Well, I thought I could finally get over my embarassment and come say thank you for the welcome and hello... except I managed to delete the entry! Perhaps my unconscious is trying to sabotage my attempts to be on a July BFP thread??!!!
Anyway, so many ttc after MC, and a few were first time lucky and then MC, how sad. I'm the same I was 11 weeks, it was a pg on first try, I've only just had my second proper period (I was competing for the title of longest bleeder).
Re alcohol and coffee: Last time I drank until I got two bold lines, the stopped completely and cut coffee back to about 2 cups. I've stayed on the reduced coffee and plan to come off it completely next time. I also smoke, not masses but still... and I've started having 3 days a week when I don't smoke at all and keep it to 5 or less on the other days (which is a normal amount for me). Obviously I stopped the cigarettes with the alcohol last time. I loved having a reason to be healthy.
I'm CD 5 today. I prefer this side of things, having something to prep for is much better than wating for something that might not come! Got my cheapie internet ov sticks on standby!