Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part5)

[PrettyVacant1]

Open to all,join us in this corner to support each other,POAS, temp check and reach our BFP goal.
(Fish slapping optional.)

heres hoping for lots of follicular activity

YRMOTB Hello! didnt see you there! Yes, I am well thanks. 3 lovely days on the beach far from computers and test sticks, did me lots of good but I have missed you all and am eager to get back to being obsessed!

I am feeling utterly convinced that I have ovulated now, 5 high temps in a row and EGCM all gone. Mind if I join you on the Two Week Whinge then? This will be my second in a row 'cos the doc told me I was ovulating ages ago (tsk tsk what does he know?).

Dach MORE GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!

Just a quick visit to wish dach good luck Hope everything goes well x

Just back. Thanks for all the good wishes.

It's a very undignified process! SWI is definitely better...

I think all the good wished may have worked. I'm not going to tell DH what they said about his swimmers, on the basis that it will make him very big headed and smug!

So now officially on the 2WW.

Hope you guys are all well, and good luck to all. Hugs to all the need them.

Can't do a really long post as want to be as flat as possible so swimmers have the best chance, but will keep you posted!

xxx

Dachs that sounds very positive. Really really hope that the magic is going on as we type.
How do you feel? X

Dachs I am willing those swimmers on for you xx Just had really dodgy visual image of us stood round your bed cheering you on with pom poms whilst you had your bum on a pillow and legs against the wall!!

Good luck dachs! Everything is crossed for you x

thanks lottie and jamface

mamap lol! A cheerleading group for swimmer encouragement, interesting notion :)

Why is everything to do with this so uncomfortable? The drugs are nasty, the procedure is uncomfortable and the legs in the air thing isn't that great either.

A little light relief in the form of you guys cheerleading around the bed might be welcome

Go swimmers, go!

Good luck dachs hope the next two weeks pass quickly for you and you get the bfp at the end of it

izzy sorry to hear about your dog.

Haven't been on here in a little while, not much to report. Clean bill of health from GP today so ready to try again in earnest now :)

MA hope you have ov'd. Think I'm supposed to on Wednesday (hope so, that would mean cyle back to normal) so I will also be two week whinging soon I hope.

Contributing a large tray of chocolate doughnuts to the thread - hope you enjoy them!

ooooh yum.

thanks kat

Another quickie as should be doing bath/bedtime run with the dcs... just had a flash back... Dach when I had iui they told me to also swi that night if poss as more can only increase chances!

loola hmm.. not a bad plan

i'll jump DH when he gets in and demand more of his swimmers. (He may be a little bemused, but it'll be worth it in the end )

where do I stand?

Kat Glad you got good news from the GP!

Evenin' all!

Forgive me for being a bit of a thicko (and i do feel a bit of a twat writing this - but its only cos i have had a busy day todya and cant think straight!)

Dachs have you had your follies harvested today, With you saying you have a 2 WW now that has confused me!! SORRY for being a dumbo. sorry i cant keep up :( (Got into my head the IVF procedure and i think thats whats mixing me up somewhat!

Kat fab on the clean bill of health. We too SWI last night still a bit sore but quite good to get back into the saddle as it were.

Seriously thinking about getting the grapefruit juice in, I seem to be getting back to normal internally/down there so heres hoping for some more action!
Mamap have done the internal, actually found it and gladly didnt lose my arm! Think it needs to be done daily to see a diff.

No SW for me for a few days DH has been laid up being a vomiting veronica :( and boy oh boy dont i know it!

Waves to everyone else PV hope you are feeling a little less like death warmed up now :) but that it was worth it

Lovin' the new thread hairy.... gonna be skint by the end of the week :)

nickster - it's IUI rather than IVF, so they insert his swimmers into me, rather than taking my eggs out.

Hope your DH gets better soon and you can resume SWI!

Hi

MummyAbroad nice to see you back, hope the break was restful. I like your theory about meltdowns. I reckon I'm letting out grief for both my MCs this time around. I cried only a little in the week I actually MCed most recently, but have had several huge meltdowns, one last night, and it does feel like it Needs to come out.

Wish I had your certainty re ovulation . Thought I had. But have had a couple of right-hand sharp twinges and now am wondering whether this is my body having a late go. Just in time for DH to be away for work for a couple of days nights.

Dachs good luck! I really hope this cycle works for you, but we'll be here if it doesn't to pick you back up and cheer you through another for as long as you want.

Morning all. Dachs glad it went well. I'm joining the bedside swimmer cheerleading club in spirit from my desk at work :)

Nickstermum - glad you're getting back in to the swing of things. I take it you've managed to pursuade your DP that it's all okay now?

We've tried again too. Now I'm worried we re-stared too early as each time it caused a bit more bleeding when I thought it had stopped sorry if that's TMI!!). But things do seem to be totally stopped now (I hope) so I'll give it a couple of days and try again. Re-started temping and ov testing over the weekend so fingers crossed my body will get back into gear asap. Am going to do another HPT tomorrow morning to check it's totally BFN. Still feeling a bit down though and as you can tell, struggling to concentrate at work. Still, it's only been a week.

Glad you got good news from the GP Kat

Izzy don't think I said it before but I'm really sorry about your dog. I hope you're managing to cope okay with that on top of everything else.

Mummyabraod good luck on the 2WW!

Hello. Was wondering if I can come in? I miscarried naturally last weekend at 7 weeks. Am feeling very sad but want to get on and try again soon if I can and lovely to have other people who've been through it.

This would have been my second DC, have one DS aged 2.

Hope you're doing ok, hon. Am v.impressed on the SWI'ing! I'm still off work, maybe for another week.

Lady I'm so pleased (not the right word, but a more appropriate one fails me at the moment) to see you as I have been thinking of you a lot. I've been checking back on our antenatal thread regularly to see how you are doing and I just posted on the 'what's the latest advice on TTC' thread on the miscarriage page for you too. Big hugs. I'm so so sorry that you have ended up here, but the ladies here have been amazingly supportive and I'm sure they will help you too.

The SWI so soon is my way of trying to get over the loss (that and eating a TON of chocolate biscuits). Not sure if we started again too soon really but it is helping emotionally and hopefully won't have done any harm physically.

Thanks Wombat. It's vile isn't it. Never thought we would both end up here when we blithely jumped onto the April bus. Thought miscarriage was something that happened to "other people". But c'est la vie. Apparently. I actually feel fairly calm at the moment, think I did the worst of my wailing and sobbing and raging when I was bleeding and afraid I would lose baby, and then the day it was confirmed at the hospital. Since then I've been veering between moping and bitter and blackly comic. Not sure what it is all about but perhaps this is a natural reaction?

How is your DP coping with it all? I keep forgetting about mine to an extent, I know he is sad too but they don't have the immediate hormone crash and bleeding issues to deal with at the same time.

I hear you on the comfort eating. Not only am I now not pregnant but also a stone overweight. Brilliant.

Morning lovelies!

(don't worry, LadyG I'm not stalking you but welcome to our 'umble fred, t'was my first home when I arrived on MN) :)

Wombat you have biscuits too? Everyone on all the threads seems to have chocolate biscuits this morning. I could eat a packet on my own, I am starving. Also, yikes at the bleeding - hope that stops soon, it's shite not knowing what your body is up to, isn't it :(

dachs hope you are not still standing on your head/lying upside down/whatever it is you do post IUI (go swimmers! go swimmers!)

nicks hope you don't catch the horrible barfing illness off DH. Being sicked on is a right passion-killer.

Astonishing news from the OwlHouse - this morning as he was leaving for work Mr Owlshoes actually said "right; we need to shag tonight don't we, if we're going to get you pregnant?" - I nearly fell over with shock.

This means one of three things: 1. he's reading my rantings on here without me knowing 2. he's found the CBFM I'm hiding in the bathroom or 3. the forcefeeding of pumpkin seeds has worked.

Well WTF cycle officially over! AF arrived half an hour ago, at least my body is getting back to normal, just need my emotions to catch up! Apologies no personals- I'll try to catch up later.

TUESDAYS LIST

This could be wrong please check as this is my 1st ever stats list!

StarflowerGirl TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD43
Jamface TTC#2 cycle 2 (post MC#2), UCL 27 - 40 CD40
Honeywitch TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 28, CD38
Pinkie08 TTC#3 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD36
Lottiecrump UCL 27/28 CD29
Curlylox TTC#3 UCL 24-28 cycle 7 CD29
cheepz TTC#2 cycle 2 (round 4) UCL28 CD27
Littlemiss72 TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#2) UCL 28 CD 25
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL28 CD23
pippaandpolly
delilahbelle TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL28 CD22
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 1 (round 3) UCL27 CD20
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 1 UCL 30 CD19
digitalgirl TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL41 CD18
PrettyVacant1 TTC#1 Cycle 4(round 7)UCL 28-30 CD17
hairytriangle (Ectopic 2010), TTC#1, Cycle 11, UCL 29, CD17
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL28 CD15
sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 3, UCL 26-28, CD13
barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 4 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD13
kat2504 TTC#1 cycle 1 (post mc) CD11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 17 UCL24-9 CD9
pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 2, UCL 29 CD9
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 1 (post MC) UCL 32 CD9
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 2 UCL31-38 CD8
velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL 30, CD8
Appleblossoms TTC#2 cycle 3 UCL 34 CD 7
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 3 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD6
choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 2 UCL 27 CD6
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 2 UCL28-29 CD5
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 2 (post nmc#1) ucl??? (PCOS) CD1

WTTC
CaribouMoo TTC #2, MC#2 conf Jul 29 BFP!
getawiggleon TTC#2, MC#1 conf 1st Aug, UCL 26
Jollster TTC #2, MC3 conf 16th Aug
Nickstermum TTC #2 MC August
MummyAbroad TTC #2, MC#1 conf 31 Mar
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
batteryhen BFP 18 August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August

ladygone hope you arent dressed in a steakfrock like your namesake today. Sorry to see you on here, good place to be. Bitter and darkly comic is NORMAL! As is resentment, sadness, ANGER, and all those emotions that usually arent considered normal... I think we are all perfectly justified to feel them!!! (and we do)

Dreading this week. Have to attend a meet at Ho, all my 5 close team mates know, one is heavily PG :( have warned her i dont know how i will react being sat next to her for 8 hours!!! (will prob end up cuddled up to her bump or something hideous!)

Dachs thanks for the clarity - i didnt know what IUI was! Hope they swim their socks off and burrow deeply :)

I seem to have developed full blown acne! Skin wasnt great when i conceived, its just hideous now :( red spots as well. Have never had spots - GAH! Talk about a confidence knocker... any tips for them please help :)

Fondant How are you lovely? Everything ok?

Morning everyone,
Welcome ladygone, I'm really sorry to hear your loss. It's a horrible, horrible thing to happen and it's normal to feel all over the place, but hopefully you'll get some support and comfort from this thread.
ladybee and ma know what you mean about delayed meltdowns. Termination in Feb was awful, crying all the time, understandable. Then when I miscarried in June I felt OK at the time, thinking it was better than losing a baby at 19 weeks. I thought I was dealing with it OK and it was only maybe 5 weeks later that I crashed with the unfairness of it all. Slowly picking myself up now but still good days and bad, you all know how it is.
After my second WTF cycle post m/c I've started spotting so am really hoping I'll be able to update our list with the arrival of my AF. Then I can start again!? Agnus Castus, Grapefruit juice, saucy underwear , whatever it takes, here I come!!
x