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What I (45 yrs) want for Christmas...What's on your list?

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GenerateNewUsername · 09/10/2025 18:41

I don't know about anyone else but I find I struggle to think of gift ideas for myself (I have bday just after xmas so I get double trouble).

I've always found these threads quite helpful in sharing what others are getting for inspiration. I hope to maybe get a couple of these things if I'm lucky...

Kirstie Le Marque diamond and ruby fish necklace
https://www.kirstielemarque.com/products/diamond-ruby-fish-necklace

Earphones I can wear while sleeping that have noise cancelling to block out DH snoring!
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0FMF132MP?psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_ct_20YH5R32FDN84V74Q0FV

These lovely spotted gin glasses
https://www.oliverbonas.com/homeware/azul-spot-gin-glasses-set-of-two-378210

Black Forest Gateau Hot Chocolate Sachets
https://www.hotelchocolat.com/uk/black-forest-sachets.html

Canon pancake lens
https://www.canon.co.uk/store/canon-rf-28mm-f2-8-stm-lens/6128C005/

Jo Malone Peony and Blush Suede
https://www.jomalone.co.uk/product/25946/27028/colognes/peony-blush-suede-cologne

Please do add yours below as I'm sure I'll be inspired!

Black Forest Gateau Hot Chocolate Sachets

Real cherries coupled with dark and white chocolate. 10 hot chocolate sachets for the Velvetiser system.

https://www.hotelchocolat.com/uk/black-forest-sachets.html

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WarrenTofficier · 11/10/2025 17:38

GenerateNewUsername · 11/10/2025 15:26

And if anyone has got those headphones yet-do they work when lying on your side?

Mine were delivered a few minutes ago. They are currently on charge. I'm on mum cabs duty this evening and have to nip in and out several times. If I get the chance to work out how to set them up, sync them to my phone etc I will try them tonight but it's more likely to be tomorrow night.

MarmaladeSandwich7 · 11/10/2025 17:52

Really nice lingerie from the shop where I was fitted properly at last! It’s on the pricey side but lovely

Scotland32 · 11/10/2025 18:14

Hotel worthy winter pyjamas so that I feel great!

Victoria Beckham eyeliner

A really nice apron that sparks joy so that I stop ruining my clothes when I cook or clean!

oldFoolMe · 11/10/2025 18:16

wintertime4me · 09/10/2025 19:28

Im trying to think of a country to go to so i miss xmass.

Me too ! Went to Marrakech last year it was amazing !

ThatsItIveHadEnough · 11/10/2025 18:32

GenerateNewUsername · 09/10/2025 18:41

I don't know about anyone else but I find I struggle to think of gift ideas for myself (I have bday just after xmas so I get double trouble).

I've always found these threads quite helpful in sharing what others are getting for inspiration. I hope to maybe get a couple of these things if I'm lucky...

Kirstie Le Marque diamond and ruby fish necklace
https://www.kirstielemarque.com/products/diamond-ruby-fish-necklace

Earphones I can wear while sleeping that have noise cancelling to block out DH snoring!
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0FMF132MP?psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_ct_20YH5R32FDN84V74Q0FV

These lovely spotted gin glasses
https://www.oliverbonas.com/homeware/azul-spot-gin-glasses-set-of-two-378210

Black Forest Gateau Hot Chocolate Sachets
https://www.hotelchocolat.com/uk/black-forest-sachets.html

Canon pancake lens
https://www.canon.co.uk/store/canon-rf-28mm-f2-8-stm-lens/6128C005/

Jo Malone Peony and Blush Suede
https://www.jomalone.co.uk/product/25946/27028/colognes/peony-blush-suede-cologne

Please do add yours below as I'm sure I'll be inspired!

I don't have a list of things but in our family we do this. My husband buys for me, I buy for him (or make) we both decide what to get for the kids.

  • something you want
  • something you need
  • something to wear
  • something to read

Generally, we have mentioned things in passing throughout the year, so you have to cast your mind back a bit to past conversations.
Hope that helps.
Also cuts down on excessive spending on stuff that ends up being shoved in a cupboard, regifted or sent to a charity shop!

Qwerty21 · 11/10/2025 18:38

Shryykjrg · 11/10/2025 12:37

I think I have now made my list.

Fudges dark chocolate florentines
dark chocolate orangettes
dark chocolate cherries
St Eval candles or diffusers -inspiritus, winter thyme, tranquility.
Senspa soap, bubble bath, body lotion or essential oil blend
Neom or Espa candles or diffusers
M&S apothecary refills for calm and restore diffusers and hand soap (they seem to have stopped making these though)
Good Earth lychee and pear white tea
Fortnum&Mason Piccadilly blend coffee beans or Costco Costa Rica ones (these also seem to be discontinued)

I’ve just bought myself a beauty advent calendar and also a beauty box so no skincare needed this time.

I would be delighted to receive any of the above!

Edited because I forgot to put books on there!! Basically I want to lounge around in a house that smells like a spa eating nice chocolates, drinking nice hot drinks and reading!

Edited

I thought hmmm that tea sounds nice but it doesn't come up on Google, only elderflower and pear?

threescoops · 11/10/2025 18:49

And me, and I didn’t even know I wanted them!

Shryykjrg · 11/10/2025 18:54

Qwerty21 · 11/10/2025 18:38

I thought hmmm that tea sounds nice but it doesn't come up on Google, only elderflower and pear?

I’ve just looked and you’re right it is elderflower and pear! It’s very nice despite the lack of lychee! I do also have a lychee and pear oolong loose leaf from a shop in Bath which is also gorgeous.

FastingHell · 11/10/2025 19:10

I want a day out. Or a few days away. With DC and DH.

Lovehascomeandgone · 11/10/2025 19:24

I have a huge list of unrealistic stuff 😂

  • diamond tennis bracelet
  • apple airpods
  • Christmas and new year in Dubai
  • a cruise down the Nile and a visit to all the historical sites
  • a new car, preferably a big chunky one with loads of boot space
  • a house
Arraminta · 11/10/2025 19:27

I'm asking DH for 2 Christmas pressies. I want the full length, champagne coloured, goose down puffer from The White Company - and a 1000 piece wooden jigsaw by Wentworth 'The Travelling Library.' Our DDs will club together and get me some cosy PJs from Seasalt Cornwall.

GenerateNewUsername · 11/10/2025 19:31

WarrenTofficier · 11/10/2025 17:38

Mine were delivered a few minutes ago. They are currently on charge. I'm on mum cabs duty this evening and have to nip in and out several times. If I get the chance to work out how to set them up, sync them to my phone etc I will try them tonight but it's more likely to be tomorrow night.

Thank you! Awaiting your review tomorrow. Enjoy taxi life this evening

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Overtheatlantic · 11/10/2025 19:31

My list is short, but distinguished 😆

Diamond tennis bracelet, lab grown diamonds
Cornishware vase
New Carpet for the upstairs

GenerateNewUsername · 11/10/2025 19:32

Scotland32 · 11/10/2025 18:14

Hotel worthy winter pyjamas so that I feel great!

Victoria Beckham eyeliner

A really nice apron that sparks joy so that I stop ruining my clothes when I cook or clean!

I have one of the Victoria Beckham eye liner. I do love it. It does a nice smudge/smokey effect and although pricey, comes with a nice bag and sharpener. I do go through it more quickly than my others but now wouldn’t use another one!

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Pliudev · 11/10/2025 19:32

Didn't think I wanted anything until I saw Lakrid liquorice on someone's list. Oh yum, but what I'd really like is for my sons and DiL to be here, for someone else to do the cleaning and cooking and for someone to walk the dog other than me. Sorry to dampen the spirit OP but there it is. I do hope everyone else gets at least some of the lovely things they are hoping for.

GenerateNewUsername · 11/10/2025 19:36

Pliudev · 11/10/2025 19:32

Didn't think I wanted anything until I saw Lakrid liquorice on someone's list. Oh yum, but what I'd really like is for my sons and DiL to be here, for someone else to do the cleaning and cooking and for someone to walk the dog other than me. Sorry to dampen the spirit OP but there it is. I do hope everyone else gets at least some of the lovely things they are hoping for.

Not at all. I actually lost my beautiful lab over the summer and would give anything to have him here on Xmas day to walk!
Hope you get the Xmas day you want too

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NotnowMavis · 11/10/2025 19:36

I’d like:

a new pickleball bat
a large print for the top of the stairs
new earphones

whereisthatcathidingnow · 11/10/2025 19:37

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Maerchentante · 11/10/2025 19:57

I just thought of something else:

I good quality print of a I picture I took in Rome, the Coloseum in black and white, Ideally about 1.40x2,00m or thereabouts to go up above my sofa.

Ac12346789 · 11/10/2025 20:22

londongirl12 · 09/10/2025 20:20

Can you let me know if you can actually sleep on your side wearing them? If currently sleep with just one ear in on my normal earphones, but that doesn’t help when DH is snoring!!!

The Ozlo ones are the best, I had some from amazon and I got painful ears on the side

Ac12346789 · 11/10/2025 20:23

I just bought a stoov big hug for my office chair - love it and would make a great gift

Openmouthinsertfood · 11/10/2025 20:32

Early 50's and I've already bought myself some pressies. 😁I am single and have no living parents. I do though have siblings that will buy for me. I would love a new Pokemon game for my Switch (I might have to get that for myself.) and some new perfume. Not too fussy with that one as I'd like to try something new.

EvieBB · 11/10/2025 20:44

DaveWatts · 09/10/2025 19:23

My birthday is coming up soon and on my list is

Bulbs/fruit trees (moving to a bigger garden next month!)
Acai walking trousers
Shearling birkenstocks
Adela lambswool jumper from Bibico
Big pile of books
Marrons glaces from Fortnums
Neom bath foam

This list makes me sound a thousand years old 😂 I'm early 40s really

It makes you sound rich!

PartyPlanner7 · 11/10/2025 21:17

Mine is:

  • Gig tickets for The Fratellis and Greg Davies;
  • Strivectin neck cream that was recommended on another thread
  • Mint Lindor
  • Tickets to watch the local football team (division 1, so not expensive)
  • Some nice decaf coffee
  • Voucher to spend with my beautician. Would be good to add a facial or massage to my regular leg wax!
  • A night overnight at home on my own (got 2 young children)
  • Bottomless brunch at a restaurant in the nearest city (with kids looked after overnight)
  • a couple of books
  • hair turban

I obviously won’t get all this, they’re just ideas to give to the family!

theonlygirl · 11/10/2025 21:32

Harrods Earl Grey Tea with Bergamot

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