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backwardpossom · 04/07/2012 09:47

Thought we could do with a new thread since the old one is full.

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ConfusedMumDotCom · 27/07/2012 06:56

Good luck today pixie (hugs)

wifey6 · 27/07/2012 07:41

Good luck pixie..
Sorry cant check all posts...on my phone. Hope you are all ok.
I'm out this month Sad really thought this was it Sad
AF arrived fashionably late today so my cycles are still up in the air!! Not happy!! Sad

Jollyb · 27/07/2012 08:25

Thinking of you pixie hope everything goes ok for you today.

Jollyb · 27/07/2012 08:32

I meant to say sorry to Wilde and wifey too. Sad. I had a BFN yesterday and am determined I'm not going to test again until tomorrow. I nearly cried this morning when I heard big Ben chiming the start of the olympics so I'm hoping that's a good sign.

Ps where has the bloody sun gone. Off work today and not impressed!

backwardpossom · 27/07/2012 09:37

It appears to be in the north east of Scotland, Jolly - it's a lovely day here!

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pebspop · 27/07/2012 12:07

Hope everything is ok pixie

Sorry to hear af got you wifey and jolly.

i am on cd 29 with no hint of af coming. eeekkk. hope this is my time and i get one that sticks! i started ttc in may 2011 and still don't have a baby. must be my turn soon.

ConfusedMumDotCom · 27/07/2012 14:32

Hello ladies.

I had my booking in appointment today. All went well. I'm now freaking out a bit as I mc'd the day after my booking in appointment in April. This is silly as I saw the baby happy and well yesterday. I get the feeling I'll be a bit wobbly until I get past 10+2.

pebspop · 27/07/2012 14:42

i think this is the world of being pg after mc confused try to relax. hope the days and weeks go quickly for you.

Midgetm · 27/07/2012 15:14

Thinking of you Pixie and how the hell have you managed not to POAS Pebs?

pebspop · 27/07/2012 15:49

i told you the other day - i am scared of testing!! i would rather be in ignorant bliss. but unfortunalty i need to take the bloody aspirin soon if i am pg.

i got to cd 45 once without testing!

tbh i feel very bloated. sat at my desk with my jeans undone and last time i had to fo that in these jeans i was pg.

wilderumpus · 27/07/2012 17:11

thinking of you today pixie chuck.

good luck pebs

oo00PIXIE00oo · 27/07/2012 17:41

Sorry ladies it was not meant to be (again) who believes in bloody miracles anyway :(. It was wishful thinking I would fall pg after the first af and all would be ok Angry scan revealed an mmc but my body doesn't know yet should be 9+3 wks and am now faced with a choice and I don't know what to do Confused

We are due to go on holiday (abroad) two weeks today. I have two choices (1) let nature takes its course and go back in a week to see if the bleeding has stopped or (2) have the pessaries - I have no idea what is the best but don't want to be unwell on holiday.?!?!?

Not sure is am meant to be a mum again :(

Jollyb · 27/07/2012 17:41

I caved and am in total shock - got a BFP on a clear blue digital! Only 1-2 weeks but that's ok as period not due til Sun/ Mon.

I'm happy but stressing already. I won't even begin to relax until I see my 2-3 weeks and then 3+.

pebs I can see why you've been holding out - I wish I hadn't started testing so early. I've been here before.

oo00PIXIE00oo · 27/07/2012 17:42

I should add I have no mc symptoms at all!

Jollyb · 27/07/2012 17:42

Oh pixie an unfortunate cross posting from me. So sorry to hear your news. Please look after yourself xx

oo00PIXIE00oo · 27/07/2012 17:44

Don't worry jolly I am so happy for you x

Jollyb · 27/07/2012 17:47

As for what to do now. In your situation i'd be tempted to get things moving with the pessaries as it could be a while before you miscarry naturally. Did they not offer you the option of an ERPC? Oh what a tough decision.

oo00PIXIE00oo · 27/07/2012 17:49

Yes I am allergic to anaesthetic so can't have an ERPC :(

backwardpossom · 27/07/2012 18:03

Oh pixie I'm so sorry. :( For what it's worth, I took the tablets and it all happened fairly quickly after that. x

Jolly delighted for you! x

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Jollyb · 27/07/2012 18:03

Oh I see. I think having the pessaries would give you the better chance of being able to go on your holiday but it's obviously such a personal decision. I know some women feel very strongly about letting nature take it's course whereas I wanted an ERPC asap.

Thinking of you. It's such a crap time x

ConfusedMumDotCom · 27/07/2012 18:04

Oh pixie ((hugs)). I'm so sorry. Sad

Are you allergic to all anaesthetics? I was offered ERPC under general or local, maybe you could do local? When I mc'd I just wanted it over with and went private to have the EPRC under general. So so sorry.

StateofConfusion · 27/07/2012 18:20

Oh pixie I am so sorry, massive hugs for you, in your suituation I'd possibly go for the pessaries to get things going asap in the hope your holiday could be a break from it all. Take care xxx

Congrats jolly :)

pebs I'm the same, this pregnancy I was late for my 2nd cycle before I caved and tested, also scared of testing. So far so good though, still can't believe it as we only dtd twice and didn't even time it and I had no symptoms except lack of af. Fingers crossed x

pebspop · 27/07/2012 18:24

sorry to hear the news pixie. i have opted for erpc in the past so cant advise on the tablets. i would try to get it over with asap so it doesn't spoil your holiday.

congrats jolly

Polka2 · 27/07/2012 20:00

pixie I can't imagine how shitty you must be feeling, huge huge hugs and pls know you can rant all you like here. I had a ERPC so can't advise but would personally opt for anything that can speed things alongSad

Polka2 · 27/07/2012 20:00

jolly whoop whoop friggin whoopWink