The BESH Fillies Are Under Starters Orders

[CaveMum]

Welcome to the 2.30 from Mumsnet Towers. The fillies have been groomed to within an inch of their lives and are raring to go.

Late entries for the race are required to locate and fill in the BESHtionnaire so that their form can be assessed.

Bring on the stallions!

So sorry to hear you are still in so much pain Faif. Bloody rubbish.

Heading straight for the trough of gin to toast to better health and continued diffage all round. Apologies for being AWOL. Weekend was mental, work was mental, and then I posted a LONG post and MN kicked me out so I sulked went out for dinner and have just got back in.

Life in lemon-land has actually been okay, esp compared to the rest of the ESH, but as my lap now seems to be provisionally planned for next week (barring people longer on the wait-list getting there before me) I can promise attendance afterwards. I am gutted in a weird way it could not be this week, as I would not have minded a bit of guilt-free afternoon tennis player ogling.

So I shall leave you with cake, pats and a sneaky hug or two manly punches to promise to be back. Not soon, but definitely next week. Job switching soon means actually doing lots of stuff at work, which is rubbish for MN-ing. Sorry!

Thanks blonder. It's grinding me down if I'm honest. I really want my op date so I have a time scale to aim for!

Good that things are going ok Lems. Exciting about the new job but I remember being mentally exhausted when I started my current role! Here's hoping the lap goes ahead as planned so you get some answers.

The new job only starts in August, it's finishing off stuff that is doing my head in. But btw you are lovely (if that is allowed in BESH country), faif. Really want stuff to go well for all ESHes.

Ah tying up loose ends. Also challenging. Why thank you !

Thinking of you this morning bugs

Good luck this morning Bugs, I'll be hitting the refresh button on a regular basis (((hugs)))

Bugs I am so sorry for you and GP. Totally understand the need to take a MN break.

Much love to you both (((hugs)))

Bugs I am so, so sorry.

I'm so sorry too bugs. Totally understand the need for a break. Take care of yourself.

Thinking of you Bugs. It's just not fair.

Oh bugsy. I am so sorry.

bugs I'm so sorry. :( (big hugs)

Shit. I'm so so sorry. Such sad news and so unfair that it has to be dragged out for you. I feel angry on your behalf. Sending love.

I'm so sorry bugs :(

And no idea on what happens next week.

I have a friend who went through exactly that, Bugs - they continued to book her in for growth scans every 6-8 days to monitor the situation. Apparently there's a specific size/date combination that until reached the NHS won't want to interfere.

Be careful with the Googling...(it always brings me down).

Oh fuck, bugs, I'm so so sorry you're going through this.

Google is irresistible, I know, so there's no point in encouraging you to stay off it. Oh my poor love.

I don't know what happens if there is still a heartbeat next week, but regardless of what the doctors say in that case I would refuse tablets. I wouldn't be able to make myself do anything else.

I agree with Norfy. If there is a heartbeat I wouldn't be able to do anything. I'd have to wait and see what happened.

((((hugs)))))

Do you have a date for the next scan?

In two days? Or nine?

How are you and GP tonight?

Oh bugs how hard for you. It's hard to know what to say without sounding trite, but I think you're being incredibly brave and my heart goes out to you and GP.
(((((((un mumsnetty hugs))))))