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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

No more Pill!! This is it!! Starting a JULY-AUG 2012 bus...

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PipIsOutNow · 11/10/2011 16:08

Hey guys!! Have taken the big step of coming of the Pill to TTC another DC. This will be DC number 2 - already have DS who is 15 months old and a DSD who is 7 years. We have spoken about another baby for a while now but it has now become more of a reality now that we have decided to stop using any contraception!! I am so so excited but know all too well about this horrible waiting game of patience which seems to get worse even after a BFP as then it's the painful wait for a 12 week scan!! (although this time I may pay for a private scan) I have had a MC before DS was born so am also aware of not getting to ahead of myself...but I'm so excited nonetheless!! I bought my friend a little present for her brand new (with tags on) baby girl and was so so broody. Cant wait for my turn now!!

Sorry for the long warbling post. This is such a hard time, the pre TTC, the waiting for BFP or BFN etc etc...I am the most impatient person in the world as it is...and to not to be able to tell anyone in RL makes it even harder!!

Hope there will be some ladies in the same boat as me!! Look forward to meeting u and sharing journeys!!

Lots of love, Pip xx

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CauldronOfBrownJoy · 04/11/2011 22:41

I would drink to being positive Vino, but I'm trying so hard to have a month off alcohol before Xmas. I'm drinking too much, plus I need to lose a few pounds, plus it helps ttc, surely?

Its sooooo hard though!! I'll have a Brew instead Smile

Fishpond · 04/11/2011 23:43

Yay for everyone being so positive!

I'm feeling poopy this eve - about this close (holds fingers very close together) to upchucking the dinner I haven't eaten yet but just ordered from Domino's Hmm

Fingers crossed I don't get ill - big day at work tomorrow Sad

Goodnight lovely ladies!

Vinolover · 05/11/2011 07:06

It' alright Cauldron, I had a Caffiene free diet coke instead too! I'm trying to cut down on my drinking, especially around O time! Chocolate I can't give up for anyone though!!

Right, back to work for a 12 hour shift :( I certainly know how to have fun on a Saturday!!

Hope you're feeling better Fish

kirrinIsland · 05/11/2011 09:16

Morning all :)

What are everyone's plans for today?

I'm taking DD to the working farm for a coffee (me, not her - she can have milk) and then heading to some friends tonight for fireworks.

Bad luck on the 12 shift Vino - I remember those :( Spent 7 years doing that every Saturday

kirrinIsland · 05/11/2011 09:17

12 hour* shift

Sarah5656 · 05/11/2011 09:54

Still no AF Sad or Smile depending if the witch is actually just late or I'm pregnant!
Now 4 days late, I'm going to test again later today with a first response, shall let you know how I get on Smile fingers crossed this limbo is horrible

CauldronOfBrownJoy · 05/11/2011 09:55

Well I am amazed at my powers of guesswork prediction - AF is here bang on 28 days after my withdrawal bleed! Do I presume I'm back on regular cycles? I wouldn't be surprised as am usually pretty regular and was only on the pill 3 months last time...

The downside is I feel like utter poo. Lurching stomach, nausea, massive bloating and discomfort. AF, don't we just love her!!? Smile

Fishpond · 05/11/2011 10:11

Well done Cauldron, can you predict if I'll survive another 3-4 days without testing? Grin

Grandma still in hospital, her doctors are coming round this morning to tell her how they plan to proceed.

I'm off to a 9-hour shift at work but all I have to do today is shadow one of our head managers so I'm excited about that!

Only 1 more day til I can possibly get a positive on a First Response, I haven't peed on anything in over a week now so I'm anxious! Grin

CauldronOfBrownJoy · 05/11/2011 10:31

my prediction waters are telling me......... not a chance! Grin

MinkyMoodles · 05/11/2011 10:37

Sounds like AF is doing her rounds, nasty b*tch!! Eff off!:(

I've finally untied DP so he can have a rest! Wink

This baby making is causing a lot of giggles, making things less hard than they should be iykwim! We tried the big mug of coffee method this morning, I wonder if it actually helps?!Confused

Any one going to bonfires and fireworks tonight? DP will no doubt suggest we go up on the moors to watch everyone else's! Tight Yorkshire boy!Hmm

MM xx

MinkyMoodles · 05/11/2011 10:38

Fish I hope you get some positive news today about your Grandma xx

CauldronOfBrownJoy · 05/11/2011 10:44

WTF is the big mug of coffee method!?

Am missing out on Guy Fawkes here in Germany. DP has offered to set fire to the garden fence in lieu. I have politely declined.... Smile

MinkyMoodles · 05/11/2011 11:19

Apparently, myth/just a load of bollocks, it gives the swimmers a boost!

I'm willing to try anything, within reason!!

DP is finding all this baby making rather entertaining and has been game, bless. He also admitted to reading up about 'stuff' instead of leaving all the myths for me to find!

Is Guy Fawes just a British thing?(I'm thick Confused) I missed it last year as we were in Vancouver (love that place)

MM xx

CupOfBrownJoy · 05/11/2011 14:09

yes, just British. Houses of Parliament and all that...

MinkyMoodles · 05/11/2011 15:56

Here's an odd one, for the last three days, around 3.30pm or say mid afternoon, I've felt really sick! It lasts 2 or 3 hours :(

Had positive OPK last night and lots of EWCM so I'm assuming it's linked to ovulation?

Anyone else get this?

Sarah5656 · 05/11/2011 16:35

POAS (again) first response early test. Still BFN think I should just give up hope, AF is just late Sad

CupOfBrownJoy · 05/11/2011 16:37

No, I can't say I do, Minky. The only thing I get around OV is a faint crampy feeling and increased CM... Odd one...

Sorry to hear about the BFN Sarah Sad

cherrypiew3 · 05/11/2011 20:13

Evening Ladies

sarah sorry about the BFN but its not over till you know who shows her ugly head.

Minky I always eem to get period type pains around ovulation never feel sick though.

Have had a lovely afternoon my friend came over with her brand new baby so have had lots of baby cuddles. Now she has gone though all I can think about is how much I really want one.

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Vinolover · 05/11/2011 21:06

Good evening ladies :)

Sorry about your AF Cauldron Im taking today as day 1 as yesterday didn't amount to anything at all but today it has certainly come!! Looks like we're the same again :)

There's still lots of hope left Sarah

Have you any news yet on your Grandmother Fish?

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Sarah5656 · 06/11/2011 08:28

Tested this morning's first wee with a first response and....... I'M PREGNANT!!! Grin
Although very faint there is a second pink line Grin
Think obviously the obsessive POASer that I am I will test again in a couple of days just to get a darker line.
When I tested a few days ago there was a grey second line but this time it was defiantly pink Grin

YorkshireTeaAddict · 06/11/2011 08:48

Congratulations Sarah!!! Yay yay yay!!

Minky please explain in full what is the coffee thingy method????

I hope you are all well. I am due to OV next Friday, but I am certain I got some EWCM yesterday. So, I acted upon it!!!

Ladies, is it even possible to ovulate the month you come off the pill?

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Fishpond · 06/11/2011 09:07

Congrats again Sarah! 2 graduates!!

I'm 8 dpo and did a test this morning - BFN. I will probably end up testing every day until AF shows Sad

My grandma isn't doing well, it's cancer that is causing the blockage, if it doesn't sort itself out on it's own in the next few days she will need surgery. However she needs more chemo and the doc said if she has to wait to start chemo until after she recovers from surgery it may be too late for it to be effective Sad

So fingers crossed it sorts itself out and she is ok soon. Just makes me more certain of the "life is short" mantra and more sure that I want to be pregnant like yesterday!!

Had a horrid day at work yesterday, hopin today's better but doubt it! Have a good day my lovelies.

MinkyMoodles · 06/11/2011 09:17

Morning Ladies!

Congratulations Sarah Woooo hoo fab news! :)

Yorkshire I read somewhere that the caffine wakes the swimmers up a bit and gives them a boost so thought, why not? Get DH to bathe in coffee for two hours prior to SWI!!Wink Only kidding, down a mug or two 15 mins before Grin

I came off Pop pill about three ish weeks ago, AF around the usual time and have had a smilie on my Opk, it states on distructions that smilie = ovulating so I'm guessing you can!

I've had (tmi coming up) excessive EWCM since Friday am (smilie friday pm) so DP has been on duty non stop!

How long does this excessive EWCM last?

Any info mucho appreciated!

DP has just demanded his first coffee. Hmmm sounds like I might get lucky again this morning Wink he's taking it all very seriously! Bless him!

MM x