Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 16)

[olismum23]

Hello! If you have recently miscarried and are thinking of or actively trying again come and join us! We offer plenty of cake, tea and wine if needed! Come in and laugh, cry and rant as needed, and don't be afraid of asking whatever questions you need answers to and we'll try our best to answer them.

Add yourself to the stats list whenever you are ready.

wttc = waiting to try to conceive
ucl = usual cycle length
wtf cycle = the time after your mc when you have no idea whats going on with your normal cycle

Lets hope this is a lucky thread and we all get our bfps!

stats to follow

Part 15 here

Yay for laylas !

loup yes the dr was going over reasons why my af had not come in so long and did a test just to make sure i was soo shocked, i must have looked like such a fool, thanks melies and blackkat ill wait til ive had a 3+ on digi before i move to BFP list, it never happened last time so its my first milestone x

such great news laylas what a lovely surprise from the dr! Hope that 3+ shows its face soon x

YEY! laylas that is exactly what happened to me with my DS 3 months wents by no period i was waiting on it to do infertility tests felt odd one day and i was 6 weeks pregnant lol :)

I feel like af will come tomorrow or next day CM smells strongly of iron :(

Layla woohoooo that's great news!!!!

Am feeling v pms'y think I'll be joining you olis

im getting fed up of my body not doing its job loup after 27 months of trying and having the MC im so down about it all i just dont understand!! :(

great news layla :o

I know how you feel olis it's so frustrating, we DTD at all the right times but nothing.... DId it take you long to conceive your first?

I think AF is on her way, spotting Monday morning, yesterday evening and then again now - just wish she would come along properly. Had a few tears last night and feel like giving up... When AF comes along it's so light I'm not sure there's enough there for an egg to implant anyway! Thinking about going to see my dr to discuss.......

Hope the week is going better for the res of you x

still nothing here :(

Wednesday's list

TTC

Tokyotwist ttc #2 cycle 1 cd 56 ucl unknown
Stitchinline ttc#1 cycle 3 cd 38 ucl 33ish
Olismum23 ttc#2 cycle 3 cd 30 ucl 30-33
Loup23 ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 29 ucl 33ish
Meliesmummy ttc #2 cycle 4 cd 10 ucl 28

WTTC

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Recent BFPs

Lily06 ttc#1 BFP 13/05/11
Piglet

stitch have you done another test just to be sure? I know that your dh was away at ov time but according to scans I conceived dd only a few days after my period ended so you never know!

olis and loup I know exactly how you feel, I was there myself 2 weeks ago. I really felt like giving up and that dd would be an only child. That's why I've decided to try to stop obsessing over tcc, dtd regularly through the month and not worry about opks or symptoms. That's not to say that when af is next here I won't be gutted, but ov testing, conceive plus and timing everything isn't working anyway so I figure lets just save our money and go with the flow...how long this philosophy will last though is anyone's guess! Saying that, loup if you're stressed about the light periods and olis 2 years is a long time and if your lp is short it's worth seeing someone. Hugs for you both!

Waves to everyone else (although our numbers seem depleted, where is everyone?!)

Thanks for updating the list stitch sorry af not here yet.

loup15 months we tried for DS as i said i never had af for 3 months before i think that has something to do with it as i never has af for 1 month before MC either?

AF not here just as well because a five day LP would be taking the mick, temp drop though so pretty sure its coming :(

melies i have done a couple of cheapies and nothing, I think will wait til sat before cracking a FR out. Then if still nothing will probably book to see the GP.

saw the rheumatologist yesterday and he seems to think the 2 MC are unlikely to be related to the sticky blood and are just bad luck (they classed the CP as a MC). A bit frustating as was good having something to blame

I get all your frustations, only been 11 months here and already completely batty. Just want this cycle over so I can get going again.

just thought i would add took my temp a different way and it was very high i have been sick the last 2 days and have really bad bum! I think i am just sick but DH is convinced im preggers when i explained it was to early only 5dpo maybe 6 he is still convinced!

olis I really hope it is good news for you - I guess too early for a HPT but fingers crossed the temp stays high.

I've spent the whole day moping and feeling quite down. AF still not here properly but had spotting on 9 or 10dpo which was pink and now darker brown (sorry tmi) last night and on/off today. Pre-pill used to get a proper 5 day AF now every month it's a flippin guessing game as to whether it's started or not.... So fed up.

Good luck stitch, cheapies are good for the POAS obsession, hope you get to use that FR - everything crossed.

Waves to all others. Bump how are you? Cep how's everything going? melies thanks for your supportive words, has AF stopped?

definite AF pains here so imminent arrival expected, of course I tempted fate by not bringing anything with me so will have to do a trip to boots after work

plus pilates is going to be interesting with a tummy already in knots :)

I think af will come still but i know how you feel about not knowing if it has started or not before MC i was also 5days af it came then went now its like a spot here and there and me not being sure what cd 1 is it drives me up the wall loup!!!

stitch sorry about you getting caught out its sods law eh?

just ordered another 50 cheapies - POAS obsession much

AF pains making it very hard to concentrate at work so clock watching

sorry you are feeling down this month olis and loup

waves to everyone else

Ok just sent DH to the shop for crisps, chocolate, biscuits, and pies convinced AF is coming now

Well I am 5+4 weeks ucl is 26 if thats of any help

Thursday's list

TTC

Tokyotwist ttc #2 cycle 1 cd 57 ucl unknown
Olismum23 ttc#2 cycle 3 cd 31 ucl 30-33
Loup23 ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 30 ucl 33ish
Meliesmummy ttc #2 cycle 4 cd 11 ucl 28
Stitchinline ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 1 ucl 33ish

WTTC

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Recent BFPs

Lily06 ttc#1 BFP 13/05/11
Piglet ttc#1 5+4 weeks

after the urgent trip to boots didn't really start til overnight anyway! woudl be very happy if it weren't for the pain

Thursday's list

TTC

Tokyotwist ttc #2 cycle 1 cd 57 ucl unknown
Olismum23 ttc#2 cycle 3 cd 31 ucl 30-33
Loup23 ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 30 ucl 33ish
Meliesmummy ttc #2 cycle 4 cd 11 ucl 28
Stitchinline ttc#1 cycle 4 cd 1 ucl 33ish

WTTC

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Recent BFPs

Lily06 ttc#1 BFP 13/05/11
Piglet ttc#1 5+4 weeks
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 4+4 wks

just adding myself to the list, i decided not to wait for the 3+, someone said to live by the mantra i am pregnant today, so thats what im doing
ive got my fingers crossed for you olis

good for you laylas!

stitch yey for af turning up lets hope for the last time :)

laylas good for you adding to list

Well temp up again today and no af this is when it would normally show dont feel like its on its way either?? Maybe it might have worked just have to wait a week to find out lol :)

loup, melies, bump, chloe, lilly how are you today?

Hope the pain eases soon stitch, at least you know where you are now. Is dh around at the important time this month?

Fx then olis!

Well done for the bravery laylas!

I'm fine thanks olis, tired after work but need to keep going for later on !

Waves to piglet loup and everyone else x