amaya-hello, it's tricky isn't it! We only started ttc in may and decided to have a relaxed attitude at least until after the wedding but as soon as we decided to go for it I turned into a woman obsessed!! I've not done any charting or ov predicting but I'm using a period diary app and trying to swi at the correct times. We're only of our second cycle of trying (had mc with the first) so I've not experienced the low of a bfn- though in reality I'd be ridiculously lucky to conceive in this cycle- don't know when, or even if, I'll ov. My df knows about this though- and has since admitted that expecting me to be relaxed and cool about things was never going to happen!
I'd told myself we'd go for a every third day approach, so we don't wear ourselves out on a cycle when ttc would be unlikely anyway (have read conflicting things, some people say I'm super fertile, others say I'm unlikely to ov in wtf cycle). But on reflection I ought to try for eod shouldn't I for best chance?
I'm on cd9, so far we've done it on cd8. I think I ov-ed on cd 19 in may (based on my comprehensive notes! How's ridiculous! I might have had ov pain on cd16 and I had a bit of Ewcm on cd19 (Dtd both days)) i really want to be sure that if I do ov this cycle then I catch the egg but with a wtf cycle I understand that it could be a really long cycle and I don't want to wear the poor man out,
Sorry, this is a really waffly message.
1 question though: some websites suggest I'll be super fertile in my wtf cycle. What does that mean? I'll still only release 1 egg, what will make it more super?
Sorry amaya back the point! I think do all the poas business but keep dp informed- I've found it really reassuring to talk to df about it. Also, he knows that there's only 12 eggs a year and we only get one chance a month so he's got to step up to the plate ooh er-- when I tell him to!