Sixth Form Common Room part IV - ttc and pregnancy post mc

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This is the place to be if you are ttc post mc / pregnancy loss and need a little spot to call home.

Just logged on to see how it went AandR. I'm so sorry. That is utterly, utterly crap. :(

Oh god I am so sorry aandr . I was so hoping for a happy outcome today. Is there any chance things could change? Big (((hugs))) lovely xxx

Oh AandR I'm so sorry to hear this. How devastating for you. Bug hug for you

Oh no AandR - I'm so sorry to hear that. So horribly unfair. Will you stop taking the progesterone now? What else were you on - aspirin? Are there any more tests you could have done to find out what's causing this? I'm really very sorry

Oh A&R I am so terribly sorry its shit shit shit!! Why did she seem so certain it was not viable (sorry i hate that word)? 3.6mm doesn't sound too far out? How far do you think you should be? 6 weeks ish? Despertaley hoping she is wrong. 2 weeks is a long wait, can they not see you sooner? xxxxx

AandR I'm so so sorry . I hope that you've got plenty of rl support right now and that you are able to take things easy for a while xxxx

Remind me, what investigations have you had?

You are in my thoughts xxx

Oh aandr I'm so vey sorry to hear that. There are no words to describe how shitty that is. And this 2 week wait is horrible, I'm sorry you have to go through this again xx

Thanks Am fine at the moment - always takes me a bit to process things and I guess I had prepared for the worst. I think the two weeks is mainly to see if it will happen naturally and to assuage a slight amount of uncertainty. I am fine about the wait at the moment but if it becomes too much, I may ask for another scan earlier just to confirm. I am not keen for another ERPC though. Fx . She says she can recommend me to St Mary's at Paddington but seemed doubtful as to whether they can help. Could someone give me Dr S's details? I will see if I can get on his waiting list. I have only had the normal rmc tests which have all been normal. I have a thyroid cyst but it doesn't affect my thyroid function. I have been feeling crap so had hoped it was ok but obviously there is an issue. I am not sure why she was certain - the scan is so blurry it was hard to define anything other than the sac and yolk but she expected pulsations?! I am 7w by last af but 6+4 based on the last scan and when I ov ...

Have pm'ed you AandR

Was it an external scan you had? Am wondering why they're not recommending another scan next week.

Thanks AandRMum - you are def right re the wtf cycle. I got a pos opk on thur v early morning so we had some baby dancing but then myself and DD were on a planned trip to my family. DH arrives in the morning, not sure if it's worth BD again, time has probably passed although I dunno maybe it's worth another try. I just feel a bit down like it's realistically not going to happen this month even though I'd desperately love it to.

Thanks Izzy. Hope your DD is better?

Welcome Twittwoo I'm new here myslf!

Welcome confu3ed

Hi Itsabear how are you feeling now? You are having such a rough time of it. Thinking of you for your scan next week.

Congrats Ladym - FANTASTIC news1!!

Awh AandR I just saw your more recent post, i'm so so so sorry to hear your news. I hope you have lots of RL support, that's so incredibly tough. So so sorry.

So sorry AandR. Life can be so incredibly unfair sometimes. Thinking of you.

So sorry to hear your news AandR, you must be going through such a tough time. I hope you're getting all the support you need. Thinking of you.

AandR I'm so sorry to hear that, it really is shit.

Oh AandR I'm so sorry to see this news, I'm a bit confused as to why the dr was so sure though - 3.6 is about right for 6+3/6+4, I can't link on the phone but try having a look at www.baby2see.com - they shouldn't diagnose non- viable unless it's reached 5mm without seeing heartbeat, or you see no more growth in the follow-up scan. Could you book a private one a bit earlier to see if things are progressing? Two weeks is a long time to wait. Oh you poor thing, so unfair. Take as easy as possible.

Holy shit....

[terror]

Mouse????? Does this mean what I think it does???? arms self with pom poms.....

What what mouse?????

Aghhh!!!! WHOOP!!!!! Just got your PM!!!

AMAZING news my lovely and on such a milestone. This is your time, I know it!

May the mentalling begin (no point denying it)!!!

Yes!!!!!!!!

It's true! Got a probable, don't be ridiculous it can't be line, on an IC yesterday (9dpo!!) and another today - seriously, I needed a magnifying glass and a halogen torch to see these lines SO...

FR tonight and definately BFP!

Already sressing that it's a chemical... aaagghh!

WOOOOO mouse!!!

Yay woohooo mouse lovely news

*stressing

Thank you ladies

mouse Its totally understandable to be stressing, but try not to (ha) Thinking positive sticky vibes for you. X

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

mouse super thrilled to hear your news, so, so delighted for you x x