Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part 7)

[MamaPower]

A comfy little corner for those who need company in the post mc ttc journey!

To POAS or not to POAS? That is the question!

All welcome

afternoon everyone,
Gos you were all busy chatting this weekend. i cant keep up !
Suffice to say the fainting sounds horrid for all of you !

As for me, well I am now 2 days late and no sign of AF ?? Havent a clue what is happening. I havent tested since saturday mornings BFN and dont have any inclination too as I know what it will be.
I havent a clue where my AF has gone though ! Im usually regular as clock work !

If my cycle has suddenly got longer does this mean I wouldnt have ovulated when I thought then as I have always had a 28 day cycle and used a calculator ( basic I know ) to work out when I ovulate. That clearly didnt work hence the BFN !!!

Im all confused. Good job I bought the OPK's !! Now need AF to appear so I can get started !!!

Unless of course there is a minute chance I am pg ? I mean if I miscalculated and ovulated later then who knows ??

Straws.............clutching.........who me !!

between sorry you are in limbo..... cycles on here seem to have minds of their own sadly post MC! Im all confused with mine too :( bloody bodies

Have you thought about temping?

MONDAYS LIST

Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
Littlemiss72 TTC#1(post MC#2) UCL 30 BFP!!
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 6 (round 7)UCL 28-31
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post nmc#1) ucl??? (PCOS) CD56
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL28 CD51
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL28 CD44
getawiggleon TTC#2, MC#1, UCL28, CD40
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD36
urbanlolly TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MMC) UCL29 BFP!!
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 3 UCL33 CD32
Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD30
pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 or 35 CD28
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD26
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 3 (round 3) UCL27 CD23
velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD21
sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 5, UCL 24-28, CD21
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 2 UCL 30 CD20
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD17
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD14
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD11
choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 4 UCL 27 CD8
kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD7
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD7
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD5
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD4

WTTC

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Jollster TTC #2, MC3 conf 16th Aug
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul)
? KT
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Jollster WTTC#2 after 3MMC
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010

MIA
pippaandpolly
Honeywitch TTC#1
Curlylox TTC#3
delilahbelle TTC#1
Pinkie08 TTC#3 UCL 30

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
hairytriangle BFP 21 Sep
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct

Waiting for something to happen over here! waves to all, back later.

Who has the fish?? Get it ready for me - 7dpo and spotting!!

Rach I had the fainting big time for 2 weeks after mc! I fainted 3 times (different occasions) whilst having a poo (tmi)

Ooh sounds good velvet! Keeping crossed:)

velvet I am most certainly not going to give you a slap, it sounds suspiciously like a real sign to me!!

inbetweener sorry you're in limbo, I'm afraid this cycle, and quite a few more going on my experience will be completely mental and unpredictable....

bonfire if no sign of AF it's all good!!

Nothing exciting going on over here, am either 2 weeks DPO or 4 days DPO depending on whether you take FFs first or second attempt at pinpointing ov.... Only symptom to spot here is tingly boobs (also a PMT sign from experience) and really fancying an egg Mayo sardine which I'm not sure actually counts.... Also had weird period pain style cramps for a couple of days. Probably wind tho! So have decided to test in 2 weeks if AF hasn't rocked up and temps still high, don't need the stress of neg tests... Really good mate who had mc earlier this year had a successful 12 week scan today so feeling both and simultaneously....

egg Mayo sarnie actually!, reckon fancying eggy sardines would defo be a sign!!!

egg Mayo sarnie actually!, reckon fancying eggy sardines would defo be a sign!!!

Eggy sardines bleurgh!!! :)

Hello all and welcome to the newbies xxx

Day 5 here and everything noormal. My DH is away for the week though so i hope I'm not one of those women who ov particularly early in their cycle. He's due to be home from CD10 to CD18 (he's scheduled his work trips especially to try to be home for ov!!), so hope my body complies. I usually ov around CD18 I think... We'll see.

PS if anyone needs a little pick-me-up (and boy do I - I've been such a miserable mess recently) Starbucks new Peppermint Mocha is devine!!! (and no, I don't work for them!! :)

egg mayo sardines....just saying it makes me want to gag!

Wombat are starbucks doing their xmas flavours now?

lets hope she doesnt wack you with an eggy sardine velvet, you will stink!

Evening all, just a quick post to spread some happines. After working myself up into a right old state involving no sleep last night, scan went really well! 8.5 week baby blob with a BEAUTIFUL heartbeat. Burst into tears when I saw it!
I then proceeded to spend the morning throwing up and this afternoon feeling sick in bed. Luckily DH came home from work to look after ds.
I have my fingers crossed for all of you, will keep checking back to see how you're doing. And welcome newbies, these ladies have been my safety net these last 5 months...you're in good hands here!

velvet I think they must be 'cos someone at work came in with an egg nog latte on Friday...

haha nix that's true! it is definately a symptom-spotting deterrent!

oh and great news on the scan apple

apple pleased to hear your scan went so well! Am very happy for you. Hope you are feeling better this evening after a rest in bed.

apple great to hear the scan went well! If I ever get pg again I'll be terrified of the first scan. Good to know it can go right! Think I'd be joining you in the bursting into tears thing :)

so pleased to hear some good news apple, had a terrible weekend, i think the grief just creeps up on you..
im in a negative head space and cant seem to pull through it at the moment, so any good news is one inch closer to me getting out, if that makes an sense.

Egg nog latte, bleugh.

Does overwhelming jealousy of every preg woman in the world that actually hurts my stomach count as a symptom?? :(

im sure its a symptom of grief pink chin up...

Hi ladies thanks so much for all the advice about the spotting. I'm such an impatient person! I just want to ov, symptom spot etc etc!

nix I've only just realised how similar our circumstances are - my DS is also 3 and longs for a sibling. We were out shopping yesterday and he pointed out a babygro and said 'shall we get that for our baby?' He didn't know anything about the pg I just lost (thank god) but it's so hard isn't it. I do feel like I'm depriving him. Do you worry about the age gap?

I've just had the second negative result from my MRSA re-screening so that's positive. Just one more to go!

How did the meeting go this morning pink ? I've got one tomorrow too. Really not looking forward to it as I think the head and the deputy will be ganging up on me about how 'far behind we are' and action planning etc etc. I only went back last week and have already had several 'comments.' Not helpful! I will be mostly trying not to cry!

dachs mummya thinking of you both x

Wonderful news apples. I am petrified about next scan which is such a shame as I used to love going to the scans.
Betweener I am going to keep my suspenders on just in case ... and velvet here's hoping an egg has just skidded to a halt for a firm implantation.

rachk32 sorry you are feeling a little rocky at the moment. It is strange how it creeps up on you every now and then.

I just found out the wife of a friend had a mc earlier this year in Hong Kong. She is really struggling to come to terms with it as noone is willing to talk about it. Makes me realise how lucky we are to have threads like this! So thank you lovely ladies!

wombat33 how great your dh is committed! I haven't tested dhs commitment yet as we are only on cycle 1 - will see what happens when we have been trying for a bit longer.

Mouse are you a teacher too?

Hello everyone! Just thought I would check in and say hi. I have just spent the last hour catching up on the posts but of course I now can't remember anything of anything

So can we all just pretend that I have said exactly the right responses to all posts

I am hoping I might actually be getting some AF symptoms (I know, the only person on the boards hoping their AF will start!). Had some cramping and also my own personal wierd AF symptom: really runny eyes when cooking. So fingers crossed I can start my next cycle soon and get temping again.

Anyways...just thought i would add myself to the list while I am here:

Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
Littlemiss72 TTC#1(post MC#2) UCL 30 BFP!!
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 6 (round 7)UCL 28-31
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post nmc#1) ucl??? (PCOS) CD56
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL28 CD51
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL28 CD44
getawiggleon TTC#2, MC#1, UCL28, CD40
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD36
urbanlolly TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MMC) UCL29 BFP!!
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 3 UCL33 CD32
Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD30
pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 or 35 CD28
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD26
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 3 (round 3) UCL27 CD23
velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD21
sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 5, UCL 24-28, CD21
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 2 UCL 30 CD20
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD17
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD14
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD11
choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 4 UCL 27 CD8
kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD7
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD7
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD5
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD4

WTTC

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Jollster TTC #2, MC3 conf 16th Aug
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul)
? KT
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Jollster WTTC#2 after 3MMC
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
HidingInTheBackRow TTC#1 MC#1 Oct 2010

MIA
pippaandpolly
Honeywitch TTC#1
Curlylox TTC#3
delilahbelle TTC#1
Pinkie08 TTC#3 UCL 30

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
hairytriangle BFP 21 Sep
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct