Feck off with your babydust - The hut of gl/doom, home of inadequate reproduction

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ok, so the hut disappeared so I decided to open a new one. tis a 20's style gin joint!

Oh dear i fell off the January bus (MC) and cannot fecking get on any bus again. hairy I was one of those people decided to have a baby one month 5 years ago, a few weeks later preggers with dd. I was so blaze, and sure it would happen again, alas no 3 years later and no dc2. This has made me appreciate what I have got and to make the most of dd, I tell her i love her all the time and try to enjoy every miniute that i have with her as i wont get another opportunity. Fecking people why cant they stop shagging and getting pg, especially those i know who have had "accidents", why cant i have an accident then!

Why cant preggers FB friends keep their stupid baby stati to themselves, so insensitve, dont they know that there are people out there that cant get preggers, I dont want to hear every details of your baby bump, or morning sickness or see your scan photo

Hi piglet, welcome to our hut. Pour yourself a gin and draw up a chair. I'm very sorry for your loss. That sucks massively. Know what you mean about fb, sometimes people need hidden I find.

hairy you poor thing, how are you doing today?

Thanks Ninja pulls up a chair and pours herself a gin and tonic. Sorry to hear about you too Ninja , it sucks just as you are coming to terms with things and trying to move on, another friend becomes preggers.

Big (((((()))))) to hairy I often think about you, last time I looked in the MC section you just recieved a BFP and was wandering how things were going for you.

I feel sick today, my AF not due till next week, think that it might be the pate i ate this morning, and dd 4 (ASD) stressing me out and being very demanding.

Her behaviour sometimes brings on my IBS so more like that than anything else me thinks.

I actually left Facebook for two months cos the pregnancy stuff got too much for me. Now I have some people hidden from news feed and some deleted all together. It's a self-preservation thing.
Am friends in fb with my friend and her Dh. She's just announced and he is white smug/proud 'with my pregnant wife' etc. She know ls we've been.trying for over a year! So I his him!
Managed to lure Dh into bed last night :) has been s while he's been stressed so his libido has plummeted. Am a much happier bunny today.

Thanks Piglet it ended in a third mmc so I have at least been referred for testing.

Awww hairy, I will have to have testing if i have a third mmc, Im on my 2nd.

I'm struggling tonight. I've been so positive so far this month and tonight I just don't want to know about anyone who has babies or is pregnant. Fucking facebook and its happy fucking friends with their lovely little families can fuck right off! Sorry. But its doing my head in.

Bar and block them- ninja/piglet-bexamundo is right. There is solely from
Here I sort of know I feel like that about - spends all
Her time fucking moaning about her kids.
Hairy hope tests went ok. I am quite happy to sabotage the bus and also highjack any threads along lines of should I ttc if job hunting, getting marrie etc - it is not like catching a train

Dh tubes ok- specialist thinks they are talkin bollox re hum having issue given couldn't find anything else and amount of times i/ his ex has been pregnant

Head in sand time- still not done third blood clotting test as tbh I hate hospital and tests as never get any answers and just associate it with mc and
Hopelessness . Enjoying last two weeks drinking although part of me thinks it will be no good and just another thing to give up for no reason. Af next weekend (am not holding out this month).

Hello everyone else- watching Ross
Kemp rather than one born every minute. Its nicely therapeutic.

i know i'm an idiot who should just back away from the laptop now!

hardandsleazy am glad your dp's tests were ok, do you have a date for your clotting test, sorry to hear it makes you feel that way. And quite frankly as long as you are not drinking too much I don't see how it is a problem, you ned to be able to relax or the whole stress of ttc becomes counter productive.

Hope everyone else is ok?
Am watching trev mcdonald waltzing about in the caribean and wishing i had his job

I am the home of decking inadequate reproduction, the curse came today. It's a miracle dd was conceived. There's always next month, and the Minh after that and so on

Hi Piglet, I know what you mean about a miracle. I'm still amazed every day that we have a son naturally when 0% of DH's sperm are swimming. How??? Had to delay consultant appointment due to DH's business trip, so going on 27th instead. Really hoping it'll be possible to start ICSI this year. Does anyone have any knowledge of doing it with immotile sperm? It is still possible isn't it? In the meantime picking up puppy next week- yay!

Oh Ellen good luck, these children are even more miracles to us

Well Piglet, sorry you're here IYKWIM, but this is the place where we can all understand to some extent what each other is going through! Put DD to bed, and have a large drink tonight!

this is the week I hate the most in my cycle. AF due next weekend and i seem to be able to get to this point of the month without spending every day obsessing about getting pregnant.
For the last few months I haven't had sore breasts in the week before AF, but today I started with the tenderness again. And I can't bear to let myself get carried away with the 'what if?' again.

help yourselves ladies...

Don't mind if I do.
Got mine and dp's appt with gp in the morning to get our referral to sub fertility clinic, will be glad to get it underway. There is about 3_4 months waiting list
I believe.
Sorry to all who have af. Queenrollo I know what you mean. Am due a week tomorrow and will prob remain mentally stable till approx Saturday, after that who knows!

I will have a lovely cold Bailys hmmm. I will go to the Dr for the day 21 test, what if your period comes earlier each month and its not predictable, how can they do the test.

If you are charting it is best to go 7 days after you ovulated, I'm the same and my first two looked low cos they were too close to af.

E.g. this cycle I seem to have ovulated on day 10(!) So I'd need to get my bloods done on day 17.
I am symptom spotting atm, metallic taste in mouth today. Googled it at lunch. Am only about 5 dpo! Not helped that there's three pregnant women at work joking about a plastic chair you simply have to sit on....I wish!

thanks bex

Oh man I feel ruddy awful. I'm home alone (DH working late doing a trade show type thing). I'm fricking freezing, it took me 2 hours to chose my dinner and I'm almost in tears at DIY SOS!

Hi everyone, seems most of us are feeling the same way at the mo. I was upset last night because a friend had put her scan pic on FB and written 'Here we go again!' as the caption. Then listening to the radio this morning they were talking about Holly whatsername being in labour, so I was still muttering 'fuck off, fuck off, fuck off..' under my breath when my phone beeps with a friend's scan news Aarrrggghhhh!! Seriously can't they all just Fuck Off with their pregnancies and bumps and newborns??!!

And breathe...

sodding AF just got me.