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raspberrytipple · 15/12/2011 07:45

New thread..... let's get going!!

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SweetieDoesIt · 30/12/2011 16:25

Hi Ladies,
Sorry I have been AWOL lately, just found the combo of Christmas and TTC hard work emotionally. Not sure being off work and the spare thinking time has helped. It is a whole year since we decided to TTC, taking folic acid etc and I think it has played heavily on my mind. Naively I expected to be preggers or bouncing a bubba on my hip by now.

I have been lurking over the holidays

Hopefully I will be back in the swing of things in the New Year.

PuggyMum · 30/12/2011 17:54

Pah! It's official. AF arrived today... A day early. At least I can enjoy the New Year Celebrations a bit more now! DH was lovely and said we'll try harder this month with a glint in his eye so he'll be happy!! First official time trying so not too disheartened and the main thing for me has been the fact I am at the in laws with very little to do so time has dragged!!!

When I'm back at work (and the gym!) time goes much faster!!!

Out tonight with DH's best pal and wife and they are having a party tomorrow so I won't have time to wallow :) Keeping my chin up ready for round 2......

Happy New Year folks x heres to 2012.

Limejelly · 30/12/2011 18:20

Oh that's a shame puggymum, good luck for next time. At least you can enjoy new year now!

Happy new Year Smile

Fairygodmother1 · 30/12/2011 19:18

Winter - my advice is do do it when you feel like & enjoy it! We've had months where we were doing it for the sake of doing it - getting frustrated cos really nether were enjoying it as we should! It's so easy to become obsessed. Easier said than done! Plus Mother Nature is very much a woman - totally unpredictable!!! She hasn't helped me in 4 years!!!

Thats a shame Pug

Nappy New Year all! Xmas Grin

raspberrytipple · 30/12/2011 19:31

Evening ladies!
AF seems to have got me today. warning TMI ...... Had bloody awful cramps this morning, I seem to get it every few months where I have so much pain I'm slumped on the loo crying/heaving to be sick and unable to move/feeling faint. It lasts about 20 minutes then eases off and just becomes mild cramps and bloating from that point. But then next month my period will probably just arrive unannounced in the morning. I don't really understand it. What are everyone else's periods like? Mine tend to be mid afternoon some light spotting then on the 'first day' extremely heavy, I can fill a super size tampax in two hrs. Day two tends to be very light then day three is just spotting. Does this sound normal along with the extreme pain this morning which coincidentally I have only had some very light spotting since later in the afternoon today? Sorry for the mammoth write up on my menstrual cycle but I'm not sure if this is normal?

Anyway - welcome to winter and Kalidasa. winter I fully intend to go back to work if I ever manage to get a baby. I don't have a particularly stressful job though so would probably go back part time but I don't think I could not work.

sorry to hear AF arrived puggy but here's to a few nice drinkies over New Year Wine

cave I have to say I had forgotten what a busy bunny you are! How are the Salsa classes going? Are they busy? I'd love to try Salsa but there's no way I could convince DH to go - no matter how much he loves watching the girls on Strictly :)

Fairy you sound like me with the crying! I cry at everything and now as AF is pretty much here I'm starting to regret agreeing to going out tomorrow evening as I know I'll end up blubbing by midnight due to lack of baby. Not much crying can do about it but Wine has that affect on me

Josie that book sounds good! How is the baking going? I will definitely visit to eat cake if you do open a shop :)

Hey Sweetie you are not alone, it seems as though a few of us have felt it this year, it is a shite time of year for us childless girls/guys as Christmas is 'all about the Children'. I nearly snapped today when my cousin asked when we would have babies as his LOs would love it (they are 4 and 3 years). I think he may have guessed though as I just went all misty eyed (nearly lost it and cried for the first time ever but then 3 yr old knee'd DH in the groin which just made me wince!!) and said 'we'll see' and it didn't get brought up again.

to anyone I've missed or any lurkers Xmas Grin

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JosieSmith1 · 30/12/2011 22:02

Hi everyone, sorry for AF Puggy

My cycles are fairly regular in all aspects Raspberry so I can't really give you any advice I'm afraid. The baking is going well, just finished putting some more piccies on my website www.joscakerybakery.moonfruit.com if anyone fancies a nosy around Smile

Yes Winter I do make cupcakes but I prefer to make proper english fairy cakes instead Grin, too much icing on cupcakes for me (despite having possibly the world's sweetest tooth Grin)

A friend who I got in touch with about difficulty TTCing has been in touch again. She has a son who she conceived whilst on clomid due to PCOS but now she's been trying 4 years for her second and the clomid doesn't seem to be working this time round and they won't give her ivf with her already having one son. She's very low Sad Life's a bitch sometimes

Winkly · 01/01/2012 03:05

AF a day late...

Braced for let down tomorrow.

Fairygodmother1 · 01/01/2012 07:52

Have you tested yet Winkly?

Happy New Year all!

Winkly · 01/01/2012 08:43

fairy - negative :(

raspberrytipple · 01/01/2012 08:56

Hang in there winkly, it's not over til the fat red bitch arrives :)

Happy New Year all!

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Fairygodmother1 · 01/01/2012 09:17

Like raspberry said, not over yet - give it a few days!!!

raspberrytipple · 01/01/2012 10:19

morning all! Who is nursing a massive hangover then! I'm not too bad, didn't go overboard and we were home by 10.30 p.m. as DH was hammered and had a migraine. Other than me having a meltdown most of yesterday and crying most of the day we actually had quite a nice evening but we left before the pubs got busy. Desperately keeping fingers crossed that this time next year I'm stuck at home NYE trying to comfort a screaming baby!

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SantasCave · 01/01/2012 10:24

Morning raspberry, no hangover to report here, even though DH and I polished off 2 bottles of wine last night! We stayed in, watched a DVD and then channel hopped for a few hours till midnight. Very rock and roll!

I'm starting this year in a positive frame of mind - this year we WILL get our babies!

Happy New Year to everyone!

WinterMymble · 01/01/2012 11:07

Happy new year everyone! We had some spectacular firework displays because the city gets pretty enthusiastic about this time of year. Stunning!

Josie i like your cake site. Especially the wedding cake!

PuggyMum · 01/01/2012 11:38

No hangover here which is odd as went out on the Friday night and felt like death yesterday and I had drank a lot less! Although I've got killer period pains! So ibuprofen is for that!!

Went to a friends house where DH's group of friends were with their kids! Took the dogs and the PIL even came too! FIL had bought some fireworks so he'll go down in history with all the (very well behaved!) kids. Staggered home at 2am. DH can't remember the getting home / nightcap bit! Thank goodness it wasn't swi time!!!

Going for a long walk this afternoon to blow away 2011!

Much love to all x x

DessieLou · 01/01/2012 14:12

Hi Ladies! Hope you are all ok today. Had a good night last night but bloody knackered today. Got in at 5am Blush, SWI and then was drunkenly doing handstands to give the swimmers a helping hand!!! Must have looked ridiculous.
rasp your periods sound just like mine. I normally come on overnight but am crippled for the first day, less cramps the second, then spotting for a day or two...AF is a bitch.
Hello to the New Year newbies! This thread is going to be very lucky this year, lots of BFP's just you wait and see! Grin

DessieLou · 01/01/2012 14:26

PS - tax man gave me very nice xmas pressie in the form of a £700 cheque!!!! [gloating face] Grin

Fairygodmother1 · 01/01/2012 16:01

No hang over here - I also cahnnel hopped, watched fims & a few drinks with DH.
Rasp - my af is also very similar to yours, consultant suspected Endo but not at all!

Well done Dessie - bet that came in handy!

New year & haven't had my bang yet!!!!

WaitingForMe · 01/01/2012 18:40

Small dinner ended up a bit of a mammoth drinking session for us so I'm hungover. I was pretty impressed with DH and I for nevertheless managing to DTD at 3am though clearly the award goes to DessieLou for acrobatics if not the even later hour!

I'm all ready to be angelic now though. No more booze for me well until AF

Winkly · 02/01/2012 08:41

Good effort with the handstands dessie!

Quiet NYE here, DH working so I had a few glasses of bucks fizz with afriend at home. Had a great Sunday roast at MIL's yesterday.

I had a tiny bit of spotting yesterday and thought AF had started -but then nothing. My periods are normally fairly heavy but I've not even needed a panty liner. Frustrating - if I'm not pregnant my body ought to get on with it like normal!

Beeblebear · 02/01/2012 09:53

FTF here. Hi everyone.
(30) ttc #1 ucl ?? 28 to 34 days I guess. 4 months off the pill but first month not preventing. Into the tww now I think. I was a bit naughty on nye, but no handstands. Lol

raspberrytipple · 02/01/2012 10:00

blimey - back to work for me tomorrow :( Still, house is all tidied up and the washing done etc. Shopping is being delivered later so at least I'm ready to get back to it full pelt. Sort of. Off to the in-laws today as haven't made it up over Christmas really apart from Christmas Eve.

Impressed with the handstand Dessie I tried that once and nearly went off the side of the bed. Even more impressed with the late hour you were doing it, I was asleep by 11.30 p.m.! Im hardcore like that though.

Hope AF either turns up soon or stays away for nine months winkly it's so frustrating when our bodies decide to play games.

Fairy it's funny you mention Endo as I've never really thought of myself as having that but these last few cycles I have started to wonder. Something they'll check out this year I supposed.

Impressed with all those who survived NY with no hang over Grin

Hell beeblebear and welcome to the made house! Hope you have a short stay Smile

Suppose I best get up and make the most of the last day!

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Fairygodmother1 · 02/01/2012 10:18

Well I know there isn't endo there for me so must be a symptom of my PCOS!

littlemisslemon · 02/01/2012 15:57

Hello everyone. I am new to all of this! Have been reading the thread for a couple of weeks but thought I would stop lurking and join in if thats ok?
Im 27, DH is 30, TTC #1. Stopped taking the pill in Dec after 10yrs. Just thought we'd see how things go.
Thought this thread looked like a nice friendly place to share experiences/tips etc. :)

Ratata · 02/01/2012 16:15

Hey again all and happy new year! I liked DessieLou who said she was doing drunken handstands. Perhaps that's the magical trick to getting pregnant :D

I'm still waiting on my period. It's a week late so far but have just come off the pill so that will be why. Last time I came off it was 2 weeks late. Annoying when you have started TTC and looking for signs of pg and period is really late! Done 2 tests but both negative. Now getting pains down below so probably period on it's way. I usually get sore boobs though and that's not happened yet. Frustrating!

SweetieDoesIt I am like that too, only just started TTC and feel it will just happen in the first month but know its highly unlikely. Doesn't help that a few folk around me in RL got pg in first month.