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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

June BFP thread! come join us!

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morecoffeemorecoffee · 30/04/2012 14:54

Thought I would take the plunge and start the June thread! I won't be getting my May BFP as my cycles are sooooooo long. Who's. With me?

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AmayaBuzzbee · 31/05/2012 13:13

Dreamy and Queen thank you for your kind words

Persuasion yes, I think I definitely need to chill!

Wunny you are worse than me! Defo too early to test!! Grin

Littlemiss -thank you! I have also heard about being very fertile just when you come of the pill. Which is why I am very Angry with myself not putting more effort in trying this cycle!!

Kicking that is so impressive, you are a good "role model" to many of us here -especially to me! I need to get my act together next cycle!

Speaking of which - Since I am 100% sure that I am not pregnant this month (CD23 out of 25-28, 3 BFNs to date, not sure why I am testing as we have only DTD'd 3 times and I never spotted OV!), I splashed out on 20 Clearblue OV sticks for £25. Was going to order internet cheapies, but thought what the hell -I'm intending to get all the big guns out next cycle!

I thought it is a win-win situation. When AF shows up, I have something fun to look forward to (I am a POAS addict, and never tried smiley face sticks yet!). If the sod's law happens and I am pregnant by some miracle, then even better (sticks can wait till ttc no.3!) Grin

AmayaBuzzbee · 31/05/2012 13:13

And forgot to say: RIBS YAY to EWCM!

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 13:20

Still no ewcm for me

crickey if i have been ttc for 9 months because i OV later, i will have a stern word with myself!!

Been good with dtd though so its fine if and when it happens

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 31/05/2012 13:24

ribs ewcm sounds good and the perky feelings sound very positive. I firmly believe your body is trying to get you pregnant and went you ovulate it makes you feel on top of the world and up for it (in a dtd kind of way).

Amaya liking the splashing out on expensive sticks. Always nice to find another poas obsessive

RIBS · 31/05/2012 13:32

Ive had several words kicking. I initially though as soon as I get a positive OPK reading I could just DTD on the day and day after, I didnt realise it was picking up the surge before ov which can be upto 36 hours later, then take another 24 hours or so to get itself into position. Little buggers. So im just going straight thru this month -no no let up. I know il be at least 18 days b4 af or bfp so me and DP are just gonna have to get on with it.

Thanks for yey-ing my mucas girls, it makes all the difference. Grin I think its defo encouraging it. Smile

RIBS · 31/05/2012 13:35

I think thats a really good philosophy when I think after the mmc removal horror my bodys had a few periods and is now ready to have another go at housing a baby. I was naiive to think it would be ready to go after the trauma it had.

Ooh feeling a bit of ov wind pain now I think!!

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 13:49

Yep ribs

I was getting very stressed about the opk thing . I also know that after all OV signs, you can still only release the egg a week later.

Feeling calmer about the whole thing this month. Just dtd a lot to see if that works.

Fingers crossed xx

RIBS · 31/05/2012 14:21

WOW!! A week, no bloody wonder im still waiting. Ive been going for a day or 2 after + OPK and temp increase and then thats been it.

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 14:35

Yep they say that just having the spike and the ewcm isn't a sign that you have actually dropped the egg.

That's why i am going from cd5 until AF arrives. Will do the same next month too

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 31/05/2012 15:47

Blimey kicking at that rate you will be out winkling winkle.

I just don't have that kind of stamina.

QueenOfTheDrama · 31/05/2012 16:33

Hooray for EWCM ribs Grin

I hit a new low last night, asked DH if he fancied dtd, he said "not tonight babe, I'm knackered" and I said "oh come on, we don't even have to kiss or anything" Blush

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 17:37

Lol winkle will need to up winkle! I wish I had the time for more sex and energy! Won't get on till 9 tonight and I'll be in bed by 11!

tedmundo · 31/05/2012 19:46

queen .. My DH calls that type of sesh 'the Pretty Woman'.

not that I look anything like Julia Roberts. More like Alf Roberts. :(

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 19:50

Bwaaaaahahaha i haven't suggested no snogging yet. He is loving it.

I have worked two 14 hour days and i hate it and my job. With a passion

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 20:46

Lmfao @ queen! I always know when my dp is after a bit as his goodnight kiss... Lingers! Most of the time I get grab his cock and he gets the hint Grin

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 21:40

I nearly spat juice all over my phone.

My DH has quite a sex drive. He tries it often. Otherwise the same with the lingering kiss.

I just need to mention a few words when we are out to get his soldier up. I enjoy it. Especially when we are swimming, cycling or running...

winkle2 · 31/05/2012 21:40

Lol at Alf Roberts!

I think I've been out winkled this month by kicking!

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 21:42

Lets hope it works!!

Heading off soon for day 2 of 7 sessions Grin

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 21:55

Mine happy obliges but he's more the type that can take it or leave it of that makes sense? I used to take it personally but it's the way he's always been so eventually accepted its not abnormal for him to not want humpage 24/7

I blame my ex as he was a nightmare, from 17-24 I couldn't even get through an episode of eastenders without him grabbing my boobs or putting my hand on his willy… then he'd expect sex every night and morning and would wank next to me if I said I was tired/sore, so naturally assumed all men were like that!

LittleMissSnowShine · 31/05/2012 21:59

DH turns 30 2moro so guess this is my last chance to dtd with a man in his twenties tonight hee hee hee. Still a bit of ewcm today - cd20 - so possibly still in fertile zone... Fx!

Might try your cock grabbing trick pinkie...sounds straightforward Grin

QueenOfTheDrama · 31/05/2012 22:07

lol alf roberts!! Grin

Luckily DH did oblige and there was kissing involved! I would have been quite put out if not!

pinkie your tactic normally works for me too! I know when DH wants it, normally in the morning when I feel something hard pressing into my back haha Grin

Happy 30th to mr snowshine Smile got anything nice planned? (apart from the obvious!)

NicolaHazel · 31/05/2012 22:15

I can vouch for cock grabbing too, Queen and Pinkie :-) Works a treat.

H2B would definitely DTD more than we do

NicolaHazel · 31/05/2012 22:16

Oops...button press fail.

...now, but I'm generally too knackered during the week!

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 22:23

I should add that I start by rubbing his belly haha!

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 22:47

Wow pink. I wasn't overly sexually active until i met my Dh. In fact we laugh now about how our desires increase since we first met...