Just MC and ready to try again? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake overindulgence

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Continuation of the last thread.

There's cake for scoffing, backs for patting, and screeching death metal for all your metalling moments. All welcome so come on in and get settled into the plush sofas!

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So settle into the mosh pit, we have special VIP area's for those on the 2WW, the new bumps metalling with segregated areas for the first/second/third trimesters and the club class cocktail bar for those who have just got AF and can get-pissed let loose for the first two weeks!

Well, I think today is the day. I have hardly slept. Yesterday, I had weird discharge, went into the hospital. They checked and said they didn't see anything unusual, but that did not mean there wasn't anything... At least there was a heartbeat. So on top of worrying about the results, I am worrying about leaking fluid.
And tomorrow I have to drive all day to Penzance, to catch a ferry and then spend a week on a remote island pretending all is well. I am so thoroughly sick of my life. Please, please let there be good news for me today, and no CVS related miscarriage. Please.

Thinking of you today Jaffa - hopefully you'll get the news you want and all will be well xxxx

I'll keep you in my thoughts today jaffa

Thinking of you Jaffa x

Thinking of you today Jaffa, I really really hope there's good news.

Jaffa holding my breath for you. I know what you mean about going away. I am supposed to be going to Spain on Tuesday. Just want to know everything is ok before I can even think about it.

And counting down the minutes till 4pm for myself, i have a strategy meeting which I won't be paying any attention to al all.

I am the same as MissC. I metal between kicks. Thanks for asking about DD. the little ghost child has regained some life and eaten. So skinny but very much on the mend. Praise be.

Anyway jaffa you are in all of our thoughts today. I won't lick you but I am stroking your arm virtually.

I know i'm only a very occasional poster nowadays but just wanted to say big hugs to jaffa and that i'm thinking of you today and keeping everything crossed that you get the news you are hoping for xx

Hi ladies

Hope Alls well.

Jaffa- sorry you are going through the mill I hope you get good news very soon.

sorry for all the others going through metals too

So news here... I went to Paris with my sister at the weekend as its my 30th birthday soon I was treated by my parents and sister and DH is taking me away in June hopefully to Italy but we haven't booked it yet so that may change I'm on CD26 ish and feeling very queasy and headachy and heartburny too... I have no HPTs so I will wait until AF is due at the weekend and get one then. I also left my job and I start a new, better paid one on Monday so happiness all around at the mo lol DD has her peads neuro appt in june so hopefully we will get her on the road to diagnosis.

Hope everyone has a great day

Hand holding for jaffa

Checking in for jaffa hope things are going well xx

Thinking of jaffa this afternoon x

Mixed news. CVS clear. No Downs, patau or Edwards. No sex chromosome problems. It's a girl.

But for here's the fucking nightmare - I have weird peach coloured discharge. Going in to hospital as soon as child care is sorted. Think of mr.

That's great news jaffa, sorry to hear about the odd discharge, will keep for now and fingers crossed, take care x x x x

So, so glad to hear that the CVS result was ok and really hope that the weird discharge is nothing to worry about. Fingers crossed they can reassure you in the hospital.

Wonderful news about the CVS. My understanding was that if something bad was going to happen it would happen straight away, is that not right? Can you ask FMC for advice on this? I have had a lot of discharge all the way through this pregnancy and I am really hoping that is the case for you too jaffa and you manage to have a relaxing holiday.

You too midget and Marbles here's to a BFP for you soon.

Good news on the results Jaffa what a relief.
Hospital is the best place to be at the moment, and you'll hopefully be able to get the answers you need. The discharge doesn't necessarily mean anything bad, though it does of course cause a load of extra worry that you just don't need. Thinking of you xxx

Oh Jaffa congratulations on your healthy girl and fingers crossed you have nothing to worry about from now - thinking of you over here.

jaffa that is amazing news sorry about the nightmare but you are in the best place

I am on CD24 and due AF/POAS around this weekend sometime. After being so blase about it the last couple of months i really desperately want it to happen this month i just know that fecking AF will be here by Fri/Sat.

Sorry for absence yesterday - when I wanted to post that I was thinking of you jaffa - had my appointment with the consultant midwife and she had a few concernes so I had a couple of investigations that meant I was at the hospital for five hours instead of one! ECG on me confirms tachycardia (I already knew this, and have mentioned it several times... it was worst around 28 weeks when resting hb was 140's... it's currently 110-130) but they don't know why. My bloods at 28 weeks says no anemia, although 'lowish' so they've repeated that test and are also testing my thyroid (quite sure that is also a dead end as I had it tested just before conception and it was fine plus I don't have any of the other classic over active symptoms ).

CTG shows he's happy enough in there but I have an irritable uterus (suits the rest of me, then ) SMall contractions every minute, and one big one in the time I was on the monitor (about half an hour). Again, I've mentioned I'm getting LOTS of very strong braxtons but it's been ignored.

So, they 'don't know' why I am tachycardic and keep getting episodes of breathlessness and I'm to go back if it gets bad/worse again. What a waste of time! And I ended up in a right state last night crying my eyes out several times (also cried when I walked into my appointment - all she said was 'hello, how are you?' JEEEEZE!)

jaffa COngratulations on your good news - a healthy little girl. As far as I know the risk of cvs complicated miscarriage is in the 48hours after the procedure, but some wpmen have a little bit of spotting that will go on for longer than that. That's no doubt what the peach coloured discharge is and although I know I WOULD worry, you've past the real danger zone and this is somewhat of a mild 'hangover'.

That said. When you say driving to penzance... are YOU driving? If you really, really must take the trip then it's got to be as 'easy' on you as possible. And as you have had a good result, I think you should share with the people you're spending time with that you're to take it easy too. Don't get roped in to pitching in with cooking and cleaning up after people - you're fragile at the moment (not made of glass, or needing wrapping in cotton wool completely but you DO need some tlc).

Oooh, marbles and marff are cycle buddies...

manda i need a shitting BFP this month otherwise i am going to shag DH senseless in June.

sheesh sorry about that liddle outburst, i am a hormonal wreck at the moment i keep seeing babies and bumps everwhere and getting all teary eyed - not jealousy just, 'marffness'!

Anyway manda i am getting all fretty about you at the moment, whilst on my lunch earlier i was trying to work out your dates and whether you are in labour, god knows what i am going to be like when you do go into labour

i think with anaemia they automatically test your thyroid (i know ALL about this as my good old Nanna is going through anaemia investigations), i hope all is ok, although maybe they are on overdrive as you are, well, fit to drop?

Well you lot will be the first to know when AF-v-BFP situ arises this weekend

jaffa wonderful news about your daughter! I hope the discharge goes away soon and you can rest peacefully for a while.

I had my scan, we have 1 baby, with heartbeat and spot on fluid measurements for down, also 1 baby who refused to let us see anything but it's bottom for the majority of the time.

Sickness has ramped up, cannot even keep water down now, did a classy spot of being sick in a bush outside the hospital and again in a carrier bag in the car.

Much love to all, here is hoping May is full of BFPs for you all.

Big hug to manda too, take it easy lady and look after yourself, I hope things get resolved soon.

woo hoo tits my DS was the same, showing his bottom, and has continued in the same vein for the last three years i remember having to redo my 20 week scan at 21 weeks as he lay there arse akimbo!!

Great news tits!

Congratulations tits that's great news.

manda sounds like there's a lot they don't know, but so long as you are doing ok that's the main thing