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Just MC and ready to try again? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Recently graduated from the mosh pit? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake! Part ?

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backwardpossom · 04/07/2012 09:47

Thought we could do with a new thread since the old one is full.

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thinkingpositivethoughts · 25/07/2012 21:05

pebs I have my fx for you and woody its all one step closer I've had the WTF AF today so closer to the next TTC!

ConfusedMumDotCom · 25/07/2012 21:09

Just wondering how Pixie is, she was due another scan this week. Fingers crossed.

woody17 · 25/07/2012 21:32

Thanks thinkingpositivethoughts this WTF cycle is frustrating!

StateofConfusion · 25/07/2012 21:35

Got the little beggar moving big glass of icy cold strawberry milk and laid on my bed for 30minutes. I'd have never worried at this stage but this one despite its randomness does pretty 'big' movements dp felt it the other night! I think I was clouded by stress and not noticing the usual pops etc and my dcs were not so dear today Hmm

Huge whoooo for wilde Grin

backwardpossom · 26/07/2012 08:55

Catching up after spending a day in the sun yesterday...

Woohoo for wilde! Grin

jaffa great news on your scan!

state I'm sure everything is fine, movements are still very erratic at 18 weeks I think. Maybe drink some freezing cold coca cola - that'll get baby bouncing about Wink

So I'm 7 weeks today. This week I shall mostly be metalling as in my last pregnancy, I started getting some blood when wiping at 7 weeks exactly and that was when the baby died. Hold my hand please?! I need to get through this week...

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Sheldonella · 26/07/2012 09:23

Morning ladies. I'm still feeling sick but am finally learning to live with it. I finally get to be "in the system" tomorrow too. Yay!
state Glad to hear you felt some movement. Hope you feel reassured.
possom I'm 7 weeks today too. Hand holding here for you. Is time going slowly for you? I feel like I've been pregnant forever now.
pebs Have you tested yet?

wilderumpus · 26/07/2012 11:23

arf pregnancy over before it began :( super duper faint test this morning, fainter than yest, and started spotting a day or two early than AF is due.

At least my body is looking after me this time and not letting it catch just for the hospital to help me eject it 6 weeks down the line.

I told DH last night. how do I untell him? this is my third failed pg in a row, I think I had a CP back in Dec as well. That time I came on early too and had terrible early labour pains as AF pains, all in my back, and was extremely heavy and , scuse, me, clotty. Then too I thought I had lines at 10dpo but dismissed it after my 'AF' as my imagination. now I am not so sure. Should i go to the docs about it or are they not fussed about CPs?

Seems we make babies really easily (yay) but my body doesn't hang on to them.

If I live a super healthy lifestyle - no drinking at all etc (only drink once a week but do get drunk) will my next baby stick?

I feel like such a loser.

backwardpossom · 26/07/2012 11:28

Oh wilde :( I'm sorry x

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wilderumpus · 26/07/2012 11:46

spoke to DH and he reassured me we a-ok and is one of those things. Would never have known if I wasn't so darned impatient and would just be AF and another shiny new cycle. he reckons we were so lucky with DS (pill accident) that this time we just have to go through the normal number of cycles for an average couple and chill out about it.

I suppose we can at least make the babies. We will get healthier and see if that helps any of the buggers stick.

love my husband. Feel much better now.

ConfusedMumDotCom · 26/07/2012 11:49

Oh wilde. Sad I'm so sorry. ((hugs)) are you certain the spotting can't be implantation?

I had a bleed this morning, so headed straight to the EPU in tears with my DH (it's his birthday today). It turns out I have a clot in my womb which is working its way out. We saw the baby wriggling away and it's little heart beat fluttering. This time we were given a picture Grin. It was such a relief. I'm having difficulty concentrating at work though having convicted myself it was all over. This whole pg thing is so hard. I can't believe how lucky (and blissfully ignorant) I was when pg with my DD. Anyway, the doctor had told me to make sure I rest and do no heavy lifting. So DH is now on DD bath and bed duty for the foreseeable future!

lays out mini magnums and home made lemonade

ConfusedMumDotCom · 26/07/2012 11:51

*convinced, not convicted

More hugs for wilde and her lively DH.

ConfusedMumDotCom · 26/07/2012 11:51

Arrgh iPhone

wilde's DH may be lively, but I meant lovely!Blush

wilderumpus · 26/07/2012 12:00

bonjour confused. Noooo not implantation, is red and my pg test this morning was practically BFN. lighter than yest lines so I had an inkling then, spotting just confirms. I will be fine tomorrow. thank god it lasted only a day and not till ten shitty weeks like my mc.

am so glad your bleeding turned out to be nothing to worry about! hurray for that but yes, I can imagine how worried and sad you must have been.

woody17 · 26/07/2012 12:11

Really sorry to hear your news wilde

Just had a letter from my doctor asking me to phone to make a telephone appointment as they've had a letter from gynae dept at hospital and want to discuss it with me. Feeling very nervous about what it might say. Hopefully it's just a formality after mc or maybe they will want to check the hormone levels? They didn't say anything to me at the time... Getting a call back this afternoon so hopefully will know what it's about before too long.

Polka2 · 26/07/2012 12:28

wilde so so sorry and great you're keeping positive with your lovely/lively DH!

confused so glad you have a photo from your visit, relax and let your DH look after you Wink

Polka2 · 26/07/2012 12:29

Meant to add woody can you not phone them and ask what it's all about?

wilderumpus · 26/07/2012 12:34

woody am sure if it was a letter asking you to ring it must be something ok - or they would ring you :) Or the hosp would have rung - how long would it take for all these letters to be floating around if it was serious? My GP rang me when she thought something was serious with my last pg (and it was!)

thanks polka

PedanticPanda · 26/07/2012 12:36

Hi, I've namechanged since joining this thread, but got a faint line last night and a bfp today! I'm still not convinced as this was the first month I used a cheap test rather than clear blue but two tests being wrong surely is unlikely? Maybe I should try a third!

pebspop · 26/07/2012 12:47

shel not tested yet. i am on cd28 today so af might arrive tomorrow but more likely saturday. hopefully she won't come at all!

i don't really want to test but will see if i crack by monday. otherwise i will just be taking my aspirin anyway in blissful ignorance.

i am not used to this 2ww malarky. the first time i got pg i wasn;t really expecting it to work so was just seeing what happened, second time i wasn't trying and it just happened - was on cd 28 before i started swi without contraception that cycle and af never arrived. 3rd time i tried for two cycles, first one i got af the day i got back from australia so didn't get chance to think about it and next cycle i was ill with water infection and my horrible spotting started at 7 dpo so never really thought i would be pg. i don't like the 2ww! hopefully this time i will go through the 2ww drama and keep the baby.

wilde sorry to hear af got you. this early testing is a real minefield. i wonder how many people must actually be pg but never know? i would speak to the doctor about the cp and see what they say.

woody i havn't had anything like that before but i am sure the hospital would ring if it was urgent. let us know what it's about.

glad everything was ok confused

wilderumpus · 26/07/2012 15:02

fingers tightly crossed for you pebs!

StateofConfusion · 26/07/2012 16:50

So sorry wilde its lovely to hear your DH is so supportive xx

7wks was scary for me too, deep breath and you'll be 8wks before you know it.

Feeling much better today, think its just recent stress making me more oblivious to wrigglers movement as after a lovely 12hrs sleep and the dcs being good today I've felt my usual random movements.

18+5 and I'm still pregnant!

woody17 · 26/07/2012 20:37

Wasn't anything important at all - just a follow up really - was I still bleeding etc. Dr I spoke to told me I could start ttc again straight away if I felt ready for that.

oo00PIXIE00oo · 26/07/2012 21:58

Evening ladies, am in for a bad night have second scan tomorrow and am terrified am gonna be told the baby is no bigger! Fx I have happy news to tell you all tomorrow x

backwardpossom · 26/07/2012 21:58

Thinking of you pixie - fingers crossed x

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StateofConfusion · 26/07/2012 23:58

Thinking of you pixie x

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