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TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Diddle · 08/09/2005 13:15

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

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HellKat · 19/09/2005 15:35

Lol!
Hopefully bd'ing like a mad woman! Not that we get much time (have to sort of planning it around ds1 being at his dads every other w/end or quickies once ds2's asleep and ds1 is out).

maddyd · 19/09/2005 15:39

Well my Doctor was fab. Ive to go back when 9 weeks and if he cant find a heartbeat then he will send me for a scan. Very understanding so feel alot better now.

Im off for a lie down, im still in shock

Wills · 19/09/2005 15:50

Glad to hear doc's visit went well maddyd

CH - fab review now I'm up to date on everyone.

Oldfool - you out there as well?

Diddle · 19/09/2005 15:56

Brilliant news Maddyd - so pleased they're taking extra special care of you.

Wills - where abouts in the country are you???

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HellKat · 19/09/2005 15:56

Maddy- You go and rest hun. What about going for an early scan? You can get referred from 7+ weeks.

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 16:05

Well, I know i've missed Strike1, Lottielou, HC, Nicmum2boys, Shelly, Wishingchair, Auntynon. How are you all?

maddyd · 19/09/2005 16:05

He cant put me down for a 7 week as only miscarried once. If i have any bleeding he obviuosly will. But im happy with what hes doing. If he finds a heartbeat at 9 weeks ill be well surprised.

I may still look into a private scan, but as long as i feel ill then i know everything is ok!!!

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 16:07

MaddyD - I hope you don't read this untiol much later today after a nice long lay down but just wanted to say I'm glad Doctor was good to you and that he understood. Hope you enjoyed your lay down XXX

maddyd · 19/09/2005 16:25

I cant lay down ive got the kiddies tea to do but once ive forced them to eat i can then relax. I mean anyone would think i was trying to poisen them.

Dp will be home early to pamper me and finish the tea hopefully.

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 16:27

Well, you make sure you get lie down as soon as you can. xxx

babybloos · 19/09/2005 16:32

hi, i have been bumped on to this thread but seems I am too l8 as is turning into a pregnancy thread which is such gr8 news, I hope it can bring me some luck too!! i mc in aug and desp want to be pg again, have 10mth dd but since mc with twins at 8wks can't imagine life without another bb. just got af today and i feel i can finally start to plan for next bb. I don't know anything about temp things so will try all the other advice I have read and just go for it, perhaps more so at the predicted times. dh a wee bit hesitant thinking that my state of mind was not totally balanced but he forgets it never really is, I put this down to being a woman!! I would love to have the opp to chat to some of you as have no one that knows or has gone through it and i have the whole stiff upper lip thing going on at the mo which is wearing me down!! Congratulations to everyone who has a + test, all the luck in the world to you and keep us posted!!

Diddle · 19/09/2005 16:47

Welcome Babybloos - so sorry to hear about your loss, don't worry this isn't a pg thread, just had a couple of people get there positives today btu there are still plenty of us still trying. We are al at various stages, some of us temp, some check cervical mucus (sorry gross) and others use ovulation predicter kits. I do none of the above and i'm going au naturel.
I know that you will fidn great suppor ton this thread, we are a wonderful bunch and eveyrone has been a great support, you ahve definityl come to the right place. sory spelling is rough thsi time of the day, actually all the time.
We will get you through this and find your positive result.

((((((big supportive hugs))))))))

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 16:59

Babybloos - is this your first miscarriage? we have a stats thread that you can add your details to so that we all know a bit about you and you can see a bit about us all. there is a link below:

our stats thread

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 17:06

Message from Lottielou - she says welcome babybloos, and sorryf or your loss.
plus she is so busy she hasn't got time to log on so says night night to you all she finishes work soon and will speak to you tomorrow.

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Diddle · 19/09/2005 17:07

where have you all gone??????

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HellKat · 19/09/2005 17:26

Welcome Baby.
maddy- Your dr sounds fab!! Try not to fret if a hb is'nt picked up then. My mw said sometimes they can't be heard until 10+ weeks. Lol at you poisoning kiddies! My ds2 screams when the highchair comes out (even though he loves his food).

HellKat · 19/09/2005 17:30

Maddy- Had a thought. Have you posted on the Due in Nov thread to let them know?

maddyd · 19/09/2005 17:38

No they prob wont remenber me

Welcome babybloos

strike1 · 19/09/2005 17:39

Welcome Babyloos. Sorry to hear about your m/c. I know how strong the desire to get pg again is, and it's frustrating and hurtful that people expect you to "pull your socks up", that whole stiff upper lip thing. If one more person had told me how "common m/c is" after it happened, then moved on to talk about what new shoes they'd just bought I would have hit someone! Luckly I found this lot and could finally let out all the painful feelings without being treated like a self indulgent drama queen!

Well I'm right at the beginning of my cycle at the mo, cd 7 and I'm trying out my new Persona machine. I am determined to bd on every red day and hopefully I might get a result this month!

HellKat · 19/09/2005 17:40

Maddy- Sure they would hun! They remember all of us! Just make sure you type Cp3 then they definitely will.

maddyd · 19/09/2005 17:41

I may wait till im a few more weeks, im still wary

HellKat · 19/09/2005 17:42

No probs! Bet it's still surreal atm!

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 17:49

Welcome Babybloos! I'm sorry about your loss {{{{{HUGS}}}}}. I hope you get some comfort and support from us. I've said this sooo many times, but these ladies on this thread are great and will get you through. They make you laugh, weep, rant, go bananas....

I had a MC in August too, and it was my first. Already have 3 DS's.

Lets hope this thread is as lucky for you as it has been for Maddy and Wills today. I can tell this one is going to be a really lucky one for all of you xx

Coathanger · 19/09/2005 17:54

Diddle's link to the stats thread has promted me to update my stats. New name and situation and all that...

Diddle · 19/09/2005 17:59

maddyd - of course they will remember you, you narna, how could they forget.

signing off soon ladies, don't chat too much i hate ctaching up going to pick my little doggy up from my moms, so won't be on until tomorrow

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