Ladies, I've just been reading one of the Fertility Friends boards and came across one lady who said:
"I found something out yesterday that surprised me, have you had your partners sperm tested? I spoke to the clinic yesterday and it was the lady there that actually does all the testing and profile , she advised me that in 50% of early before 10 wk miscarriages it's the sperm causing the problem and there is so much advice that can be given to improve and correct this. "
Now ... I just wondered, how many of your OH's have had their wrigglies tested? I asked Mr S when we first saw him if we could get my OH tested, and he was very against it. His comment was along the lines of "if he's got you pregnant 3 times, then there's nothing wrong with his sperm". Me knowing about sperm DNA fragmentation queried this, but Mr S basically said he felt there was no point in getting OH tested.
I've often since wondered, but with Mr S being against it, we've missed the boat now to get our healthcare to pay for it (they were ok with any tests needed for both me and OH to start with). And I'm a bit cross, because that will always be an unknown factor, whether there is in fact an issue with OH (as well as my own).
So were any of your OH's tested, just out of interested?