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Over Here Viroids! Just Shagging with Intent Thread!

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nickelbabysnatcher · 11/01/2011 16:21

Last thread was here

The (updated)(again)(again) 'rules' from our Just Shagging Originator for the Viroids:

Maintain a relaxed attitude at all times - drink if you want too, especially on your birthday (or when you've had bad news). Thread precedent dictates if you drink to excess you will get a BFP (but not recommended). (It just takes longer to get in the mood

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nickelthenaughtybutnicefairy · 02/02/2011 13:18

they're well, I think, Foghorn - i got a phonecall from dad saying he was at nursery, dropping off DD1, and wanted to ring to give me the lowdown... Grin
he said tehy're resting and he's running on adrenalin!

nickelthenaughtybutnicefairy · 02/02/2011 13:20

Meh from me too Nelly

:(

don't worry, we're here to support.
I love this thread because it shows me that i'm not a freak to be upset when someone else is PG and i'm not.
It also helps me to realise that it's okay that it's not just "pump-pump-squirt-ooh, tiny baby"

JosieSmith1 · 02/02/2011 14:07

Smile at Nickel "pump-pump-squirt". I'm so glad you lot don't think I'm a freak to be upset when someone else is pg, especially seeing as my work colleagues probably do now.

Meh from Me too Nelly, so very very meh, and slightly Envy and slightly Sad and also slighty Angry. This week is so not a good week

FoghornLeghorn · 02/02/2011 14:09

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JosieSmith1 · 02/02/2011 14:40

Yes it's a fab word.

Everyone keeps fucking fawning over her "Do you feel sick" "Do you need a cup of tea" No she fucking doesn't! AngryAngryAngry

Excuse the french Blush

babylann · 02/02/2011 14:48

This is the first month where I actually think we have a chance of making a baby, we've been trying for four months but as I wasn't having periods for some reason unknown to me, I was thinking "yeah but not very likely is it?"

This month I thought, "Ooh! Period! My body is working properly again! We'll definitely get pregnant this month!"

Maaaaybe I started getting carried away (we have picked names Blush), but I think this thread is helping to keep me grounded and understand it might be a little while longer yet, thus preparing me for the disappointment and helping me enjoy the, [cough] pump-pump-squirts. I have only been here with you for a few days, but I would like to say thank you ladies Grin

nickelthenaughtybutnicefairy · 02/02/2011 15:58

babylann - we have also picked names (the 1st boy and girl of which I have known for years and years and years), we have also agreed a joint surname forthem, which every day or so, i say "i don't want to usethe joint surname, can't we just call them by my surname?" apparently, that's unfair. (don't see why - he'd have no problem with them taking his hideous surname)

FoghornLeghorn · 02/02/2011 16:09

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nickelthenaughtybutnicefairy · 02/02/2011 16:21

oh, yeah :(

it's 960 on mine.

Reality got a BFP.

we can count her, because technically, she joined us before she POASd.

babylann · 02/02/2011 16:26

I know what a BFP is, but what dies it actually stand for? All I could figure was Big Fat Positive?

Originally we were going to use a joint surname nickel, but close to the end of pregnancy when my hormones were all loved-up, I agreed to his surname as I wanted us all to have the same surname when/if me and dp get married - it's more family-ish. I was planning on keeping my surname when we married in my feminist ways, but actually don't mind that much as my surname is pretty ugly anyway!

How do you know when it's time to start a new thread - is there a limit to how many posts one can have?

FoghornLeghorn · 02/02/2011 16:30

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nickelthenaughtybutnicefairy · 02/02/2011 16:32

that's right, Babylann - it means Big Fat Positive - means that person is duffed up, bun in the oven.

There is no way i will ever be loved up enough to give any child i bear DH's surname.
I thought i would mellow naturally after the wedding, but the more it enters my head, the more vehement i am that i should keep my name - and that children should have at the very least a joint surname.
i'm going to PM you to reveal all.
Grin

JosieSmith1 · 02/02/2011 17:23

I didn't think I'd want to take DH's surname after we got married but I did, so any kids we have will have his surname

LizzyMathsWhizzy · 02/02/2011 17:27

Meh, another friend/colleague of mine has announced her pregnancy. I couldn't help but go green, I'm sure everyone knew. The teachers in my department were joking around, saying what if I get pregnant and go off at the same time. They were meaning to be nice, as in, how could the department cope without the two of us. All I could think was Shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up... SHUT UP. Angry I went to my next lesson feeling wound up, and had several unfortunate year 10's in detention tonight.

Josie you are not alone. ((((not really a hugging person, but hugs anyway, you deserve them)))

JosieSmith1 · 02/02/2011 17:30

Thanks Lizzy It's a tiny office here and the girl in question sits directly opposite me so there's no getting away from it. The other annoying thing is, if I got pg too it's a bit of a let down cos she got there first ifswim. I've been here 5 years and keep thinking how excited I'd be making the announcement to everyone, but it won't be that special now if it does ever happen

nickelthenaughtybutnicefairy · 02/02/2011 17:31

just can't - love my name too much - it's mine, mine!!

JosieSmith1 · 02/02/2011 17:44

I wasn't particularly attached to my name Smile

LizzyMathsWhizzy · 02/02/2011 17:50

I never thought I'd take his name, but as a teacher, we have so many complications with parents ringing, and not giving the surname of the pupil, office assume its the same name, and messages get lost in the post. I also have a thing about double barrel surnames, I currently teach a Heppinstall-Taylor, never fits on forms or boxes for exams. [hopes she hasn't offended anyone emoticon]

NervousNelly · 02/02/2011 19:26

oH and I aren't married. Don't think it has actually occurred to him to ask ;). But I'd defo be keeping my name. Trying not to give it away but, although it's spelt differently it is a type of bug. On holiday we would turn up for trips and be asked " are you the x's". Input a bug and it is something like " are you the spiders" Hmm.

babylann · 02/02/2011 20:30

I prefer DP's surname, but do think it's a bit boring. So it's a question between - boring surname or kinda embarrassing surname? Think I'd rather be boring.

But I have a name that is more commonly a boy's name than a girls, and there's a footballer with the name I will have when I'm married, which doesn't make me happy. :(

GizzyBoo · 02/02/2011 21:18

God....you lot dont half talk some shat.....helped no doubt by the shat troll Grin Its taken me an age to catch up and thanks to the whisky and coke I have in my hand I have forgotten most of what I have read so far Blush

AF has officially left the building so I is celebrating Grin For the first one in 8 years it was a back to reality with a bump 10 days!
No idea if I will ovulate this month so I plan to Swi and treat it as good practice and await her return at some point.

Was having a bit of a low time this last week as I decided hubby wasn't really committed to #4. I have definitely been the driving force in the decision and was panicking he wasn't really on board but he has surprised me. Caught him checking out 7 seater's on the interweb other day and he causally asked when he gets his shag fest Grin He took me out for a picnic yesterday, in 40 mph winds and went and booked me a hair appointment for today to cheer me up. I is thinking he is being a bit of a darlin!

We have made some pretty serious lifestyle changes in the last 6 months including moving 450 miles away from home to a remote island off the west coast of Scotland. I was worried it was all a bit too much too soon but I think he's alright...just not "talk about it endlessly" kind of guy.

Gawd.....Whisky makes me waffle BlushGrin

NervousNelly · 02/02/2011 21:55

Whisky and Coke??? In the Western Isles??? Are you mental? Shock. You'll get lynched if the locals see that!

Glad your hubby is properly on on board. Still not convinced that mine is, he goes along with the JSing, but doesn't seem to care that I get ERTD each month :(. Bloody men.

Got2Dance · 02/02/2011 21:59

Not caught up on thread - sorry

Sister not had baby yet. Refusing to come!! Sending her home tomorrow for a few days.

Will catch up tom. x

GizzyBoo · 02/02/2011 22:04

I know.....if they knew I put coke in it I would be in proper trouble Grin

I don't think the men folk 'get' what it means. AF to hubby is a inconvenience in the normal ritual. Not sure he will ever get how it affects me emotionally. Its a bloke thing rolleyes
Take care G2D and sending possie vibes to your sis x

babylann · 02/02/2011 22:09

Is it just me or is this SWI thing pretty hard work? I can't imagine if I was doing some proper hardcore TTC with temperature checks etc. We're only on day 13 and I'm already fed up of all the SWI.

I miss condoms :(