June BFP thread! come join us!

[morecoffeemorecoffee]

Thought I would take the plunge and start the June thread! I won't be getting my May BFP as my cycles are sooooooo long. Who's. With me?

I'm stealing that idea too! (I was going to do this at Xmas and mothers day :()

oh I am so nicking that idea about fathers day too...

Winkle .. Mothers day was when we planned to tell everyone about the pregnancy I miscarried. It was a shite one this year

Also very excited about telling the DSs about a future sibling. ometimes these daydreams are more torture than happy so I have to give myself a kick to stop!

My 6yr old keeps asking us to have a baby. He has started getting on much better with his little brother who will be 4 next week, but everytime we see a baby he says how cute babies are and wants one.

Hi am new so forgive me if I am posting on wrong thread, not a clue what I am doing.

Have just found out I am pregnant.

Problem is I am 40, split from my husband last September, had a boyfriend he has now dumped me and not interested in me or the baby

Just wanted to say hi to you all x

Hi pinkladee Congrats on your pregnancy, but do sorry to hear about your situation with your boyfriend. Unfortunately us ladies on this thread are trying and hoping for a bfp, rather than being pregnant. There are some great people on the pregnancy boards who will be able to offer some advice and support for you :)

Opps, posted too soon. Have you got anyone in RL who you can lean on while you are dealing with splitting with your boyfriend and your pregnancy? Hope you're ok x

Can I join? Just got AF (what does AF actually stand for?) after long 2WW this month...have been trying for, don't know, ages, have one amazing 3yr old DD and had one MC last Sept...turned 38 2 weeks ago so not feeling v positive right now!

Welcome freshair! Af stands for aunt flo!

Hi freshair and welcome. :) so sorry for your loss in September. :( I have also been ttc for ages. Hope this thread is Lu ky for you :)

Gahhhhh! I have fecking breakthrough bleeding again cd14 I think today. TMI WARNING! i had a bit of pink when I wiped last night and a bit this morning. This afternoon had sort of bloody discharge iyswim (not heavy only when I wiped). Anyone shed any light on this? Should I risk dtd tonight or will there be potentialy more bleeding? Arrgghhh!

Oh morecoffee we need to give your fanjo a good talking to, messing with your head like this.

Pink sounds like it is newish blood but mixed with discharge suggests it is not straight bleeding. I think you OV late don't you so perhaps not too much of a problem to skip DTD tonight? Give yourself time to heal to avoid infection?

I live in an area where 3 or 4 kids is far more typical than 2. This leads to lots of nudge nudge wink wink talks in the playground about when I am going to get round to popping #3.

Why oh effing why do people feel like it is appropriate to speculate TO YOUR FACE like this? I just mutter "oh we'll see" and change topic.

Thanks Pinkie and morecoffee! Yes hoping this thread is lucky for all of us...

Tedmundo I know exactly what you mean - but (for right or wrong) I have that little voice internally too!

at tedmundo giving my fanjo a good talking to! Yes, generally my cycles are long, so not due to Ov yet. No ewcm either. Glad I've got my hospital appt though. Maybe get some answers soon.

I know what you mean about people speculating! Drives me nuts. Had people asking me for the last 3years when we are going to have a third. Keep saying, "oh, not sure, maybe one day" and change the subject.

tedmundo lol @ the fanjo talking!

It's so rude ppl questioning about when your having another baby!! We on the other hand have none so constant 'when are you having babies, why haven't you got any at your age, why aren't you pregnant yet?' makes me want to slap them!

We havent told anyone we're ttc but a few times I've been tempted to snap at them that it's not as easy as laying back and thinking of England for everyone!

aw sorry tedmundo :(

guys how bad is drinking and smoking for male fertility? say if hubs has a couple of fags and a few drinks (enough to get drunk) once a week? he has def cut back but this is what he is doing this eve...

Hello ladies - lots of my ol buddies here from the BFP May thread, room for another veteran??

I'm on CD37 of epically long cycle from hell which has yielded 1 x bfp followed sadly by 3 x bfns. Finally a bit of light spotting tonight so think that's AF finally on her way prob due to roll into town tomorrow - I'm a bit but since I've realised that its most likely been a chemical preg I've booked to see my GP and I am ready for a new cycle, a hot bath (finally got our boiler working today after a week on.the fritz, yay hot water!!), a and a June BFP :)

So if someone could add me to the list, Im ttc#2, testing 14th June (assuming next cycle might be another long one!)

Ps) winkle - chuck hubs a can of value lager, cheap n light

winkle I know plenty of blokes who have kids now but when they must of been ttc were drinking every week. I'm not sure what the Effects are. There are so many things that could possibly affect fertility.

I decided to ignore my fanjo issues and dtd! I am doing the winkle and as I stated eArlier in the thread, I will be doing extended winkle time this cycle, so will be mning for the next hour half hour while I retain the swimmers

Oh littlemiss so :( for you hope you're ok. It's so unfair and cruel :(

morecoffee.. Let me get this right ... You are doing the winkle while posting on MN to us!!??

love it. JUST like the big brother house. Live updates :)

Gutted for you littlemiss .. Good luck at the docs and let us know what s/he says.

Yes, that's right! Dtd, Dh is downstairs now and I'm doing the winkle :) only on mn could I share such goings in

Ha ha morecoffee, love the breaking news updates, winkle winkle little star!

"Goings in" ... Oh god

I know exactly what went in your filthy mare!!

Lol

Thank god for MN to make this tedious time such FUN!