Hoping for a July BFP Part Two

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Hoping the luck continues here.....

Sorry for bfn's, winkle "she's"really taking the piss now!!!
Chimp- yeah consideration not due yet, wait til af due date now

Just went to the loo. There was blood when I wiped, oh well I didn't think this was going to end well at least it is happening quite quickly.

I did that yesterday, Chimp, due Thurs. Gonna try to hold out now and only test if she doesn't come. Hmmmm...see if I manage that.

Sorry, When, that's really disappointing. Is it definitely AF and not spotting for another reason?

And sorry for your BFN too winkle. :-(

Ah sorry winkle but still ain't over unless She gets you!
And sorry when too - will keep my fingers crossed its not AF just in case!
Well cd15 here and still haven't dtd so unless a miracle happens and can dtd tonight AND I ov late then am out this month. Holiday travel back to DH yesterday has totally wiped me out! Will have to try harder today ... just in case!!

And u r right kitty - I NEVER buy singles!!

The Superdrug 2 x 2 pack for 8 quid is rather good. If you have one nearby (and the offer is still on!).

Plus a shed load of internet cheapies :-)

I hope that it is not AF when, keeping my fingers crossed for you as it was all sounding so positive.

winkle you must be so fed up, is this the longest cycle yet?

I'm CD10 DTD CD 5, 8 and planning for 10, 12, 14, 15, 16 so a busy week ahead! Unless I ov in the next couple of days I will be out for a July BFP but still lurking about.

I'm out. Bfn :(

Has AF arrived Pooley? If not, you're still in.

I think I might be out too

Just had a bath and (TMI alert) there was a tiny bit of blood. I'm on CD24, 12 dpo. Normally my cycle is 28 days, so now I'm really confused. AF never visits early!

The mental part of my mind is wondering whether it could be an implantation bleed, as I've been having cramps all week (don't usually get them until AF is in full swing).

Clutching at straws?!!

I'm sorry pooley when is af due? Bfn with no af sucks, mind you af sucks too.

ttc is a a real pain.

Chimp - sorry for BFN :(

Whenshewasbad - any more news? Is it full flow or just spotting - hope its the latter

Nicola - fingers crossed for BFP

Fatas - any idea when you usually OV? Try to dtd just in case!

Dexi - sigh, yes this is the longest cycle since I started tracking them last August. :(

CD37 here. I think I'll make an appointment at the docs for Tuesday. Might as well take my husband with me and start the ball rolling for fertility treatment :( Never thought this would be happening to me :(

Chimp it could be IB, sounds like the right time for it. Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

chimp don't get too disheartened I had those exact symptoms 5 days before my previous BFP!

I think you do the right thing winkle if it has been a year then preliminary tests are a good idea (hug)

:( Dexi

Winkle going to the doctors doesn't mean there is something wrong, just that your taking more control to find out, I found it really comforting to feel I was taking charge and relaxed considerably, as it all takes a long time I defo think your doing the right thing and you can keep doing what your doing in the meantime x

Well it is shit news from this end. It was just a bit of spotting but no af yet. I did another test and the line is somehow even fainter than yesterday (didn't even think that was possible). I don't even think there is one but dh swears he can see one. Also did a tesco digi, they are brand new, say either pregnant or not pregnant. Result was not pregnant.

So it is another bloody chemical pregnancy. Am starting to think there is something wrong uterus wise. Sorry to sound do miserable again.

It's pretty grim all around today. Why is it so hard to do something that should be so easy? Grrr.
Winkle I know it's easy for us to be upbeat and say going to see the doc is a good idea when you probably feel like it's some admission that something is wrong but I hope you feel better about it after you've been.
Whenshe don't know what to say. Sorry. It sucks.
Chimp Nicola Pooley keep hoping!
Anyone got good news?

Thanks resipsa. Am not in the mood to be cheered up today, I simple it sucks covers it nicely.

Wish they were proper chem pregs but instead I tested on missed period day got a faint positive then had to wait for af to show up days later.

chimp any more blood? Hoping it is just a tiny bit of spotting.

winkle best of luck with the doctors. I think you are right to go now it will take a while to investigate so it is best you don't put it off.

Oops clearly not in the mood to proof read either (a simple it sucks)

winkle sorry I made you :( what I should have said is that getting your doctor involved will hopefully be reassuring that bloods and SA are fine. What would weigh on my mind is that if you wait longer you might regret not getting the ball rolling earlier from the point of view that around here I know the wait for gynae assessment could be 6 months.

Many many couples take 12-24 months to conceive and get to cancel the referral. Xx

So sorry whenshe

Oh girls- so sorry to log on and find such shit news :-( big hugs to you all.
winkle it's so confusing- defo think you're doing the right thing with trip to drs- its shit, but it's a positive step. You're a step closer to being pg- it must be so hard though- is dh being supportive

whenshewas oh shit, shit, shit again. So sorry that it seems to be a chem pg- is this your second one? Might it be worth a trip to drs, even if only to put mind at rest xxx so so sorry.

fatas defo get to it tonight- you never know!fx!
chimp I had AF style cramps the week before my pg- it was defo implantation cramping. It started about 5 days before AF was due.
dexi good job on the shagging- fx for you!

I'm cd15 (makes life much easier having cd- on 1st of the month- means I don't have to keep checking my app to see which cd im on!) we've dtd cd10 and 13, don't think I've OV-ed yet, I certainly haven't had any ewcm and I usually get it. Will continue with epo for a day or two and check knickers half hourly once a day for ewcm. Will also try to dtd tonight and on 17th & 19th. Then that'll be all my shagging as an unmarried woman! Feeling surprisingly relaxed about ttc right now- had a right wobble when DF was being a twat was feeling under the weather, but just knowing that we're trying and that there's hope this month makes me feel good. Obviously so badly want this to be the month, but Im feeling quite positive about it this month!

Anyway- Ive had a thought. A brainwave if you will! I think I could handle a bfn this month, and maybe the month after that, but if I'm not preggo by January (when I would have been due were it not for mc, then I'll be a head-case. I wonder if having a month-by-month approach just adds more pressure /anxiety/deflation. How about after July we set up a 'we demand a BFP in 2012' thread- that way if we get a bfn one month it doesn't feel so final and totally shit. Naturally, there would have to be plenty of winkling and tinkling, there could be a COD, but we'd have more of a long term plan. What do you think? clearly, if you all think it's a shit idea then I'll join you on the August thread and we'll talk no more about it!!!

Xxx