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June BFP thread! come join us!

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morecoffeemorecoffee · 30/04/2012 14:54

Thought I would take the plunge and start the June thread! I won't be getting my May BFP as my cycles are sooooooo long. Who's. With me?

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KickingUpQuestions · 30/05/2012 14:53

I am very regular as well and am bang on 28 days normally. Apart from what I think was a chem pg in December and last month (which was high stress over OV time).

I think though that your reactions to your body are very much a result of you being pregnant before.

It's truly awesome for you but for other first timers, I think remembering that our bodies will react in their own way and that you can't say "based on my experiences" because your experiences (and everyone else's) would be vastly different.

Having websites saying that xx is "normal" is real quite wrong because there is no normal.

I am a 28 day cycle. Bang on. But now on CD15 with no sign of EWCM which I normally get. OV can happen anytime over a week - from the start to finish.

:)

KickingUpQuestions · 30/05/2012 14:55

That's more my reaction to those sites that say "oh you're not normal"

Not any kind of reaction to you :)

AmayaBuzzbee · 30/05/2012 16:28

I am so impressed with all of you managing to DTD so much! We only managed 3 times so far, and it is now CD22! Blush This is the first month of the pill, so I reckon cycle will be 25-28 days.

I feel like this month has been a complete shambles for me. Had 7 OV sticks and did not get a positive during CD8-14 (I usually ovulate CD10). I then thought I may have ovulated earlier or later than usual, and now I am wondering if I did not ovulate at all! Or maybe missed it as I only tested once a day? I usually feel the ovulation as mild pain on CD10, have not felt it this month.

Have had some crampy feelings (as if AF on it's way) on and off, so cracked again and tested today -BFN of course, what else. Grrr. (if I had ovulated early, today would have been 15 DPO)

As this is the first month of trying, maybe I am subconsciously thinking it wouldn't happen that quickly anyway so why bother?!

Anyway, I'll hang on here till AF and will then start this 'project' properly! I should still be able to squeeze another test right at the end of this month, so I may still get my BFP in June Smile. This time I will by tons of OV sticks, poas twice a day from CD5 onwards to make sure I won't miss it, and will DTD LOADS too!

Can't wait to see which ones of you girls will get your BFPs in the next few days! I will then read back to see how you did it, and will do all that too Grin

QueenOfTheDrama · 30/05/2012 16:44

Sorry about bfn amaya but it ain't over yet. Most people seem to be going for the laid back eod/every day approach, I reckon there'll be a few bfps this month with all the shagging thats going on! Grin

dreamydays · 30/05/2012 19:18

Sorry about bfn amaya. Isn't first month off pill supposed to be a bit random? So lots to go for next month.

dreamydays · 30/05/2012 19:19

That is if not this month - just read back and saw you're only CD22!

Persuasion · 30/05/2012 22:24

On my phone, so can't see everyone's posts, so sorry if I miss anyone out.

Sorry about AF red

amaya sounds like you're still too early, I did the same thing my first cycle, am now on cycle 3 and am a little more chilled just about

winkle sounds like the interview went well. Fingers crossed for you. Your shagging tally is also quite impressive!

And good luck to anyone testing in the next few days. Who's first at the moment?

wunnybunny · 30/05/2012 23:00

im 5dpo af due 7th june im poas addict and obv neg when tested today

winkle2 · 30/05/2012 23:02

Sorry she got you red :(

KickingUpQuestions · 30/05/2012 23:07

Right DTD on CD15 7 9 10 11 12 13 15

15 being tonight with a 45 min wrinkle

Pinkie29 · 30/05/2012 23:49

Currently doing the 'Pinkle' extreme winkling! Grin

LittleMissSnowShine · 31/05/2012 00:02

Sorry red hope u stick around for a late June BFP tho

Pinkie - love the extremity of your winkling. I am also winkling - second session of SWI of the day woo hoo - but gettin pins and needles...prob cos im doin some kind of weird yoga style lotus position winkle without a pillow to balance on or wall to hekp...mini workout! Not like I need one after zumba tonight lol

LittleMissSnowShine · 31/05/2012 00:07

Ps sorry amaya :( just off pill can be a bit random but theres also something called rebound fertility which weirdly means u can be v fertile when u just come off the pill so u never know...fx

Wunny - shame on u for testing so early!! Hope that bfn becomes a bfn...when ur more lije 10 (not 5!!) Dpo Grin

LittleMissSnowShine · 31/05/2012 00:10

Pps - hopefully there'll be white choc magnums where ur going on holiday ted - either u'll be eating for 2 (hee) or they can keep the pms at bay!

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 07:08

Sounds like a pinkle little miss!

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 07:50

I know that going to the looks doesn't "flush" out sperm but i am really worried that the swimmers escape.

I drink a lot of water so i need the loo often

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 08:00

Same here Hmm

I had a right pain in my right ovary area last night while dtd then af type pains when we'd finished Confused pined for half hour after tho just incase!

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 08:01

*pinkled not pined!

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 08:03

I feel a bit weird today too but i am worried it may be a uti . Going to drink citric soda since dtd for the next 6 days still

winkle2 · 31/05/2012 08:45

Cd25 here! Might have one more try this eve Grin

RIBS · 31/05/2012 10:40

winkle is on a mission. U go girl!! Whoop whoop! Your DP will either be like a dog with 2 tails or exhausted. By the end of the cycle our SWI'ing will have the roll on, squirt, roll off - and pinkle method. Grin

kicking Isnt cranberry juice supposed to be good for that?? It'l be all the action thats caused it.

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 10:53

I regularly suffer from utis Sad am always straight to docs for antibiotics! They've sent my wee wees off to some lab before but found no underlying cause am just quite prone to them and notice I get them more when I'm stressed out or run down

KickingUpQuestions · 31/05/2012 11:26

Yep i was good with the Cranberry juice.

I think they say that the more alkaline your pipes are, the friendlier that are to sperm. So i want stuff that isn't acidic

RIBS · 31/05/2012 12:30

Well Ive just been to the loo and defo have EWCM. Yey!! So hopefully im in the ovulation process somewhere. Wasnt sure if the clomid was going to work this month as havent had the usual dizzy spells and massive ov pains, but I think that im maybe getting used to being more unbalanced, have had a bit of ov type pain, but though it was wind. I think everythings wind. Grin

Im in a really good mood today, not that im a moody cow usually. But im at work all alone today and usually get fed up being on my own. Im feeling industrious - which is er why im checking my cm and msing??? Blush

Pinkie29 · 31/05/2012 13:10

Well done on the ewcm ribs!