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Sixth Form Common Room part IV - ttc and pregnancy post mc

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mousebacon · 21/08/2011 20:43

Roll up, roll up...

This is the place to be if you are ttc post mc / pregnancy loss and need a little spot to call home.

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LadyMaybe · 18/09/2011 23:46

Caribou! how lovely to see you again, and thank you Blush I'm too scared to poke my nose on the grads thread to say anything just yet, but I'm terribly aware that lots of me ol'muckers are about to or have already popped. And your little boy at 16 weeks already Shock how scrumptious Grin. How has it been with your daughter? Is she fine with it all or has there been an element of rivalry? I guess DS isn't really up to interrupting her games etc so maybe not much of issue so far?
yes, 'shitting it' is exactly what I'm doing. Although, to be honest, mostly I'm just pissed off with the early pregnancy crapness of generalised nausea, occasional sickness, tiredness and food aversions that have come along right on schedule. I keep thinking, 'oh god, if I'm going to lose this one too, couldn't it happen BEFORE I have to spend several weeks being miserable'. Hey ho. I think if it doesn't work out this time that might be me done trying for no.2. I was in an ok place before the BFP in terms of accepting us as a one-child family and me as a mother-of-one.

MissTina sorry about all the spotting, no wonder you're feeling tired, I'd press for a referral on Tuesday, be brave squashes tiny bit of optimistic thought back into box and just shuts up

AandR did your friend have her CS baby ok? I've suddenly realised that my two friends who are pg are due in a couple of months which seems to have come up quite quickly. I'd better get my knitting sticks going a bit quicker - had plans to give them lovely handmade presents. How are you doing? Hanging in there? Scan is just a few days away now.

digi!!!!! you're at 10 weeks!!! bloody hell lady. That's quite good going. You're being scanned again this week aren't you?

Velvetcu I googled PGP and you have my utmost sympathy - that must be so difficult as a teacher too, such an unforgiving profession! Are you close to any flotation tanks? I forget where you live but there's one by London bridge that I went to in my first pg and it's absolutely marvellous. Warm, floating, weightlessness, not claustrobic - I really recommend it and hopefully it would help with some pain.

batteryhen I'm soooo pleased that AF finally turned up. It would have been too too much to have to go through a whole Asherman's thing as well after what you've been though, you must have been very scared and I'm pleased that this, at least, has been a positive story for you. So...you're with Mr S now aren't you? Did I remember that right? Are you going onto steroids?

Itsabear Well Done You! on getting your GP to run some tests, that it brilliant work. I've had some success with putting sensible research papers in front of my consultant's nose when they wanted to poo poo my risk factors. I do think that much of the time it's not lack of care or interest, but lack of time to read/research for many GPs (and sadly, specialists too now). So great.this link is quite a good summary of the tests etc. Do try to make sure you get print outs of the results. Sorry you're still showing positive though. That's hard. The last traces of HCG can take quite a while to disappear. I think the half-life is about 2-4 days (that's the amount of time it takes for the level to decrease by half), but obviously that means a rapid drop when the levels are high to slowing drop when they're lower.

edwardcullensotherwoman · 19/09/2011 01:02

Hi ladies! Sorry I've been away for so long - the past 2 weeks has gone so quick! (well, now I look back it has, but didn't at the time, IYSWIM).

I'll pop back in again tomorrow to catch up individually, but hope everyone's doing ok.

Lady, should we add additional info to the stats thread, here or by PM to you? (Never been on a stats thread before!)

AandRMum · 19/09/2011 21:41

LadyM I almost envy you your symptoms - I have vaguely sore boobs, slightly red cheeks and am very leaky - I fear this isn't enough to convince me that this one is sticking around! I have everything crossed for you. When is your next scan? Hope you feel a bit better soonish. My friend had a beautiful boy all safe and sound.

Battery what a long haul - acupuncture seems to work wonders. Hopefully, your body has been pinned into submission and is going to cooperate fully from this point forward.

caribou lovely to hear from you. I love success stories - it can all seem so impossible in the midst of it all but most of the posse from when I started on here a year ago are either safely up duffed or with smalls ... I need to remember that ....

Anyone seen dachs knitter or jollster about?

Waves to all

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 19/09/2011 21:55

aandr those symptoms sound good to me! Are you still on the progesterone? How're you feeling?

ladymb you sound very together...I'm hoping you're doing ok

battery yay for af - I'm a huge believer in acupuncture but that's a really good result; guess you're pretty relieved?

Tina the spotting sounds crap, hope you manage to get some decent advice

Good luck to anyone swi-ing and on the 2ww - sorry for not name-checking more, am on phone and can't scroll back to re-read posts Angry

Loup23 · 19/09/2011 22:20

Spotting started so I'm out again Sad sorry for me post but starting to think I might never have children.... We swi over all the days am just Confused as to why it won't happen.., will amend stats and start month 10 of ttc Angry

Waves to all and leaves bedtime hot choc and marshmallows by way of apology !

batteryhen · 19/09/2011 22:28

evening ladies.

bear - I had a medical management with my first MMC. Although it was not succesful (velcro womb) -I did bleed for ages after, but once the bleeding stopped I went back to normal AF quite quickly. I have now had 2 ERPC's and I would not have another if I could avoid it. Even though I hated the medical management - my body still recovered quicker. Boo for still showing positive, the frustration is a killer.
lady - Yes I am under MR S. I start the steroids around OV then stop if not pregnant. I have only had one cycle so not too bad yet. You are right - I was so relieved when AF turned up. Ashermans at this stage of the game would have been crap. I am hopeful for my next cycle now!
izzy I really do rate acupunture. My lady is so good and knowledegeable, - that alone relaxes me!
AandR - How are you? - I am hopeful that I have beaten my body into submission and will get a lovely sticky BFP soon! x

Well my news is that we should be moving house next week. On my ovulation day. Great timing! However - stranger things have happened so we shall see! This house move is taking ages, but I firmly believe that our new house is the one we shall start our little family in :)

MissTinaTeaspoon · 20/09/2011 10:57

Sorry to hear that loup Sad

I'm back from the gp and not really any the wiser. She had a good rummage about and said that the blood is coming from my uterus, although there is a definite cervical erosion there. She's putting it down to hormones but has sent swabs to rule out an infection. The only cure if it continues is the pill which is obviously not an option.

AandRMum · 20/09/2011 13:22

Loup that just sucks Sad I have noted that at the point of deepest despair there have been a number of bfps so I am holding out hope for next month and a juicy bfp.

MissTinaTeaspoon · 20/09/2011 15:52

I don't know if any of you know but mn are campaigning to improve miscarriage care, there's a survey in sitestuff if anyone wants to do it? Sorry, I cant link from the app

Velvetcu · 21/09/2011 10:41

Have fallen off the thread, just going to read back and catch up now

digitalgirl · 21/09/2011 13:22

tina thanks for the heads up on that. I think I've already filled in that questionnaire. My care has actually been very good, I can't fault my local EPU...I just decided not go there this time because of the bad memories.

loup sorry to hear you're spotting again Sad

AandR how are you? Managing to distract yourself sufficiently?

batteryhen good luck with moving next week - you'll just have to make sure you christen the house as soon as you get the keys!

Just checking in to say my scan went well this morning. Am 10+3 and have been 'graduated' from St Marys. Am booking in with the local midwife tomorrow morning and have my official dating scan in 3 weeks. So far so good. Feel a bit stunned to be honest.

MissTinaTeaspoon · 21/09/2011 13:39

Grin for digi Grin

I did a test this morning (10 dpo) and got a bfn Sad. I've emailed an acupuncture clinic that was recommended to me and I'm going there next Thursday. On the plus side, no spotting yet today...

digitalgirl · 21/09/2011 18:55

Oh Tina I never believe bfn's at 10dpo! Good news on booking the acupuncture, I've been having it regularly for over a year now.

mousebacon · 21/09/2011 19:07

Hello ladies! I am still here just been so busy with work (and really have nothing of interest to say!)

Just popping by to say congrats to digi I'm so pleased for you Grin

I'm currently on cd30 with no temp rise but I'm hoping it should be tomorrow. I've had 3 days of positive opks ... I'm so sick of swi!

Will catch up properly when I'm not on my phone.

Xx

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MissTinaTeaspoon · 21/09/2011 19:14

digi you must be rich then! She didn't tell me the price until after I'd booked!Hmm

TomboyWife · 21/09/2011 19:34

Evening ladies!

digi congrats on another good scan and here's to 7.5 more months of complete non-events. Smile

Loup sorry you're feeling so down. Sad As other people have said, sometimes good things happen just when you've given up hope that they ever will.

Tina I'm not sure I'd call that BFN definitive just yet.

Sorry I've been a bit scarce the last few days. I've been busy starting my new job, and bricking it in anticipation of starting my new job. I'm not sure why I was so nervous, everything has been fine and there was no reason to think it wouldn't be.

AandRMum · 22/09/2011 07:51

Digi brilliant news. So pleased.

Tina it is expensive but if this one doesn't work for me I will be taking it up as so many on here have had great experiences with acupuncture. I hope it does the trick.

Tomboy glad it is going well.

LOL at image of Battery determining which room in house to christen first.

Waves at velvet - anyone heard from Dachs?

Have my scan in the morning. I will be 6w so trying to ready myself for it being inconclusive and that I will have to go back next week as it is a bit early to get a heartbeat. Am bricking it especially as always everything in my life seems linked and I will find out next week whether my contract is being extended at work and about financing for the house ...

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 22/09/2011 08:09

aandr did you mean in the morning today, or in the morning tomorrow? If today, good luck - will cross my fingers just in case!

digi fantastic news!!! Grin

MissTinaTeaspoon · 22/09/2011 08:56

Good luck for scan AandR

digitalgirl · 22/09/2011 12:49

Good luck with your scan AandR

Tina yes acupuncture can be expensive (especially as the one i go to is in central london) - but during TTC I only go once or twice a cycle to help bring on ovulation (and my cycles are long so it doesn't work out to be that many visits per month). Then once PG I'm now of the 'spare no expense' mindset (that's what 4 mc's does to you) so the fortnightly sessions till 12 weeks doesn't feel like that much in the long run if I get a baby at the end of it. My favourite way of justifying expensive treatment for ttc/pregnancy is to compare it to what you'd spend on a new car/holiday...but this is about creating a new life.

digitalgirl · 22/09/2011 12:50

oh forgot to say good luck with nwe job tomboy

and hope you're not overworking mouse. 3 positive opks, the egg is surely on her way?

batteryhen · 22/09/2011 15:22

Lurking for scan news ......

AandRMum · 22/09/2011 19:07

Oh hold the lurking - it is in the morning around 8am. Feeling icky and hungry at the same time and had a pimple on my nose, so fx something is happening in there ...

LadyMaybe · 22/09/2011 20:30

Best of luck AandR

I had another scan and bean is still alive in there. Am doing a minor mental because it was measuring quite a bit bigger than expected (19mm rather than 14) but the dr said margin of error can be up to 5days (=5mm) so wasn't concerned. And so I'm going to choose to believe her. I heard the heartbeat too, which was great but dr then asked about my history and had to say again that I'd lost the last two after seeing heartbeats, which was a bit upsetting. Hey ho, keep your fingers crossed for me this week ladies, this is my big milestone week coming up.

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 22/09/2011 20:36

Great news ladymb and I'll be keeping everything crossed over the next week! Smile

aandr good luck for tomorrow, will lurk for news in the morning x