Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 13)

[Chloe55]

This is the place to be for all those wanting to TTC after miscarriage, or have plans on TTC in the relatively near future. This thread is full of support from people who have been there and no how you are feeling so jump on board and share the and chocolate (or water and celery for those of you off alcohol and caffeine )

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Ask any questions that have been niggling you or that you are concerned about, perhaps someone here has experienced the same in the past.

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length

Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the old thread ref:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1135533-Just-MC-and-ready-to-try-again-Pack-your-cake-wine-and-tightie-whities-and-join-us-for-more-ranting-weeping-and-most-of-all-laughing-All-welcome-Part-12

Stats to follow.

Hmmmm there is a faint line.......

collie trust your cm more than opk's. if that's showing fertile cm then dtd. evil??? that's harsh

mel definately best not to go when just opened. i might take ds at some point as long as it's not during summer hols that'll be a nightmare. think i'll be stuck with june, as july holiday starts. we're already doing wiggles in may.

within the time limit collie ?

Awww I feel bad cep evil in a nice, you meany for teasing me, kind of way...?!!! convinced????

20 mins later, so not sure if it counts. I have less cm this afternoon too grrrr and it's still quite creamy!! Booooo

Contemplate even!

oh totally collie ok i think it was on ff (can't remember) which said that cm can change throughout the day and to note the most fertile cm. (i have to admit i got a bit addicted, and checked about 3-4 times a day.)

mel sorry i meant to say, you certainly won't be on your own testing a lot. i think cb digi are on amazon at £7 something still. for a pack of 2.

hils have you managed to speak to dh properly yet??

lol, me too.....although manily cause i had no idea what i was doing. Just twice so far today....

mainly...omg whats wrong with me today??!!!

manily i think we know where your mind is today.

Hi ladies, is everyone ok?

Spoke to DP last night, he was v excited, but told him not to get his hopes up just yet :)

Caved this morning and did another test, just in case, and it was still +ve!!!!

Bought a cbdigi to do on Friday, see if I can work out some dates...

Still in shock

Chloe Glad you are having a good day, the DD must be a tough day to get through. So pleased you are feeling a bit better

wellie relieved to hear that all was well in NZ, happy that the wedding went well too, despite the last minute change

tokyo I agree with you about spots - I had something that looked like a satellite had landed on my chin last week and haven't had spots for years, truly hoping it's AF gearing up!Hope you're all feeling better soon

olis keeping FX for you on Friday, don't POAS until then!

collie your POAS and dancing antics have made me chuckle

Melies so pleased that it seems the hormones have gone, though do know that can feel

Hils any word from DH?

Cep thanks for keeping us all going!

Hils sorry Xpost,
so that's 2 x CBdigi testers on Friday....exciting...!!

Hi all!!!

Well done on another +ve Hils.

olis good luck for Friday :)

Collie I agree, best save a true result for FMU.

Well managed to SWI this morning so not all is lost. Still having EWCM...this is day 5 of EWCM...surely it should go creamy at some point, no? I do usually have an abundance of EWCM, which I guess is a good thing :) Didn't do ov tests this cycle as I find them too difficult to read and they were out of digital ones in Sainsburys.

i had about 6 days of ewcm , glad he was in the mood this morning. banana

Grrr...I just typed a really long post, each with a nice personal message for everyone, then accidently deleted it all.

I'm ready for bed soon, so I'll just and send lots of good luck charms to Olismum and Hils

Sounds promising Olismum- can't believe how quickly that's happened since you mc 1 day after me. Do you usually have a short cycle?

Now for the me me me: I've never been like this before, but I'm only 3DPO and I'm already symtom spotting. I'm feeling very similar to how I felt before my BFP.

• A bit crampy
• A little bit constipated (TMI- but I'm usually very regular and don't normally have to strain)
• Slightly slightly nauseous (but that's quite common for me)

I'm sure I'm imagining everything, but kinda hoping I'm not.

morning all, hope everyone is ok.

blackkat i meant to ask, are you hinting i'm talking to much??

ninu i'm afraid just because it's so early i'll have to give you this. < (but i'm keeping fx for you.

Hello all, just a quick one on phone. Congratulations Hils - top news!
This is an all-out cycle for me - took soy isoflavones cd2-6, started grapefruit juice cd6, and was planning to start SMEG today, but had EWCM yesterday (cd7!!) so started a day early. DH won't know what's hit him
Anyone else used soy isoflavones?

hi zam how was your trip?? i've never heard of soy isoflavones (but then i hadn't heard of most of anything until i was on here.)fx for you.

I know, I know...I deserve that wet fish! I'm not usually this hopeless. I'll try to make up for it by not testing like a mad women from 7 10dpo. Anyone think I can do it?

Ninu I have been like you this month and am only on 4dpo! I'm trying not to convince myself as that only seems to end in misery, the time I have been pg have been when I don't think I am! Although every little twinge throws a new thought into my head - I am on Clomid though and it seems to give me every pg symptom under the sun from my second week into my cycle

Hils Brilliant news for you, you must be over the moon.

I am a bit crap at taking supplements, I'm one of these girls who always forgot to take the contraceptive pill too (I always did wonder how I managed to get away with not falling pg - guess I know now ) Anyway, I have been good at remembering to have brazil nuts and have just checked the nutritional value and they are a good source of folic acid so am feeling quite pleased about that.

Hi ninu yes you are very early but it's hard to not symptom spot when you desperately want something. I hope you have lots of cheapie pee sticks stashed away??

chloe fx for you this month xx

Right, more me me me I am afraid. My jolly mood has been zapped this morning. I'm on CD23 which is my expected ov day. Had slight temp rise yesterday but dropped again today. Still a -ive opk and cm drying up. Tested cm again last night and very dry, but was just after gym so thought it was that. However there is not much today, a little bit of sticky, that's it Really confused and down beat about it. We are still swi every other day but....well, it's hard to keep positive.

If you want to see my chart it's here ... Any wise words anyone?

When I click on yours collie it take me to mine - how do I see yours? Do you have months when you don't ovulate that you are aware of? I know all woman have the odd month they don't ovulate but for me it's most without a bit of help iyswim. Try not to lose hope though, maybe you just haven't produced as much cm this month and as people say on here the opk sticks aren't very reliable.

Chloe I'm glad I'm not alone with the silly symptom spotting. Glad Brazil nuts are also a source of topic acid.

collie Ive got 4 cb tests and and a few cheapies, guess which ones will get used first.

Good morning ladies!

Step away from the sticks ninu! Altho I can hardly talk, it's a bit like the pot kettle black thing, fx for you tho, the last few weeks have been lucky after all!

collie sorry can't help you there, I've got no idea about charting. I hope someone who can will have words of wisdom soon.

We dtd last night, I was really nervous bcos I've had so much prodding and poking down there over the last 3 weeks but it was fine. I am officially back on the horse!

Ps is anyone else completely addicted to the am I being unreasonable thread? I love the funny ones and can't believe how angry some people get on the serious ones! (Altho I couldn't help myself from commenting on a lady who had perfect home births and said awful things about those of us unfortunate to have needed a c section who want another one next time)

chloe try this link think I posted wrong link. I'm not sure about not ovulating although that's what I am disheartened about. Did your fetility problems start after your ds or mc? I didn't chart b4 my miscarriage and had only really figured out how long my cycle was. I don't think I ovulated in my ETF cycle although I can't be 100%