TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

Ahh maddy and wills - big fat congrats heading your way now!!!

Come on the rest of us - wouldn't it be amazing if we got 100% success rate!

ha ha ha ha

Diddle im gonna text him in a mo. Just finishing some work first so i can realx and really enjoy my day. Ill be walking aroung like a great big loony.

What a year this is going to be for me, so much saddness at the start and finishing with so much more than i could hope for!

Look what happens when I go shopping, I've missed all the excitement!
BIG CONGRATULATIONS to Maddyd and Wills. So for you.

Hi Petunia, shopping already, wow its late i must do some work. you have missed all the excitement, but come back to great news
oh maddyd let us know what he says.

Well, what an exciting morning! I'm quite worn out now!

I am so pleased for you both. Now take things easy and chill!

Let us know what happens with doc, Maddy.

I'm off for a lie down now - phew! Will be back later on

Coat hanger you old soak, go sleep off the champers

Dp just phoned and was being a worry guts.Bless him. We are not allowed to tell anyone till i get back from Hols when ill be 13 weeks. Its a good job i can tell you lot or id go nuts.

My god how much did I miss!

Maddyd - Am shaking as I type this cos I'm soooo chufffed! WEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLL DONNNNNNNNEEEEEEEEEEEe. Have you text'd him yet? What did he say? OH loads of hugs and {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hughs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}. Oh wow oh wow oh wow oh wow. Oh well that's that then, just when I'd actually started to focus on work again. Might as well bugger off home and just sit there and mumsnet. Oh wow. Who said sticky dust. What a brilliant idea. Wish Tescos could stock that!

LottieLou just needed to say that's my dd2's name. (Charlotte Louise). She's 2 and has now decided that her name is Lou lou and corrects us whenever we call her Lotte

Thanks Wills, ive just logged off work too. Just cant concentrate. Its so exciting isnt it.

Ive got Docs in an hour so i best go get sorted but will be back later

Thankyou once agin to you all. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

CH. I'm told (trying hard not to look to puffed up) that dyslexia is a sign of intelligence. Not sure you'd agree if you met me but there you go. Yes I know loads and yes am watching my two daughters just in case. But... if he is don't worry cos it didn't do me any harm. The only thing you might need to agree is that when playing scrabble that a)yes the word must exist but b) that he doesn't necessarily know what it means. I was given a lot of extra tuition at school and know the principles of building a work so I normally take my scrabble letters and using the principles that were taught to me "build" a word. To my dh's frustration I normally win! Feel free to CAT me if you want more.

Wills - First of all Congrats! So So pleased for you!
What a lovely name, you certainly have good taste! How sweet about ur DD2 correcting you! Bless!
How are you today? you missed all the excitement earlier, i nearly burst! ( wow that wud make a mess, lol)

Congratulations Maddyd, am so pleased for you.

Nope, still can't concentrate although the initial elation is starting to give way to fear. The last year has seriously been one of the worst and I can't quite believe that anything is going to go well yet. Little bit pessimisstic/cynical. So am nervous that I'm going to have a rocky road to the way to my 3rd.

Wills - it is totally normal for you to be worried, stay positive and just see what happens. Is out of your control now. congrats again by the way.

Maddyd - hope all goes well at the docs, let us know what they say, i hope they're lovely to you.

Diddle, why aren't they going to be lovely to her?

I don't know, you never know some doctors don't see previous miscarriages as a big deal and don't take extra care of you, after my first one I was pg a few weeks later, and when i saw the midwife, she wasn't bothered by it at all an dbrushed my concerns under the carpet.

OH.....MY.......GOD!!!!!!!!!

I can't believe it CONGRATULATIONS!!! Maddyd and Wills. I need to not log on more often (if that makes sense?!), it brings good luck. I'm so pleased for you both I don't know, I miss all the excitment! Ooooohhhhh I'm so chuffed for you I don't what to do with myself, I'll just go and run around the house for a bit!

Diddle - I soooo know that feeling. I'm permanently aghast at how mums that miscarry are treated. if we're soooo common then why aren't we better catered for. Its got to be the british stiff upper lip and don't talk about crap or somein. I'm not planning to tell my gp yet but have to work out how on earth I can get myself into the system without seeing her. She's nice enough in other areas but basically can't understand why on earth I want to put everyone through the roller coaster again and why I can't be satisfied with just two. Isn't that quite enough! GRRRR Might not go near the whole process until I've got to three months! Might actually dig deep and get a private nuchal scan (they don't do them in my area anyway) when I get nearer to 12 weeks. Can't bear to tell my gp and then tell her I'm loosing etc etc etc

sounds like your gp is a right cow. thats not very nice having that opinion about having more kids. Can't you book direct with the midwife, i've got our local midwifes number and they asked me to make my own appointment last time, i just went to the reception of the doctors and asked them to do it. it worked, might be worth a try. GP never did much anyway, just asked f i wa shappy an dif it was planned.

In my area you have to be recommended to a consultant by the gp (although even then its not guaranteed). During dd2's pregnancy the consultant sort of "adopted" me and I had tonnes of respect for him. I want to go back to the same guy but can't work out how to do it. May contact my local epu. DD2's pregnancy was not plain sailing towards the end and the staff at the epu also look after you at the other end etc. Hopefully its still managed by the same woman and she might be able to give me advice.

Am so nervous that I'm even sitting here trying to work out what in the house I could sell that would get me to him privately! How stupid?

FLIPPIN ECK!!!!!!!!

Been on EBAY all morning putting dd clothes on...

Huge CONGRATULATIONS to Maddyd and Wills!!!!!!

Woweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

I just KNEW someone was going to get a bfp this month and we got two!!!!!!Great news girls you have cheered me up no end and I have banished all those negative thoughts I pestered you with the other day.Saying that dont think I am this month.Feel crampy and although shes due Friday (thats day 27)as my cycle is a bit all over the place she could knock on the door anytime...

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxKISSESxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx to you both!!!

Oooo, hanger over setting in.... reminder to self - stay off champers when there are BFP on thread.......Oh, who am i kidding?! Keep it flowing!!!

Right, Coz i'm think as 2 short planks, and have the memory of a goldfish I need a reminder of where we all are:

Wills and Maddyd - bfp's today

CP - testing Friday ????

Diddle - mid cycle

HK - BDing like a mad woman this month!!

Who have I missed??

Whoops! Forgot me! - not TTC at the moment but on here coz had MC last month and want to give you all loads of support. Hopefully will be TTC in 6 month time