TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

HC, your signs sound posotive though. Its awfull this stage. You either need your af just to come or a bfp. Prefrably the latter. Anyway y fingers are still crossed for you. xxx

I got an appointment through this morning for a scan next Monday to check on my gall stones. Anyway it the smae place where they do the babies so do you think if i asked nicely theyd check everything was ok whilst im there, if i explain my situation.No harm in asking i supose

HC - Are you still BDing? And what CD are you on? Have you had OV symptoms this month yet??

Sorry lots of questions I know

Got to go now to my meeting! Have a nice day! Not too much chatting coz I will have to catch up!

Coathanger-last BD on Tuesday but don't like to BD the week before just incase we dislodge anything that might be there but DH insisted and as I insist the rest of the month I couldn't really say no!

Before my MC my cycle was 28 days exactly but my first AF after arrived at 7 weeks (normal to be that late) then the last one was 9 days late and followed loads of horrible discharge. Sooo have based my next AF as being due on Saturday-am CD 27 today so I will just have to see how and when this one arrives to plan the next BD sessions.

Have absolutley no idea when I OV so it is pot luck and always has been. Thinking of using DD's thermometer to take my temperature but don't know how that works so will have to go on fertility friend and read up.

Heavens, what ramblings. Time for tea said Zebedee!

xxx

Morning Darlin's!
Got back from yet more bargain hunting . Got Levi's for 4 quid, a huge yin-yang design throw-3.00, jeans for me- 3.00 and a shirt for dp-4.00.I love it!!!
Hc- Here's hoping af won't show her face hun! Hope dd gets better soon.
Ch- You can come shopping with me anytime hun!
Wills- Hope youre feeling brighter this morning.
Maddy- Ask them hun! Worse they can say is no.
Diddle- Hope you're feeling better and it does'nt take hold! Horrid feeling poor ly when you've got loads to do.

Forgot to say, Aunty, in that case mega congrats hun wahooooooo.

Not feeling particularly bright. Have got it into my head that I'm no longer BFP and can't shift the blasted doom and gloom. Oh well don't let me wallow.

Right
HC globally where are you?

CH We want to move just that no one wants to move into our house . Its on a fast road and although we've undercut all other similar houses by 30,000 we're still getting the "love the house hate the location" feedback. Oh well we'll have to plod on! I want to move to the seaside! I want to move to the seaside! I want to move to the seaside. Mostly I want to givve up work!!!!

(You've heard of positive thinking well this is determined thinking!).

Morning Ladies!
How is everyone today?
Wohoo aunty - another BFP -Congrats!
Please, please, please can we not get rid of this thread until Diddle and i test beginning of next month! I know it's a while away but we need the luck from this!
Feeling quite crappy today - woke up with a fuzzy head and razor blade throat! How crap when am going away on my hols a week tomo! I hope nothing develops for then! I will cry! Positive thoughts Lottie, Positive thought!!!!
I'm on CD 20 today, have been having mega signs that i'm Ov'ing, i was sick yesterday moring which is a good sign for me that i am OV'ing and have had all th CM signs too! And loads of pains past 2-3 days! So we have been BD every other day! Poor DP is shattered! Bless him! I have a really positive vibe about it this month. We have been BD'ing every other day now since CD 14 (ish)and will continue to do so! So if i dont get my BFP this month then i will loose all hope! A bit melodramatic but i'm sure you know what i mean!
We are going on hols week tomo (can't wait) so when we get back it wil be the right time to test, well hopefully anyway - my cycles have been all over the place so it still might be too early! CD 35 for me will be the 7th October, but my longest cycle has been 45 so we shall see!

Achoooo, damn sneezes!

Hope your all well xxx

Y is it then i always seem to come on here when no-one is around!

I'm here. Why start bding on cd14. I always start cd7 and keep going to cd 23/24 ish. cd14 seems late?

Ok maybe it was actually a few days before the CD14 but I dont ovulate until late! My last cycles have been either late 30's or early 40's.

How you feeling today? x

humphreys - there is still hope for you, you could have ov later than you realise and won't get your brp yet, what pg symptoms do you have?

Maddyd - i would definitly ask, i'm sure they might help you out, not sure what they could do so early though. no harm in asking though.

Coathanger - Hope the meeting was ok, wasn't it a bit hard for you do do that today???

Wills - do another test that should convince you that all is still ok. you really are preggers you know!

Lottielou - as you know i started bd around the same time as you, my AF was a bit weird and slightly longer than normal though so didn't fancy starying before, Plus our cycles are so long, hardly any chance of us OV before then anyway.

Hey Maddyd no harm in asking although the cynical part of me says watchout for a jobsworth! .

Lottie - fair enough.

Is it a good sign that I could quite happily sit in the middle of a room a grizzle. Really blue. Going to walk round the park at lunch time possibly the sunshine will perk me up.

Wills-stern voice-no negative thoughts please-you are PG. Perhaps a walk will do you good.

I am in v. sunny Lincolnshire. It is a truly gorgeous day. Take care hun ((xx))

Diddle-I haven't really got any PG symptoms and I never had any last time either. I remember when I was PG with DD I started feeling a bit sick the day I was due on. I still feel nauseous today and have the usual AF type cramps and my boobs hurt a bit but they did last month so I don't know. I will see if I can last out until Tuesday and if AF hasn't arrived I will test then. ((xx))

maddyd-I would ask jokingly if they would scan your beanie-your bladder has to be full so why not-good luck hun. ((xx))

Right, off to pick grizzle up from nursery-wicked mother I am for still taking her but you don't get a refund if she doesn't go so I thought it would perk her up. Have bought some more Calpol as the old stuff ran out in 02/2004 so I don't think it's working.

Hello to everyone else and big hugs ((((XXXX))))

Back later
xxx

My letter says not to eat for fours previously and to have full bladder, so may as well. You dont get if you dont ask! Ill be happy just to see a black blob

Four hours

OK put me out of my misery. My left boob doesn't hurt much any longer. The right one is still no go's ville but left is norm. That's whats worrying me. being stupid aren't i

Don't worry Willsm that doesn't mean anything, i'd make the most of it, the pain may come back. Plus not everyone has painful boobs, and not all pregnancies of the same person are the same either.

I keep having strange twinges, but I didn't have any pains with either of my pregnancies until a few weeks in. I'm on CD 24 and have just tested. Stupid really 'cos I know it's too early. HC if you can hold out till Tuesday then I will too before I test

Missmibaby - I went through a stage of testing early, and since maddyd did it a few months ago and got a bfp and then a bfn, I can't bear the chance of that happening. What sort of twinges you getting? not period sort?

Their kind of like sharp pains in my abdomen - don't last very long (2-3secs), nor are they very painful. Had a headache for the last few days and mild backache.

Will be strong and not test for a good few days!

Sat in Regents Park for a while. Much better now. Thanks girls.

Diddle and Lottie - hope you are felling better soon. I've had a cold so it must be catching!!

Wills I'm sure everything is still okay. Be positive

Maddy - I'm sure if you smile sweetly and flutter your eyelids they will scan you!

Not feeling too fab today. You're right Diddle, was too soon. Got very upset and had to leave early. All that talk of comforting your new baby when its crying, and the wonderful feeling sthat come with B/Fing. I've had that and know how wonderful it is and I want it again.

Sorry, not the right thread to bring down. We are all on such a high from 3 BFPs, i don't want to be the one to bring it down...

Ch-{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} aw hunny you tried! Well done for going! That's it! I'm taking you shopping and that'll cheer you up!

Oh sweetheart. Was too early. Take it easy and be kind to yourself. Chocolate is needed. This definitely calls for chocolate. Remember that its not that unhealthy. Think about it, all that milk AND its supposed to give you a natural high. Right off to the choccie machine.