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Anyone plan to start ttc in nov/dec?

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asouthwoldmummy · 17/09/2010 11:05

Hi I'm new to the conception boards. Is anyone else planning to start ttc in November or december and wants to join me on a new thread?
DS has an appointment at GOSH on 25 November, we are waiting to get that out of the way before ttc number 2!

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Gobolino · 18/10/2010 17:48

Hi everyone,
Mind if I join you? We'll be TTC our first from mid-November. Until last night we'd compromised on next year, but DH had a sudden change of heart much to my joy! Glad to see I'm not the only newbie.

Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD17, 33yrs
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs

So I went to get my vits / folic acid today. And I'm booked into the doctor tomorrow for an MOT. Anything else I need to do? Eek! I am bricking it. So excited though.

Hils74 · 18/10/2010 18:35

Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD17, 33yrs
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs

Just done my first POAS, negative :-(

100years · 18/10/2010 19:54

OldPramLady DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs
Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD17, 33yrs
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs
100years, DC1 after next period poss oct, CD24, 32 yrs 10 months Wink

Purplebuns · 18/10/2010 20:31

Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs
Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD17, 33yrs
100years, DC1 after next period poss oct, CD24, 32 yrs 10 months
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs

100years I am OldPramLady

Gobolino you need to have sex Wink

Ignore the site it is on, but a good plan of action here

Hils better look next time, although it sucks!

How is everyone feeling?

100years · 18/10/2010 21:42

Oops!!! Sorry purplebuns I missed that bit of your post.

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Tokyotwist · 19/10/2010 07:29

Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs
Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD19, 33yrs
100years, DC1 after next period poss oct, CD24, 32 yrs 10 months
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs

Am I right to move along my CD?

Still waiting for a happy face on my ovulation test. CD19 and nothing yet Grr. But then I tend to have long cycles.

DH, the comedian, bought me a Tamagotchi to satisfy my maternal feelings [hhmm]. The blooming thing keeps bleeping.

How are you all doing?

Tokyotwist · 19/10/2010 07:31

Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs
Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD19, 33yrs
100years, DC1 after next period poss oct, CD24, 32 yrs 10 months
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs
TheseBootsAreMadeForWalking TTC DC #1 Nov, CD 18, 31 years

asouthwoldmummy · 19/10/2010 08:45

Everyone ttc DC2 - can I ask how long you took ttc last time?

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Purplebuns · 19/10/2010 10:31

Tokyotwist that is hilarious and the sort of silly thing my DH would do.

Southwold, I have earned the nickname 'Fertile myrtle' I am afraid, and conceived both my pregnancies first cycle, my DD wasn't planned.. And I had a MC, I hope to be lucky and conceive easily again as I am going to be stressed enough when I am actually pregnant!

Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs
Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD19, 33yrs
100years, DC1 after next period poss oct, CD24, 32 yrs 10 months
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
TheseBootsAreMadeForWalking TTC DC #1 Nov, CD 18, 31 years
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs

I keep putting them in age order Blush

asouthwoldmummy · 19/10/2010 11:04

Purplebuns - are you a bit OCD abut things being in order? Mine is empty plug sockets being left on, drives me mad! Hopefully you'll conceive quickly again, hope we all do!

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Gobolino · 19/10/2010 11:27

My copy of Taking Charge of your Fertility arrived from Amazon this morning (I ordered it express delivery as was too excited to wait! Blush ) so I've been reading a bit of it this morning. It seems quite time-absorbing to be honest (temps every morning, checking fluid three times a day etc).

I think we might go for the ingenious 'lots of sex' method prescribed by Purplebuns above for a couple of months and see how we do.

Is everyone else planning on doing charts and things?

jaggythistle · 19/10/2010 11:40

Hello asouthwold,

I was lucky to conceive DS in about 2 months - I was a bit Shock to be honest!

I had been charting on Fertility Friend and doing temps/ov tests. Wasn't that much into inspecting mucus, although the EWCM is fairly obvious so I recorded that! Also used Preseed Blush it was very fashionable amongst my internet friends at the time!

Had a look at my chart from then and it looks like I was doing the 'lots of sex' method too Blush

I have been keeping note of my cycles in FF since my periods came back in April, my cycles seem mostly regular which I am hoping is a good sign. Still bf my 13 month old, not sure if it will matter as my periods are back.

Getting myself a tiny bit nervous now I have decided to ttc - had to have an emcs last time and pondering if I have waited long enough...

Good luck everybody. :)

franjam · 19/10/2010 12:23

franjam, DC1 Oct/Nov, 3 stepkids (10,6 & 4), CD no clue, 31 yrs

WYorksLass · 19/10/2010 12:56

Hi, can i join in?

Only 2 more periods to go before we start ttc :-)

Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs
Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD19, 33yrs
100years, DC1 after next period poss oct, CD24, 32 yrs 10 months
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
TheseBootsAreMadeForWalking TTC DC #1 Nov, CD 18, 31 years
WYorksLass, DC1 end of Nov, CD21, 30 years
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs

ChateauMargot · 19/10/2010 13:55

Goblino, I'm resisting the charts until we're at least a few months in. Otherwise I can imagine myself getting worryingly OCD about it all..!

Gobolino · 19/10/2010 14:29

Just popping franjam in:

Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs
Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD19, 33yrs
100years, DC1 after next period poss oct, CD24, 32 yrs 10 months
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
TheseBootsAreMadeForWalking TTC DC #1 Nov, CD 18, 31 years
franjam, DC1 Oct/Nov, 3 stepkids (10,6 & 4), CD no clue, 31 yrs
WYorksLass, DC1 end of Nov, CD21, 30 years
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs

Quite a lot of us now eh?

Good luck everybody!

catifer · 19/10/2010 14:55

hi ChateauMargot yeh snap!!

what a long list there is now and its nice to see so many under 30 if you believe my parents these day no one has them til they are in their 30's.

I'm so impatient to get going now, at least Ive now had my withdrawl bleed from last cycle of taking the pill, just have to see how long my cycle takes to regulate, but for the time being am definatley an advocant of the lots of sex rule, you just never know!!I think we will begin with temp etcs in a few months.

Tokyotwist · 19/10/2010 15:04

Asouthwold... We got pregnant in our first cycle, but then I was 2 years younger than I am now and it was over the christmas hols, so lots of opportunity to erm... get jiggy with it.

DH is so proud of his little swimmers he thinks it'll happen quickly again this time. I am not so sure.

Purplebuns · 19/10/2010 15:23

Hi everyone, it is great how many of us there are!
I don't want to chart as I am too lazy.
I also get aches and things when I am ovulating and interesting pant snot Wink

Those who do want to chart etc, my friend is using a microscope to monitor her fertility, it isn't very well known link here she says it is fascinating and has tied in with all her other symptoms I.E temperature. etc

Southwold... I am a bit OCD about some things, most things don't bother me... But the quilt has to be the right way round with buttons/snaps at the bottom and washing has to be hung straight. Although this is probably because DH hangs up a crumpled heap and expects it to dry! Hmm

asouthwoldmummy · 19/10/2010 16:49

I'm planning on charting, but mainly because I'm still on the pill for now and want to know when I start ovulating again. I figure there's no point obsessing about ttc if I may not even be ovulating at the start.

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100years · 19/10/2010 17:53

Yay yay yay just had a confirming chat with OH. It's def after this period, definitely definitely

I have OPKs(bought today), thermometer, a pregnancy mag already, I'm quite excited. [hgrin]

Eeep

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100years · 19/10/2010 18:21

Oh heck yeah I'm all nervous now, now it comes to it, I'm not due on until Sun, and it may even be after that as I the shortest my cycle has been is 30 days which would make it sunday, but the longest has been ridiculous 42 or something like that, so I am not really sure when the action will take place!!!! But I do want it sooo much. :)

northeastmummy · 19/10/2010 19:08

Hello! Can I join in? There's so much going on on here! I haven't read through the whole thread yet but will try and catch up. I got my coil out on Monday and am so much more excited about trying for DC 3 than I thought I would be. I think it was the "occasion" of going along to the doc that did it!

I've added my details but I'm not sure what DC is?

northeastmummy, DC3 Oct, CD?, 38 years (I actually had to do the maths to work that out!!!)
Hils74, DC1 Oct, CD1, 36yrs
Tokyotwist, DC2 Nov, DD 26months, CD19, 33yrs
100years, DC1 after next period poss oct, CD24, 32 yrs 10 months
jaggythistle, DC2 Nov Oct, DS 13 months, CD7, 32 yrs
TheseBootsAreMadeForWalking TTC DC #1 Nov, CD 18, 31 years
franjam, DC1 Oct/Nov, 3 stepkids (10,6 & 4), CD no clue, 31 yrs
WYorksLass, DC1 end of Nov, CD21, 30 years
Gobolino, DC1 Nov, CD not a clue, 28yrs
ChateauMargot, DC1 Oct, CD??, 28 years
catifer DC1, Nov, CD no idea! 28 yrs
ghosteditor DC1 Dec, CD8, 26 years
asouthwoldmummy, DC2 end nov, DS 28months, 24 yrs.
whenskiesaregrey TTC DC2, Dec, DS 15 months, CD (not really sure as on pill), 24 years old
Purplebuns DC2 Nov (DD 17months)(WTF Cycle)21 yrs