Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part 7)

[MamaPower]

A comfy little corner for those who need company in the post mc ttc journey!

To POAS or not to POAS? That is the question!

All welcome

BrownB are you ok? Hope you're doing alright and that you get the news you want before long...

We can take you off the stats if you want, but please still feel free to pop in whenever you want if you need a chat x

pv hope you're doing ok too, lovely. I can understand the needing a break over Christmas and hope you have a lovely relaxing time (and that you're back before long - hopefully with a bfp!) . Take care and do keep popping in to let us know how you're doing x

mummya yay re bleeding!! (only in here could I write that!). Fx it turns into proper AF soon!!!

batfink - any news?! anymore symptoms to spot??

thanks all for the welcome pack of chocs and wine.

I had a rather nice glass of rioja last night and fell asleep in front of the apprentice so never got to see who went

Had some sleep but woke up at 5am and couldn't get back off - annoying. Had to get up to change pad anyway I guess you are not supposed to use tampons?

Am going to have to make a sad trip to the shops to get more pads. Am down to my last one. Was really hoping to not have to buy any more for some time!

Hope you are all doing ok today
x

Just updating the list for today (pretty I've taken you off for now - enjoy all that booze and mouldy cheese over the festive season!)

mummya that sounds very hopeful. Keep us posted!

THURSDAY'S LIST

Pinkie08 TTC#3 UCL 29
Lottiecrump UCL 27/29
cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL29
Littlemiss72 TTC#1(post MC#2) UCL 29 BFP
BrownB TTC#1 Cycle 15 (post MC#1) UCL 24-26 CD 49
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post nmc#1) ucl??? (PCOS) CD45
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL28 CD40
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL28 CD33
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD6
getawiggleon TTC#2, MC#1, UCL28, CD29
owlshoes TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28, CD29
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 19 UCL24-9 CD 25
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD25
kat2504, TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL 26, CD24
urbanlolly TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MMC) UCL29 CD24
choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 3 UCL 27 CD23
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 3 UCL26-28 CD23
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 1 (post MC) UCL 31 CD23
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 3 UCL33 CD21
Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD19
pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 CD17
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD15
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 3 (round 3) UCL27 CD12
velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD10
sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 5, UCL 24-28, CD10
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 2 UCL 30 CD9
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD3

WTTC

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Jollster TTC #2, MC3 conf 16th Aug
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul)
? KT
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Jollster WTTC#2 after 3MMC

MIA
pippaandpolly
Honeywitch TTC#1
Curlylox TTC#3
delilahbelle TTC#1

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
batteryhen BFP 18 August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
hairytriangle BFP 21 Sep
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Digitalgirl BFP 4 October
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct

Morning all :)

BrownB it's no fun being stuck at the top of the list, is it? I took myself off it completely for a bit which I found helped, but still lurked in here for the good company :)

MummyA Whoop! Fingers crossed things are getting back to normal for you at last.

PV Eating (and drinking) whatever you want during the festive season sounds like a top idea as does a break from 2WW mentalling - hope it does you a world of good and you get our first 2011 bfp!

Was it Nicks who wanted to do a name change for halloween? If so, you just change your username under the 'my mumsnet' bit.

PFF To be fair I did purchase some ebay cheapies but they haven't arrived yet :) Basically if it's in the house I'll pee on it, regardless of reason, DPO, etc - which is why I ran out in the first place Am sure AF will arrive today or tomorrow as I am lucky enough to have a cycle one could set one's watch by - and I don't feel remotely up the duff, sadly. Never mind, at least the holiday SWI was good fun.

PS. Dachs if you're out there, hope you're doing okay my lovely ((squish))

Just updating to take off BrownB as requested (but feel free to join back in at any time) and also to move pv and battery to WTTC after reading battery's sad news on the other thread . Hope you don't mind x

THURSDAY'S LIST

Pinkie08 TTC#3 UCL 29
Lottiecrump UCL 27/29
cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL29
Littlemiss72 TTC#1(post MC#2) UCL 29 BFP
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post nmc#1) ucl??? (PCOS) CD45
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL28 CD40
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL28 CD33
getawiggleon TTC#2, MC#1, UCL28, CD29
owlshoes TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28, CD29
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 19 UCL24-9 CD 25
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD25
kat2504, TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL 26, CD24
urbanlolly TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MMC) UCL29 CD24
choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 3 UCL 27 CD23
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 3 UCL26-28 CD23
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 1 (post MC) UCL 31 CD23
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 3 UCL33 CD21
Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD19
pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 CD17
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD15
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 3 (round 3) UCL27 CD12
velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD10
sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 5, UCL 24-28, CD10
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 2 UCL 30 CD9
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD6
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD3

WTTC

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Jollster TTC #2, MC3 conf 16th Aug
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul)
? KT
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Jollster WTTC#2 after 3MMC
PrettyVacant WTTC#1
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010

MIA
pippaandpolly
Honeywitch TTC#1
Curlylox TTC#3
delilahbelle TTC#1

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
hairytriangle BFP 21 Sep
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Digitalgirl BFP 4 October
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct

sorry for my ignorance, is the "WTF" cycle the one straight after the MC? And what is the "W" in WTTC?

Going to add my stats but don't really understand

getdown yes WTF is straight after MC as it seems that anything can happen in that cycle! WTTC = waiting to ttc.

If you're joining the main ttc list, just slot yourself in according to your current cycle day.

Hope you're doing ok today, it's a horrid time and we're thinking of you x

thanks Izzy I do feel a bit better today. Mercifully I had some sleep so feeling fresher.

The worst times for me are going to the toilet, the rest of the time I just seem to be able to put it out of my mind, but seeing it in the loo you cannot ignore

Blimey I have no idea what to expect with my WTF cycle then! My cycle is weird at the best of times (anywhere from 27 to 44 days!!) so who knows what joys my body will throw into the mix.

So here I am:

GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD2 AF due - who knows.

mummsy WHOOP WHOOP and a big de WHOOP! a bit of blood is better than no blood at all :) sounding promising my lovely, lovely glamorous chatterchum :)

Izz

Love the noo name Nickster
Clever girl!
I meant to post how to do it last week but tunnels,work and doing my face on the train it slipped my mind.

Although I'm holding off which of course means I'll be diffed next month can I still keep my stats up.
Ta la's x

fx that its AF mummyA!

I am gearing up for the shagfest too. Since I have no idea whats going on I thought day 12-25 would be the best bet - do you agree??

DH says I have to get the naughty undies out but I say why does it have to be me who does the turning on?? He has a permanent boner anyway, you only have to mention his bits and it is standing to attention.

Nicks I too have the beginnings of a graph and from what I can tell its quite normal atm. But, those in the know please help me, how are you supposed to predict ov and therefore SWI if you only get a temp rise after it happens?

Have a good day everyone else

Morning all,

Only doing a half day at work today as I am actually going to get to spend a bit of time with dd2 during half term. dd1 has been at brownie camp so I can only imagine what she has been up to.

getdown hope the beeding eases soon and welcome. I havent been here long either I only mc last cycle but have just decided to jump straight in on the ttc again. Only trouble is I havent a clue what my body is doing !!

So its cd19 for me today. I have just looked and we have dtd on days 8,9,12,13,14,15,and 18 so far. According to ov calender days 13-15 were my most fertile but I dont test ( yet ) so you never know ????? I dont feel very optimistic thogh and I dont have any symptoms I dont think. Sigh to be honest I feel really meh about it this month. I juts cant see it happening for some reason. My DH said similar to the sperm comment last night too, he saw the stock of first response pg test I have in the bathroom cabinet ( they were buy one get one free whats a girl to do !! ) and said " once you are impregnated you arent going to need me any more are you !!" oooooooops.

Anyway, better do some work I guess.
I have such a bad headache today .

Do any of you agree with the findings of the ov calenders on here by they way ? velvet thats way more shagging then I have been doing so maybe thats where im going worng. I have only been doing it ( see above ) the days I am likely to be fertile. maybe I should just continue till the 5th of November when I am due. Like yours, its not like DH will need any persuading ......

Right pv have put you back on main list although have removed cycle day as have lost track of where you are (moved you to next cycle though as it didn't look right!) and wasn't sure whether you wanted to keep updating - but change it or post current stats if you want to keep them ticking round x

have also added getdown

THURSDAY'S LIST

Pinkie08 TTC#3 UCL 29
Lottiecrump UCL 27/29
cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL29
Littlemiss72 TTC#1(post MC#2) UCL 29 BFP
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 6 (round 7)UCL 28-30
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post nmc#1) ucl??? (PCOS) CD45
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL28 CD40
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL28 CD33
getawiggleon TTC#2, MC#1, UCL28, CD29
owlshoes TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28, CD29
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 19 UCL24-9 CD 25
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD25
kat2504, TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL 26, CD24
urbanlolly TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MMC) UCL29 CD24
choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 3 UCL 27 CD23
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 3 UCL26-28 CD23
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 1 (post MC) UCL 31 CD23
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 3 UCL33 CD21
Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD19
pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 28 CD17
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 3 (post MC#2), UCL 27 CD15
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 3 (round 3) UCL27 CD12
velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD10
sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 5, UCL 24-28, CD10
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 2 UCL 30 CD9
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD6
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD3
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD2

WTTC

Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Jollster TTC #2, MC3 conf 16th Aug
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul)
? KT
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Jollster WTTC#2 after 3MMC
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010

MIA
pippaandpolly
Honeywitch TTC#1
Curlylox TTC#3
delilahbelle TTC#1

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
hairytriangle BFP 21 Sep
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Digitalgirl BFP 4 October
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct

Was gonna say DONT take preeeety off the list...... no no no no no....shes our fred founder!! [hgrin]

She will be back Very very soon [hgrin]

Right now where are those deadlines?!?!

Oh and hi to Getdown - very rude of me not to say hello. Sorry you are here but welcome to the rollercoaster.

thanks Izzy for adding me

Waves to Veletcu and everyone else.

Hi ladies, welcome getdown

I'm so bored of this WTF cycle now - I don't even have any cm to chart! Have been rubbish at taking my temp this week but should be better next week when I have to start setting my alarm clock again!

Good luck mummya hope it is AF.

[hgrin] Off to buy pumpkins xx

Pretty, hope you enjoy your time off. I must say after the big trantrum about the enforced pill taking I am actually feeling much calmer and happier now that the stress of TTC has been removed. Hope it relaxes you too (and you get a sneaky BFP creep up on you when you are not looking!) Keep us updated!

Getdown, yes, you have to use pads not tampons and avoid baths too until you stop bleeding and the risk of infection has dropped. Its rotton being reminded of whats going on with every loo trip. Hope its over soon. xxx

inbetweener I think you will be glad of the extra HPT purchases. Many women who have an mc and then got pregnant again, like to do a few tests in the early weeks to see if the pregnancy hormones are still there and get a bit of extra reassurance that all is well. Having said that, most of us cant keep extra supplies in the house for very long, the urge to test gets so strong you need iron strength will power (if this happens to you, I seriously recommend buying packs of cheap tests of Amazon (25 for 5 pounds) otherwise you will risk bankrupcy!)
By the way, I use fertilityfriend.com to record SWI info, it makes it all very clear to see if your timing is right. Even if you dont temp you can use the overide feature to put in when you think you ovulated and it calculates if your timing was good or not.

Velvet good luck at shagfest - Its fair play for us to make requests from the gents too you know, I am now insisting on being wined and dined first.
You are right about the temps, you cant use them to predict ov (but as you go on you will start to see a pattern) Its most useful for knowing when you can STOP SWI - and also knowing what your lutueal phase is and how good your timing was. I found the best way to predict was cervix checking and then using OPK's when I noticed a difference. This still wasnt accurate though because I ovulated three days after that!

Fanks Nicks [hgrin]

[hgrin]

question - who out there has started to use Tampons post MC? I darent even though i hate pads and suffered the total & utter mortification of a leakage today in a meeting (TMI [hblush] [hblush] [hblush]) I still cannot bring myself to put one in?! The one and only time i did it was so painful i cried. (i am now bacteria free.... no i am not dirty [hhmm] just imbalanced!) I think i am scarred................ [hbiscuit]

A special halloween treat! Sing along....[hgrin]
the skeletons came in two by two hurrah hurrah...
the skeletons came in two by two hurrah hurrah...
The skeletons came in two by two, giblets, bat, remains & headlessboo
& they all went into the dark, for to get out of their graves

ps betweens at least you will be able to use your headache as an excuse not to now [hgrin]

giblets what are you doing on my lounge carpet?....... moggy the mouse murderer seems to have captured you.....[hgrin]