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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC 1st baby # Thread no 4

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Newbie2 · 19/07/2012 07:20

Wishing everyone a happy BFP!!!!!

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Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 06:54

BTW does anyone possibly think that the CBFM is showing peak because I'm pregnant Grin Grin Yep I'm clutching!!

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NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 09:32

The thing is, you're not CD20, you're CD70 something! The monitor isn't accurate.

Sorry to come over all kick on you, but I don't think you can rely on the monitor until you've had two AFs and have an idea of your cycle length.

Though you could be pregnant! Who knows with you?!

DulcetMoans · 28/07/2012 09:49

I have no idea on any of that newbie, sorry!! Is it worth a trip to the docs to explain what they think should be happening?

But obviously test test test! Haha.

NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 10:04

Oh yeah...POAS for us!

I think I may have missed the boat this month with our epic failure to DTD the last two nights :-(

The thing with no sticks is that you have to guess. TMI alert...lots of CM the last two days, but think only EWCM on Thursday. But saying that, I'm no CM expert.

Really hope my app is right and OV is tomorrow though.

H2B wouldn't let me use Conceive Plus. I'll make him tomorrow though!

NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 10:56

Ooh...another website just said I ovulate today, so fx this morning's DTD combined with legs in the air for a bit will catch the little eggy!

No spotting this month. Question...did anyone else see the spotting on Pregnacare thread? I was taking it last month as Queen posted it to me. I spotted. Not taking it this month, no spotting. Coincidence, I suppose.

Now...if I get up duffed this month, I find out when my sister is with me and would be due on her anniversary. Swim, spermies, swim!!

LoveinNY · 28/07/2012 12:18

Morning ladies. or afternoon as enjoying a lie in today Smile Good luck nicola , I've done the hips raise a few times after ttc and had quite a giggle with dh. Also, I find the whole cm distinctions quite tricky, and often forget to check. Confused
Newbie I think you should go see someone if you've still not had an AF since coming off the pill. You shouldn't have to go through all that pain without a result.
On CD 24 today and still feeling (and looking) quite bloated. Going camping next week so dreading the arrival of AF as I'm pretty sure we missed my ov this month. Sad
Puppy you are right to wait. we all salute your willpower. Xx

Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 12:24

Hi ladies. I've calmed down a bit now. The cramps are still here though!

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Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 12:26

Shall I buy a test this afternoon?

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LoveinNY · 28/07/2012 12:35

When did you last do one? X

EchoDragon · 28/07/2012 12:51

Newbie I honestly think you need to STEP AWAY from CBFM until you have had an AF. Try another test to see if you are preggers, then get yourself to a doctor regarding the cramps. Big it up if you need to to get an appointment.

I think using the monitor is just torturing yourself and wasting money on the sticks. TBH. Sorry I don't mean to come across as harsh.

Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 13:05

Thanks ladies. Any advice is always welcome. Don't worry about bing harsh with me :)

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NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 13:08

Ooh...cramps now. Hopefully some nicely-timed ovulation aches :-)

Hope things resolve for you soon, Newbie.

Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 13:32

Nicola after all this time we could be ovulating together!!! :)

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NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 13:33

How good would that be?! :-)

Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 13:44

Hee Hee destined to be testing buddies!

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DulcetMoans · 28/07/2012 16:21

Agree with Echo, I think, test to be certain and then go to doctors to see what they say newbie. Just to keep yourself sane!

Also, you're not do new anymore newbie!!

NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 16:24

What could she change her name to, unless it's not-so-new!

Testing buddies would be great...but you'll need short cycles if mind stay at 26 days!

Feeling mildly pre-AF, so think ovulation is happening or about to. Oddly though, was bloated the last two days, but back to normal today.

Where's alwyn, wasn't she testing soon?

NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 18:11

Bloody hell...I must be ovulating, I'm being an evil, hormonal bitch to H2B.

And I'm sitting here crying, feeling miserable and sorry for myself! :-/

Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 19:40

Evening! I took matters into my own hands and POAS. BFN! No surprise. Luckily I did not share what I was doing with DH Grin Pain is still very there on my right side. I have decided that I'm going to agree with the CBFM and except that i am ovulating. I will now DTD as much as possible this weekend well Atleast twice!! and leave the rest to fate! I think I'm on CD 86 now. I have booked a double doctors appointment for Friday and will be damanding a prostegen blood test if AF hasn't arrived by then (I won't tell them about the CBFM result as don't want to confuse them!)

Can I change my user name then? Such a silly name to pick. Just shows how I thought i wouldn't need to stick around Doh!

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Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 19:41

Aww Nicola You sure it's not pre wedding stress?

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NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 19:49

No, I'm not stressed about the wedding.

I'm just being a bitch.

Doesn't help that he went out for the afternoon and hasn't bothered coming back yet and isn't telling me when he will be back. So we've barely seen each other today and I have to work tomorrow.

Newbie2 · 28/07/2012 19:54

Oh that sucks :( I hope he comes back soon for make up DTD :)

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DulcetMoans · 28/07/2012 19:55

Sounds like you have a plan newbie, hope it makes you feel better to know what you are doing next. Not sure what you should change your name to...

Sorry you are sad nicola, how can we cheer you up??

NicolaHazel · 28/07/2012 20:03

Oh, he won't bother. He's a selfish bastard when he wants to be, but I'm in the wrong when I get upset.

Not sure I can be cheered up, Dulcet :-(

What kind of person thinks it's ok and not rude to ignore a wedding invite? Him and his friends. Weird.

DulcetMoans · 28/07/2012 21:08

Is that the friends he is out with, the ones that haven't replied?