Hoping for a July bfp part 3 the poas addicts

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Oh have i started the new thread??
Red, I've never had symptoms when pg so don't let that put you off

Sorry to hear about the shit turn of events red a chem pregnancy is a possibility but don't lose all hope at this point. No good can come of you doing lots of tests, I'd really try to leave it 48h to see what your body is doing xx

Going to disappear for a bit till I find out what's going on. Will be back once I know. Thanks for the hugs need them

Crap. Really, really sorry :(

Oh Red, what a horrible situation to be in :-/, I am keeping my fx that all will still be well. Big hugs x

Winkle, no worries :-). And yes, have been lurking since May but only seem to find time to catch up and "talk" sprodaically.

Kick - I am finding your determination to bring your stats down really impressive. Somebody once said to me, that "No determination compares to that of a woman who wants to get pregnant". I think that is so true!

Thinking of you red x

Not been able to check the thread till now. red I can't tell you how sorry I am. I know what you are going through and it is just shit.

Sending you the worlds biggest hug. X

red- still thinking about you- how are you? X

sorry to hear this red hope ur managing ok

Sending hugs and squeezes xx

AF arrived last night. Painful and heavy.
It was a chemical pregnancy. Cried myself to sleep, lots of hugs and cuddles from Dh. He's there for me.

I'm just very sad and feel like my body failed me. Feel angry that I got carried away with a faint positive. Going to ring docs, does anyone know if gps will do a blood test to confirm?

I'm just numb.

Oh Red, I am so sorry this is happening. Can't even imagine how you must feel. It's good that you have a lovely supportive DH. Big virtual hug to you both x

Red you have nothing to feel angry about, it was a positive clear as day and you were always going to test when af was late, it's a shitty shitty thing and I know it won't feel like there is anything positive to come from in now but it does show you can get pregnant and you will, I don't know whether it is better we can test these days as with our parents they probably had lots and didn't think twice, I know I never used to test so when my af varied from 25-32 maybe I had on those occasions had a cp but although spared some agony while desperately trying there was times when I would have given anything just to know I could get pg, that won't take away from the hurt and grief your feeling now I know, take care of yourself and please don't blame yourself they are just a shit part of life x

red don't feel angry with yourself, you were pregnant, of course you got excited. I went to the GP with my first chem preg. There is nothing they can do, although they were lovely and v sympathetic. They were reassuring just said obviously I was fertile and this is the bodies natural response to a less than healthy pregnancy. It didn't help at the time but it does help after a few weeks.

I am so sorry this happened you must be feeling utterly devastated. Sending you a big hug. Your dh sounds lovely. X

Nothing else to add red just what everyone else has said. Look after yourself today, I'm your dh is so supportive. Sending you a big hug xxx

That's I'm 'glad' your dh is so supportive. Not 'I'm your dh' that would just be weird!

X

So sorry red. Nothing docs can do but they say a chemica pg is largely because of a chromosomal abnormality so it really is your body looking after you and your baby.

Nothing the docs can do sadly. The hog hormone leaves your blood first so it probably won't even show up in a blood test

Sorry red

I think I was angry with my body as I still felt the hcg residual symptoms yesterday, tugging pulling, tingling boobs and just wanted to tell my body " it's fucking pointless as I'm not pregnant anymore" I know it's trying to protect me and thats the only good thing to come out of this. Also I know we can get pregnant now, so maybe next month might work.

I have never had periods this painful ..... Lying down with a heated bag hoping all the hcg flushes out soon. Crying on and off but I guess I will be ok eventually.

August might be a better month. argh! This ttc business is emotionally draining. And I know so many of you on this board, kick, winkle, kitty Lisa whenshewas have all had rougher journeys. I hope we all soon have our fair share of joy. Xx thanks for being there. I promise I'll stop feeling this miserable soon.

Stupid really that I feel upset over a fertilised egg. I sometimes wish I hadn't tested on wed and the know,edge of not knowing and getting a bfn would have been kinder than this cruel turn of events. I know I felt pregnant for less than 48 hours but in those 48 hours I had planned ahead till April when it would be due :(

I'm so sorry red

We got married and i thought i had oved on our honeymoon
. Came back to a bfp and 2weeks late fr af. Dh bought a baby thing (not saying what) for xmas.
Af arrived on xmas day. Still have the little thing he bought for the xmas present for our baby.

It does get better xx

That's not a mememe post either

i understand what you mean by you had planned ahead. But you know nowyou can fall pregnant so its just a matter of time xx

Thanks kick I understand - hope you get to put that present under the tree this year x