to mention the most relieving bit of today - they didn't weigh me! Hurrah!

fifi, any more gall bladder grumblings today?

lovesLemonDrizzleCake · 09/01/2013 21:13

Hurrah for comforting stories from older ESH. Quality it is, and there is still chance for more follies, jeth.

And yay for not being weighed, norf. They only weighed me before the op, which I suppose was fair enough.

HavingALittleFaithBaby · 09/01/2013 21:28

They took my weight and height as verbal when I was admitted but I was a bit like Hmm You can't really do my BMI, I'm diffed. Still it was 1am and I couldn't be arsed to argue! norf I'm ok,
Only had one twinge today.

Exactly jeffers, glad the wisdom of experience has reassured you somewhat :)

Northey · 10/01/2013 07:19

Good luck with consultant today, seeddriller (if that indeed is what jethro tull did, as I can't be bothered to google). I hope it is all lovely and encouraging.

Feeling oddly heavy-hearted this morning after yesterday's clinic stuff. It's at times like that that it would be so nice to be able to go home and just wind down a bit together, rather than a quick kiss at the station and then separate trains.

FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn · 10/01/2013 07:59

With you there Norf, the weekend-only relationships suck Sad

Good luck again Jethro, we're all rooting for you.

ArielThePiraticalMermaid · 10/01/2013 08:36

Art at seed driller. Grow follicles, grow. And may the ones which are there be healthy and productive. Keep thinking the thoughts that the GoddessLyra in her Ancient BESHly wisdom put into your head yesterday.

Norf you sound ever so sad. That must be very hard. Come here for a grope lovely cup of tea x

FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn · 10/01/2013 08:44

Grrr! Couldn't help myself Angry

ArielThePiraticalMermaid · 10/01/2013 08:55

Ha . I was straight in there.

Seems particularly idiotic given what Jeff and Drizz have been up to in the last couple of days.

HavingALittleFaithBaby · 10/01/2013 09:04

Frank we actually crossed posts! Hopefully we've said it gently but firmly enough to prevent yet another bunfight?! I do think you set yourself up for gender disappointment. People keep asking me if I know what I'm having and when I say 'Probably a girl' they're like 'Oh, that's what you really wanted isnt it?!'. Well I'm delighted but I'd have been delighted with a boy. At the scan I just cried with relief that its a healthy baybee! People are weird Hmm Definitely seems a ridiculous topic when one thinks about outsourcing. Like I've never heard that IUI is more likely to win a boy baybee by surely that'd be the case if Shettles is right?!

There were two Jethro Tulls. One indeed invented the seed drill. The other was a 70s rock star.

ArielThePiraticalMermaid · 10/01/2013 09:11

I feel admonished now because I was a bit less gentle Blush. I think most Besh baybees are boys. Don't know if that's significant.

Your post made me well up a little Faif

HavingALittleFaithBaby · 10/01/2013 09:14

Tell me about over emotional! You're right, rie wonder if that is significant....

I do think some people need telling about this subject. Otherwise they end up having massive stresses after their 20 week scans.

EuroShagmore · 10/01/2013 10:49

Morning Hags. I saw that thread and thought "grrr" but haven't clicked on it yet.

Norfy I feel a bit flat after my consent appointment too. I suppose it is the inevitability of it.

Northey · 10/01/2013 12:30

Came into work all glum and stressed about a busy day, and ALL my meetings have fallen through! I don't know what to do with myself. Probably all the work I've been putting off in the background, but sod that; I'm going to piss about in the shops for an hour instead.

EuroShagmore · 10/01/2013 16:39

Bleugh -tea. Vile stuff. I appreciated the grope though.

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