TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

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Missmibaby-OK-iiiiiiffffffffffffff AF doesn't arrive I will test with you on Tuesday. ((xx))

Coathanger-here are some hugs from me (((((((((((((((((((((((XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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CH - Big huge Higs to you hun {{{{{{{xx}}}}}}}}}
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and also hugs to you aswel as higs!! lol

CH you welcomed me with open arms even though I did my best to bring this thread down the other day. Lots of hugs, wine anc chocolate!!!

Hc- Ohhhh hunny I really hope af does'nt show for you. At least you're expecting it. Only problem is if you got a bfp, you'd be in total shock .

HellKat-I am just preparing myself for the fall and anyway-I never want to have to leave this thread and you lovely, lovely ladies so BFN's all the way-lol!

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Aww hunny, you never know. Anyway if it does happen soon, do what I'm going to do. Even at 9 mths gone, I'm staying put lol!

HC - i don't want to leave the thread either, would be very weird not having you all to talk to, but i wouldn't want to stay too long either, i'd hate you to all get upset because i was pg. So hard isn't it, but i know as we have all beome such good mates it would be ok, we can be a mixed group all the time.

All you bfp people, don't take that the wrong way, i don't want you to go

CH - i thought it might be early. anyway off to talk DH into BD before his boss comes for the night. its our only chance today

Pmsl!! Have a great one Diddle

Off to bathe ds2 and get him to bed so i can chill and watch Eastenders. Might even have a voddie and coke tonight! .
Have a great night girls.
Ch- Hope you're ok hunny! Cat me to let me know how you're doing or if you need a chat.xx

thanks HK, asked him he said no, not enough time!!! bastard

hello, i am gonna start trying tonight as i am on cd 7, i am going to try and concieve a girl so i am going off to the shops in a bit to feed my man high magnesium foods for the rest of the week.

i have a friend who i met recently who had 2nd trimester miscarriage caused by cvs - this happened at easter just past and a year before that she had a termination at the same late stage for abnormality.
anyway her dh has said no more! she is gutted as she really wants to try again, i really dont want to tell her that i am ttc

i am looking forward to being pregnant again although obviously really anxious too but since my baby was born things have changed loads i have decided to take a year out of uni and have moved into a much nicer place and have got really interested in health, i am on a cocktail of multi vitamins, calcium and mag, omega 3 fish oil, acidophilus and fresh vegetable and fruit juice so i am hoping i am healther than before and because of no work or uni this year am going to be stress free- fingers crossed. i am desperate to have a baby, my dp is not the father of my ds and dd 8 and 6 years so he is really keen on having his own kids, although is still a great dad to my 2.

have not been round much today as have been wembley shopping am cream crackered now and house is a right state so i best get on with it.

this does seem like a lucky thread is that 3 people so far thats are pg? i wont be testing for a few weeks yet so lets hope the next thread is lucky too ;)

slinkstah - good to hear from you. Yep 3 positives in one week, thats brilliant, lest hope we're all next.
I wouldn't blame you for not telling your friend, Coathanger is taking a break from TTC as well, as her DH isn't keen on trying again, might have a lot in common with your friend, and help you discuss it with your friend, maybe.

Sorry Coathanger not voluntearing you for anything

arghhhhhhhh i have ferns in my ovulation microscope!!! whoooooooooo i have never seen them properly before - only seen them just before af not seen them for ovulation whey hey hey!!!

Slinkie - WHAT ON EARTH IS A OV MICROSCOPE????????? sorry am i being really thick??

I don't mind being volunteered diddle

i know what your friend is feeling slinkie. i want nothing more than another baby but DH isn't keen. holding off for 6 months then see

Has that echo come back....

...echo....

...echo....

Is there nobody I can talk to...?

Okay...

I'll come back later then...

Bye

Hello everyone, thank you so much for all your messages.....just fantastic and makes me feel so much less alone! My dd (10mths)has scuppered any plans to spend time chatting over the last few days, deciding the computer cable is the most interesting thing in the whole house and that I am also the most interesting thing in the world! I am actually very grateful for her love and feel that I should be grateful and not feel so sorry for myself. I can't wait to have some time to really catch up on all the news. It's my birthday on Sat so my only request has been a little time.....and some champagne! I loved coathangers champagne chat earlier in this thread. Anyway, thanks again and I will keep looking for your news and views etc. You all sound lovely and thanks again for the virtual hugs xx

an ovulation microscope is a small microscope thing that looks like a lipstick and you put some fresh saliva on it and let it dry and then look at it, if there are ferning patterns it means that your saliva has got estrogen in it which means that you are about to ovulate or get af.

i think they are brill as its much less hassle than the LH pee tests. they are also really cheap too, i think it was around a tenner.

WOW!! I need me one of them there OV microscopes!!!! Isn't technology wonderful!!

Babybloos - I know what you mean about being grateful for what you have. But it doesn't make the pain of losing a baby any less. The girls on here helped me with that issue. I already have 3 boys, and I adore them and I thank God every day for what I have. But I am still grieving for that baby I lost. And I know now that that is okay - I'm allowed to feel sorry for myself. Its not a case of being lucky or grateful.

Oh, and we'll have some more champers on Saturday

Well, I'm off to the land of Nod! Nobody wants to talk to me so I'm going now [sniff-sniff]

Nighty-night! Sweet dreams all!

Morning all!!!

slinstah - have never heard of a ov microscope before, and i thought we knew everything, may have to investigate that one.

babybloos - I can't say i know how you feel, i'm still trying for my first baby, but i have to say that regardless of how many children you already have, that pain of th eloss won't go away, and you don't have to feel grateful that you already have one, just to make you feel better, you can grieve the child you have lost, its important that you do. I'm a childminder and after my m/c's i threw myself into making the kids days really special, because i felt the same, they are lucky to be here and i am honoured to look after them. But the pain and aching for one of my own is still there. Give yourself time, i can assure you ti does get easier.

Coathanger - Have you scared everyone off again last night

THANK CRUNCHIE ITS FRIDAY!!! i am really looking forward to my lie in tomorrow.