Sorry I have been away for so long. Just found it hard to keep up and had nothing to tell you all so stayed away!
Mojangles I am so very sorry for you and your BFP. I was so much hoping for a different scenario. And I am so sorry I was not here for you. I will post about my immunes situation in a minute so you can read and see but not sure I can shed too much light on it, but will try. 
Bugsy so sorry for you too, my dear. Very sad when you said of the hospital waiting place " ...dreadful place even though new build. Happy preg ladies and grieving ladies in same v small area." Sincerely hope you are OK.
Scrummybumb what's happening with your immunes, honey? Thanks for asking after me. I am not sure why you might need IVIG, because Intralipids are much, much cheaper and are not a blood product. Take a look at the Intranet, maybe www.carefertility.com/ivf/viewtopic.php?t=39200 I CANNOT verify all this information but it is a start, it is from Care. Send news soon and thinking of you.
sunnyg so sorry it's been so crap , just read about your disastrous day of BFP, locked out and Af! Sorry too about this 40 day wait. I know how you feel about timing. I am desperate to do the cycle before mid March because I've worked out DD will be 8 in November and I don't want another birthday for her before we can give her a sib, or at least end this fertility journey! I don't mean I've only just worked out when she will be 8! I mean I know how long it will all take if we are ever so lucky and it works! Which with all the sad/bad news on this thread currently seems highly unlikely! Sorry to be negative. Also so sorry you had a bad time at the clinic.
OH Josie a facebook counter of how big your friend's baby is, that sounds dire. I am not sure why people are so insensitive, and also why they think everyone else will be interested in every tiny detail of their pregnancy! It's crazy. I just read about the clinic - saying they don't think you will respond well! I am not sure how they know exactly, whatever happens I do hope they will go for it. Three eggs is three eggs even if you get three, and if you only get two or three would they be able to switch to IUI and do IUI on you? Is it worth asking, and if it doesn?t work can you have another go on the NHS or are you paying for this? Why is it the last one? You said 19th Feb, we can be cycle buddies! I really hope it will go well for you.
Is anyone else a possible cycle buddy for me (anytime starting in Feb?).
Josie, honey so sorry that your friend is driving you mad, mine is too but I am just rising above it! I now try hard not to engage in conversations about her pregnancy, I found if I did not respond to her wittering eventually she shut up (and she is still a very dear friend). So I found it easier to just mentally switch off and avoid her when I could but if it helps then do tell your friend about your situation.
Weller so very sorry you did not respond to the drugs. I responded better to Menopur than Gonal F. I do wonder if some people respond better to some drugs than others. You have NOT* let anyone down, our bodies are just (SADLY) not doing what some other women's bodies do, and some of us may have partners whose bodies are not doing what other fellers can do! It's just life, but no one is lettering anyone down. Please don't be cross with yourself. Maybe you are over that aspect of it, because I've just read through the last few weeks!
Lissy HONEY, hope all is well. Thanks for asking after me a couple of times, I do appreciate it. 20th Feb, wow, wow, wow, that is so great. I am so very excited for you. Good luck with those noisy neighbours, blast them with baby noise soon! How lovely you remembered the chocolate boobs 
!
Pocket how is it going? I am so glad it is all sorted. Allow yourself time to grieve. I had a D and C after missed miscarriage and to be honest it seemed a good thing to get it all sorted (after initially hoping it would all happen naturally - I know we often feel it is better for things to happen naturally but if it does not it is at least good to have a safe, clean procedure). It may help to do something, like plant a plant or a tree or whatever helps you. I signed a book of remembrance on the ward and went back to visit the book a couple of times. Helps some people. Yes, we are a bloomin' strong bunch! Thanks for asking after me. How lovely you remembered the chocolate boobs too!
Lucy how is it going? Thinking of you. Did you have Intralipids? Was it OK?
Keziah how are you, honey? When is your due date?
Teds Hugs to you, how is it going? Thanks for missing me. Thinking of you.
Rowing do you still look in on us?
monkeybumsmum, hi, welcome back, and hope all will go well, and thanks for asking after me.
SlightlyBabyCrazed hi, welcome and hoping you will find success soon.
hi Lexie and Minih and welcome. Love and hugs to Chutneyandcheese and Beginnings, and all and any I missed.