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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after mc - Part VI

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CollieandPup · 15/05/2011 10:32

Just found out you are pregnant after a previous miscarriage and too nervous to move over the to pregnancy boards? Freaking out about spotting, cramping, symptoms (or lack there of) and nervously awaiting your first scan? Here is a lovely place for lot's of support, hand holding and problem sharing.

Courtesy of owlbooty here are the Ten Commandments of the Freak Out Room.

  1. Thou shalt check thy knickers to the point of insanity until the baby actually arrives.
  2. Thou shalt also check the loo roll post-wipeage (sorry, gross, I know)
  3. Thou shalt bore thy physician and midwife to tears with the mentalling.
  4. And thy husband/boyfriend/family/neighbour's cat.
  5. Thou shalt obsess over the absence of symptoms.
  6. And the presence of symptoms.
  7. And the fluctuation of symptoms.
  8. Thou shalt pee on a vast number of sticks and keep ClearBlue and First Response in business.
  9. The day before any scan extreme mentalling is permitted without recourse to the Haddock.
10. Self-diagnosis with Dr Google is Forbidden.

The Haddock will be applied liberally to all transgressors.

See here for the old thread.

OP posts:
wombatinwaiting · 20/05/2011 06:44

Methinks orange has been taking some combat tips from owl Shock!

Hope you had as an ok a night as you can dachs. What time are you seeing the doc today and how is DH getting on with BUPA?

Ooh - by the way, those of you with a soft cheese craving, Caprice Des Deux (blue box with cherubs on it) is made from pasteurised milk - needless to say I snaffled up a box pretty quick when I read that on the side! Tastes like a cross between camembert and brie and I have just had some for breakfast on a bagel Smile Blush

Ninunina · 20/05/2011 06:55

Hoping dachs had an uneventful night and that the boring tv sent her off into a long restful sleep.

blackkat hope your tummy ache passed, it doesn't sound like anything to be worried about. I know you can't help but think that the baby would be harmed, but I'm sure its protected in there.

velvet a good cry is exactly what you need sometimes. Hope your feeling better this morning.

Got my nuchal fold results back. Came back as 1:14000 so very low. I'm very relieved. I'm hoping i'll be more relaxed for the next scan now, although there are so many more things to worry about.

Ninunina · 20/05/2011 07:05

Mmmmm wombat I love caprice des deux. My mother in law told me its super fattening, but its so lovely.

I'm so pleased that comte is on the safe list of cheeses too. It would be impossible to live with my French husband otherwise.

Any new wierd cravings on the thread? I'm craving tea you get in south east Asia (basically tea with condensed milk). It's wierd because I've totally gone off tea otherwise.

lily06 · 20/05/2011 07:21

Dachs hope you are hanging in there still. Thinking of you.

Nina great news on the result, really pleased for you.

On the subject of food cravings - I have none. But have completely gone off chocolate and pretty much everything sweet. Can't actually think of anything I fancy eating right now. Maybe this is good, I could do with losing several a few stone.

Chloe55 · 20/05/2011 07:48

Haven't been on MN for what seems like ages so thought I would check to see how you are all doing and I am Shock by what you are going through at the moment dachs. I hope you had an uneventful night and I hope it remains like this for the next few months. I will keep everything crossed for you and take care. xx

luckyfor2 · 20/05/2011 08:19

Good luck with your scan today coconuts x

randomimposter · 20/05/2011 08:39
StillJustAboutDiffedDachs · 20/05/2011 08:55

Am now bleeding. Expect to lose them this morning

PinkFondantFancy · 20/05/2011 08:59

dacha can they bleep the consultant quickly now? literally everything crossed for you again today xx

coconuts best of luck for your scan

Daisybell1 · 20/05/2011 09:06

Dachs darling, everything crossed here too for you, Mr Dachs and the pups

xx

harassedinherpants · 20/05/2011 09:10

Dachs everything crossed for you, Mr Dachs and pups. Is the consultant there?? Huge hugs xx

Coconuts good luck for today.

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CollieandPup · 20/05/2011 09:10

dachs I've got everything crossed for you today. Hoping your wrong. Thinking of you.

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ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts · 20/05/2011 09:10

Dachs, everything crossed for you my lovely. Really rooting for you all. There must be something they can do. Will be thinking of you all day.

Thanks for the good wishes everyone, will be leaving soon x

banana87 · 20/05/2011 09:12

I hope you are wrong Dachs. Thinking of you.

Good luck today Coconuts.

YouremindmeoftheBFP · 20/05/2011 09:22

Thinking of you dachs really hope it's not what you think xx

katherine2008 · 20/05/2011 09:23

dachs fx it's nothing. saying some prayers x

Ninunina · 20/05/2011 09:23

I'm hoping your wrong dachs. Thinking of you.

tiggersreturn · 20/05/2011 09:28

Dachs - everything crossed for you. There was an article in the paper this morning about a lady having ID twins and one came out at 24 weeks and the other stayed in and came out alive and healthy a bit later.

LaraMi · 20/05/2011 09:47

Thinking of you Dachs - hope it's just a case of you fearing the worst. Hugs.

Velvetcu · 20/05/2011 09:47

dachs am thinking of you this morning

mamapower · 20/05/2011 09:56

Dachs thinking of you and the pups and hoping for a happy outcome xxxxx

Bumpwanted · 20/05/2011 09:56

Oh Dachs hun I so hope you are wrong. Thinking of you all xxx

UrbanLolly · 20/05/2011 10:05

dachs sending much love to you and the pups....& hopeing like mad for a good outcome xxxx

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 20/05/2011 10:36

Big ((hug)) dachs - thinking of you, dh and the babies; hoping and praying you are wrong xxx

coconuts best of luck for today's scan x

LaraMi · 20/05/2011 11:15

Hoping that if I do this quickly, it will bring Dachs good luck:

Friday's list - 20th May 2011

Tiggersreturn (TTT) 21+3 EDD 26/09/11
mamapower 21+2 EDD 28/9/11
ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts 20+5 EDD 03/10/11 next scan 20/05/11
Emoo 20+0 EDD 7/10/11 next scan 19/5/11
Lovemysleep 19+3 EDD 11/10/11
Tunnocksteacake 17+5 EDD 24/10/11
IreneHeron 17+3 EDD 23/10/11 next scan 3/6/11
CEP 15+6 EDD 5/11/11 - 20 wk scan 22/6/11
Hils74 15+2 EDD 8/11/11
Katherine2008 15+1 EDD 10/11/11 next scan 23/6/11
Haffertee 14+6 EDD 14/11/11
Ninunina: 14+3 EDD 15/11/11
delilahbelle 14+1 EDD 22/11/11
Mattsmama 14+1 EDD 17/11/11
Collie 13+5 EDD 20/11/11
wombatinwaiting: 13+1 EDD 24/11/11 next scan 8/6/11
Banana87: 13+1 EDD 24/11/11 NT
LaraMi 13+0 EDD 25/11/11 Next scan 20/07/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy 12+4 EDD 26/11/11
Blackkat 11+4 EDD 5/12/11
Jigglebum 11+1 EDD 8/12/11
Lucky 9+3 Next scan - 19/5/11
Harassed 8+4 EDD 26/12/11
Hadrian 8+1 Next scan - 13/06/11
Updiffed 6+6
Hairylights 5+4
Lily06 5+1 Next scan - 02/06/11
Pigletmania 4+5

On the grads thread too:
Nickster 28+6 EDD 7/8/11
Orange 24+6 EDD 4/9/11
Wombat33 23+6 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 25/5/11
Daisybell 23+1 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 21+5 EDD 25/09/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 20+2 EDD 5/10/11
Onions 17+4 EDD 24/10/11 Next Scan 07/06/11
Velvetcu 17+3 EDD 25/10/11 next scan 22/06/11
MummyAbroad 16+0 EDD 4/11/11

Thinking of.... ladybee; digi; A&R; barbie; MumTum; Knitter, Kat2504

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