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Do Americans really decorate .....

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BeaLola · 05/12/2022 23:40

Every room and outside at Christmas ir is it just in the cheesy Christmas films currently on Netflix and the like ? I mean poinsettias and wreaths in the kitchen and huge displays outside ? In many ways it's amazing but is it just in the films ????

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Xmasbaby11 · 05/12/2022 23:47

I was wondering about this too! And in some films they focus on the expectation for all houses to be decorated, as if it's the norm. I do love how OTT it is.

In one film the coffee shop barrista was put out the non festive customer wanted a latte and refused to order a hot chocolate. Even though she was dressed in red and green, that wasn't apparently festive enough.

Slimjimtobe · 05/12/2022 23:48

They go ‘all out’ even in the bedroom it’s all poinsettia (where I might treat myself to one for the coffee table ) 😂

Luredbyapomegranate · 06/12/2022 00:19

Not the ones I know

But big outside decorations were big there before here, still far from universal though

petermaddog · 06/12/2022 01:05

no some. do just like people in other countries
some like lights /out side/ a tree in front window
there are tacky folks out there
on my street one house has lights one other has a tree
they have small children
we cant afford the power bills either

Watchthesunrise · 06/12/2022 01:10

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Butterbeer4All · 06/12/2022 01:17

I put up a tree, hang stockings from the mantle, set out my Nativity set, and buy a poinsettia. I have one friend who's OTT on decorating for Christmas but the rest of my friends and family decorate similar to me.

mackthepony · 06/12/2022 01:40

We're in Canada and yes, there's a lot of decorations

SenecaFallsRedux · 06/12/2022 02:34

Some do. Some don't. We don't.

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 06/12/2022 02:36

There are 110 million households in America. You can't generalize. Of course those Christmas movies are in general exaggerated.

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 06/12/2022 02:37

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As if none of that happens in the UK? Hmm

Watchthesunrise · 06/12/2022 02:46

I'm not from the UK Xmas Hmm

kittensinthekitchen · 06/12/2022 03:01

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Why are they building garages to store their "single use... throwaway consumer tat"? Confused

kittensinthekitchen · 06/12/2022 03:03

petermaddog · 06/12/2022 01:05

no some. do just like people in other countries
some like lights /out side/ a tree in front window
there are tacky folks out there
on my street one house has lights one other has a tree
they have small children
we cant afford the power bills either

Are you saying having lights, or having a tree in the window is tacky?

Because you can't afford an extra tenner in the electric?

unname · 06/12/2022 03:04

We decorate a bit in every room on the first floor, that guests might see. Most of our decorations are old, handed down from family or vintage things we’ve picked up over the years. Also lots of gifts we’ve been given over the years- we have some wooden Santas, lighted porcelain trees, and snowman mugs and a few dishes, wooden trees. I almost never buy any new decorations.

We do buy ribbon, poinsettias and wreathes. I also use cuttings from our garden, buy a few flowers and make my own arrangements.

onlylarkin · 06/12/2022 03:13

SOME houses in the US are like the movies. But it is a small percentage.

For me, I have my tree up, stockings on the mantle and we have some decorations outside. For the most part, in my experience, that is the norm. I personally purchase 2 ornaments each year, one for each kid, which I will pass down to them when they have their own households.

Those over the top decor houses, though, spend a ton of money on that stuff. So it is never single use plastic crap that they have.

Evivie · 06/12/2022 03:20

My US IL pay a company each year to decorate their house at Christmas time, right after Thanksgiving - all their friends do the same. They're in a bit of a money bubble, so it's normal for them.

Britinme · 06/12/2022 03:23

I'm in America and I do know people here who go all out, and some houses go well over the top with outside decorations. Not all of us though.

SoFreshAndSoCleanClean · 06/12/2022 03:38

My neighbors on my street in the US have FOUR Christmas trees in their house - and that’s just what’s visible from the street. Lights on the outside ofc.

Justellingthetruth · 06/12/2022 03:40

@BeaLola

yes hugely in certain places

mathanxiety · 06/12/2022 03:44

@Watchthesunrise

Sounds like you have an expert opinion there.

Ponderingwindow · 06/12/2022 03:47

We decorate all the guest spaces in the house. We do a very small amount of diy outdoor lights that don’t require more than an stepladder.

the vast majority of the our neighborhood have Christmas lights outside. Many of them are professionally installed. I could technically afford to have it done, but I just can’t bring myself to spend the money. Neither DH, nor I is getting on a two story ladder to put up lights, so our display stays modest.

we do have some small neighborhoods in the area that have such strong decorating traditions that they formed official associations with covenants. When the houses are sold, the new owners have to sign a contract agreeing to the covenant requirements for decorations.

I don’t buy single use tat. Some of my decorations are older than me. Everything is purchased with the plan to integrate into the decorations long term. Quality Items that are cared for properly will last many years. Many of our decorations are also handmade and have been reused again and again, but that isn’t standard because not everyone is quite as into making things.

actually, I lied. This year I did buy a package of those gel stickers that go on windows for my child.

RLScott · 06/12/2022 04:00

In Ireland (where I am) it is common to have a Christmas tree with lights on display in the living room window...it’s wonderful going past the houses and seeing them (especially when the room light is off which is common). You will then also get a house that is completely covered in lights/decorations.

Its an interesting topic this as Christmas is very un-American. Christmas was not widely celebrated in America until 1870 (it was seen as an English custom after the revolutionary war and it wasn’t celebrated by many including g.washington). It has always been a public holiday in England and Ireland, but only became a federal holiday in the US in 1870. Thanksgiving (which marks Pilgrims (puritans) getting fed) is more a US custom. I find it strange they also mark Christmas a month later as the bigoted, persecuting Protestant pilgrims shunned Christmas (“catholic invention” and “rags of the beast”) and fined anyone caught celebrating it, before it was outlawed completely. The puritans in England also banned Christmas but their influence was tiny in England (puritan laws were declared null and void following the restoration in 1660) in comparison to America.

I love Christmas even more for its rebellious aspect in defying bigots. BBC article on this:

www.bbc.com/culture/article/20141219-when-christmas-carols-were-banned

“During the Puritans’ rule of England, celebrating on 25 December was forbidden. Singing yuletide songs then was a political act, writes Clemency Burton-Hill.

When it comes to revolutionary protest songs, what springs to mind? Billie Holliday’s Strange Fruit? Bob Dylan’s Blowin’ In The Wind? Sam Cooke’s A Change is Gonna Come? I’m guessing the humble Christmas carol is probably low on your list of contenders, but in mid-17thCentury England, during the English Civil War, the singing of such things as The Holly and the Ivy would have landed you in serious trouble. Oliver Cromwell, the statesman responsible for leading the parliamentary army (and later Lord Protector of England, Scotland and Ireland), was on a mission to cleanse the nation of its most decadent excesses. On the top of the list was Christmas and all its festive trappings.

To Cromwell and his fellow Puritans, though, singing and related Christmas festivities were not only abhorrent but sinful. According to historical sources, they viewed the celebration of Christ’s birth on 25 December as a “popish” and wasteful tradition that derived – with no biblical justification – from the Roman Catholic Church (‘Christ’s Mass’), thus threatening their core Christian beliefs. Nowhere, they argued, had God called upon mankind to celebrate Christ’s nativity in such fashion. In 1644, an Act of Parliament effectively banned the festival and in June 1647, the Long Parliament passed an ordinance confirming the abolition of the feast of Christmas.

But the voices and festive spirits of English men, women and children were not to be so easily silenced. For the nearly two decades that the ban on Christmas was in place, semi-clandestine religious services marking Christ’s nativity continued to be held on 25 December, and people continued to sing in secret. Christmas carols essentially went underground – although some of those rebellious types determined to keep carols alive did so more loudly than others. On 25 December 1656, a a member of parliament in the House of Commons made clear his anger at getting little sleep the previous night because of the noise of their neighbours’ “preparations for this foolish day…” Come the Restoration of the English monarchy in 1660, when legislation between 1642-60 was declared null and void, both the religious and the secular elements of the Twelve Days of Christmas were allowed to be celebrated freely. And not only had the popular Christmas carols of previous eras survived triumphant but interest in them was renewed with passion and exuberance: both the 18th Century and Victorian periods were golden eras in carol-writing, producing many of the treasures that we know and love today – including O Come All Ye Faithful and God Rest Ye, Merry Gentlemen.“

isthismylifenow · 06/12/2022 04:10

Ah getting professionals in to decorate makes sense as that seems like an awful lot of work to get the houses so perfectly decorated.

I'm not in the USA or the UK, and we are quite far down the list when it comes to these things. I am on a Facebook group where people are showing off their amazingly decorated tree, saying look how shit it is. Then along come replies of oh we will help, add this that and the other and it will look fine after. It was quite spectacular to start with! There is definite tree competition, which I just don't get. So I expect there is some degree of house decorating competition in areas where it's more common as well.

Cantstandbullshit · 06/12/2022 04:15

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Ballsaque · 06/12/2022 04:15

I recently saw an ad on Facebook for a company who comes to decorate the external house.
I had not idea this kind of thing existed!

I quite like the idea of it though,I’ve never done outside decs because I haven’t the time,energy or knowledge.

I love the look of those lovely American Hallmark style houses. How I would love a proper porch!