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Aaaarrrggh! I hate the 2ww!

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essenceofSES · 04/12/2010 21:19

I think I ovulated on CD19. Due to DH work commitments we only managed SWI once but that was on CD19. I know a BFP is still possible but we did only do it once.

It's too early to test but I have all my hopes of a BFP running through my head and symptom spotting. My body has been cruel in the past though and got my hopes up only for AF to appear.

However, this evening I am feeling quite nauseous and have had feelings like ligament pulling in my abdomen. Also slightly tender boobs.

I'm 8dpo and just want the next week to be over so I know!!!

Feel better for getting that out!

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neverlookback · 26/12/2010 22:29

DONT:yeah congratulations to you, that took a long time to show didnt it!! what a lovely xmas present for you, apart from being sober!!

sausagewrappedinbacon · 30/12/2010 19:15

Hola all. Well I got a BFP on Tuesday, when I was due on. Well, 2 actually, as DH didn't believe the first one so trawled the local towns for a chemist that was open to get a swanky digital thingy. To say we are in shock is an understatement. Went to the GP today and all is underway - due date is 8th September which seems yonks away!

Lots of luck to you all - hope to see some of you again - Kitty - find me again, you're only down the road!

Ses - can you keep this shtum on our other thread for a while, please? Am going to hide from there for a bit and come back as and when and if things are ok in a couple of months Smile

Ilovekittyelise · 30/12/2010 20:24

sausage i am going to have to PM you.....congrats.......and guess what - I got mine today...by my calcs due on September 11....hope I have a sticker this time!!!

Daisybell1 · 30/12/2010 22:09

Congrats to those with BFPs :-D Am still in the 2WW, & only on day 6po. Since when did time pass so slowly??? This is killing me. No symptoms at all to report either (although not surprising given how early it is) so nothing to even prod or poke. Argh, i'm never going to last two weeks of this!

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sausagewrappedinbacon · 31/12/2010 09:28

Kitty - brilliant news! Yes, do pm me, that will be fab Smile

essenceofSES · 31/12/2010 12:44

kitty and saus - YAY!!!! Grin
Great news and hope the next few weeks progress well for you.
( saus - no worries about the other thread. I'll keep schtum!)

As for me, I'm now on the 6ww Hmm
DH's throat infection meant no SWI in the vital week and then the few days he was better that may just have snuck in on the timing, we were in Ireland where we didn't have the best of times :(
DH's cousin was killed in a car crash on Monday evening. He was 28yo with everything to live for. He and his best friend were killed instantly and a pg woman in another car also died along with her unborn baby. All so sad and tragic. Being Ireland, the funeral was quick (yesterday) so we went to that at 2pm and then drove directly to the airport to fly home afterwards.
The family are understandably devastated and DH's granny - who is 95yo - was broken. She kept saying it should have been her as he was so young. It was heart-breaking :(

We couldn't get away from it at all really as it was on the front pages of the national newspapers over there and on the tv headlines.

Sorry to put a downer on things but it does put things in perspective. I think my new years resolution will be to appreciate more what I have.

Anyway, I'm getting excited for all you other ladies in the 2ww. Keeping my fingers crossed that this stays a lucky thread :)

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strumpet82 · 31/12/2010 17:23

daisybell1, i'm in the same boat as you. Time seems to be taking forever!!! My AF is due next Wed, roll on next week.

Come on 2011, fertile year!!!

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JRsandCoffee · 03/01/2011 21:03

Hello Ladies

Sorry I disappeared from this thread, Christmas and half the world descended and er, I have barely been near the computer! Lovely news on the BFP front for all of you BFPers. So sorry to hear your terrible news Essence.

I was a BFN last time out, have taken Clomid this month and think I've ovulated (my left side felt like it was laying a duck egg the last two days but temp was up this morning).....

Fingers crossed for you all this time, hope it stays a lucky thread for everyone!

Daisybell1 · 04/01/2011 10:12

well, I convinced myself that there was no hope for about, what, 24hours??? Still only 10 days post OV.....

No change in the boobage department, so was thinking its a definite no, but now have slight nagging nausea and am at my desk feeling a bit green Envy

Is there any chance this is an early PG symptom, or just the result of massive over-eating at Christmas?? Hmm

Daisybell1 · 04/01/2011 10:14

Really sorry, should have said Essence my thoughts are with you and really feel for your family at this time

xxx

worththewait · 04/01/2011 15:27

hi everyone how you all feeling im on the 2week wait too and its doing my head in now
alli wanna do is see if iam pregnant see if it has worked this month
i ov on 27 and 28th of dec and due on from 10th jan to 2 weeks after that arghhhh
anyone else waiting ?
x

worththewait · 04/01/2011 15:28

imean waiting for a period from the 10th onwards ????? sorry guys
iknow everyone is waiting

ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts · 04/01/2011 16:09

Hi everyone can I join you? TTC#2 for 11 months.

I am currently 3dpo. I have PCOS and I'm sure I ov'd for the first time in ten months on Saturday which was cycle day 30.

However it could have been one of those stupid LH surges, but still I'm trying to be hopeful.

We have been SWI and no alcohol/caffiene etc.

I am at gynae for my first appointment regarding my PCOS diagnosis tomorrow. If they want to do swabs/internal examination will this effect anything?

I don't think I can wait 2 weeks to test!!

essenceofSES · 04/01/2011 22:19

Hello and welcome to coconuts :)
Hope your appointment goes well tomorrow. Any investigations at 4dpo really shouldn't make any difference I don't think. If fertilisation has happened, there would not be implantation for another few days.

worththewait - I like your new name and I hope it will be worth the wait!

Daisybell - fingers crossed your nausea is nothing to do with your Christmas diet!

JRs - welcome back! Ovulation sounds promising! LOL at laying a duck egg!

Thanks to you all for your kind words about DH's cousin. Unfortunately the tragedy has continued as another cousin has now committed suicide - presumably as a result of the first tragedy. DH is bearing up well and I had never met either of the 2 cousins that have died but it is heartbreaking for the family :(

January just seems like such a rubbish month already. My best friend is also waiting on news of her grandfather who has survived without drip or fluids for 5 days now. He's 94yo and his body is just shutting down. So sad.

Sorry, I'll post more jolly things soon I hope promise

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ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts · 04/01/2011 22:48

Sorry to hear of you tragic news essence. I didn't read much of the thread before I posted Blush so I apologise for not mentioning anything in my earlier post.

Yes that's what I thought but better to ask than not know :)

I will come back and post and let you know how I get on.

Congrats to any BFPs :) :)

worththewait · 04/01/2011 23:28

Hi essence sorry to hear about your family gosh what ashock sorry if udont leave spaces I'm on me iPod touch lol hate this thing arghhhh good luck ttc everyone my thoughts are with essence at mo and to the lady who's gyne appointment is tomorow good luck didn't catch the name sorri idid read though ok ijust don't know how to look bk at the page on iPod touch blimey this thing puts commers in forme well done iPod touch x gosh sat will be 30days for me ithink and maybe test Sunday or later but serious backache today at 5pm and still gt it I got it 2months ago 2or 3days before iwas due on I've gt it in my diary but this time I'm due on from sat till aweek and half over x I've gt bad sore boobies gosh when itake my bra off it kills have had it lots before but not from 2weeks b4period but it maybe my hormones playing up isaid to dh that it maybe my prolactol again it makes ya boobs sore ihad high levls of it about 1 month ago u only get it when pregnant well abnormaly high levels and that's what ihad but no pregnancy x

worththewait · 04/01/2011 23:30

It was to coconuts about gynacologist ps uhavent a hubby his fionce but as good as a hubby so iput dh in future x lol good luck to everyone x

worththewait · 05/01/2011 12:35

oh that wat dh means lol
sorry i diont know im still getting used to this wording sorry :(

milkysmum · 05/01/2011 16:52

HI. Im in the 2ww. Due on this Friday- have had light spotting yesterday- pinkish then a darker brown- maybe implanation bleeding?- I hope so!!!! If I don't come on Friday gone do a test this weekend I think. Fingers crossed!!!! Good luck every one who is waiting X

worththewait · 05/01/2011 16:54

hi everyone the 2 ww is really gettingto me
i dont know if its a good idea me being on this im just hoping to much lol like everyone dus
arhhh
y cant we just test early and come out negative the world will be good if every woman can do that lol
i went outside just now to clean my bunny out and i had a weird boob feeling when i wnet outside i had been out there for ten min or longer and coming in and out to gt stuff for my cage and bunny
and when icame bk in i started washing my hands and i gott his weird boob feeling like it hurting it wenrt my boob this time it was my nipple lol
sorry to be so worded
i think this happened to me when i walked down the cold aisle in tescos last month or month b4
so maybe im just clutching at straws
idint imagine it though
and it was so sore my nipple
which they have been to touch when i gt sore boobs its just sore around the boob and heavier or heavy boobs that kill
but last 2 days nipples been sore to touch sumtimes
but just now went out in the cold and nipple hurt me but not both of them weird iknow ibet af will gt me soon x:(

worththewait · 05/01/2011 16:54

anyone else had this wen pregnant ?????
early preggars x

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