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Christmas

From present ideas to party food, find all your Christmas inspiration here.

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RabidCarrot · 26/12/2012 10:10

364 days till Christmas Xmas Grin

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buzzgirly · 23/06/2013 10:32

Fuzz - I think playmobil will be out then! We have lots of happlyland which ds can't fit into his mouth which dd still enjoys so I might just her some more of that.

Six months today it will be Christmas Eve Eve! GrinGrinGrin

Dawndonna · 23/06/2013 11:16

I've just got all my stocking fillers in the Dotcom giftshop sale if that's any help to anyone. Got some lovely little notebooks and bits on really cheap.

Halfcups · 23/06/2013 11:30

Hi I m new to this thread. Just beenAIBU to start planning for Christmas but from what I read here obviously not. I m behind!! I need advice in planning an alternative Christmas Day to the conventional being at home type. Last year was awful, let down massively by STBXH, grumpy grandma and over excited three dc resulting in tantrums all day. I NEVER want to repeat it! Help please!

buzzgirly · 23/06/2013 11:40

Welcome half!! Could you go to a hotel for the big day? Sometimes there are offers for breaks at Christmas.

Or if you stay at home you could do something alternative - like a treasure hunt in morning for presents to keep dcs entertained, maybe not bother with big dinner on the day and have it on Christmas Eve? I'll have a think about what else you could do and I'm sure someone else will be along soon.

buildingmycorestrength · 23/06/2013 11:45

Hello all. Am excitedly stocking (!) up on stuff for Christmas and remembered that I am on the lookout for a nativity set.

I always had one growing up and I'm sad we don't have one yet. I'd quite like a posh one, but not too expensive, and thought this might be the time of year to start looking. Any suggestions? Not keen on the ones I've seen on Amazon so far.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 23/06/2013 11:52

YY Peeps -

Tuesday is the 25th so Officially Halfway Grin

(And my DD Birthday- Holly. Nice Festive name fr a June baby) ]blush]

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 23/06/2013 11:56

building - Lakeland Limited had some gorgeous Nativity Scenes last few years.

They start their Christmas stock in Sept (ish)

claremp7 · 23/06/2013 12:23

Hi all I'm after some advice. It'll be my DD 1st Christmas. She'll be ten months old. My partner (her dad) will not be here as he will be serving four months overseas. He's in the forces.
My family are 350 miles away. I have lots of friends where I live and my partners mum and sister but my dilemma is I want to be with my family.
I'm partially sighted and looking to be back at work in November so DD we ve with child minder while I work. I don't know what I'm going to do over Christmas if I have to work.
The child minder isn't open over Christmas and I can't rely on anyone else to have her (she's my daughter so I don't feel someone else should have to put themselves out for us).
Sorry for the ramble but I'm so upset vy the thought of spending Christmas by myself with my DD.

RetroRita · 23/06/2013 12:39

Halfcups - I think staying in your own home would be the best bet.

When I was facing the same situation a few years ago (with a 1yo and 3yo) the best advice I received was to embrace the chance to do xmas exactly as I wanted.

So drop any preconceived ideas of what should happen etc and plan the day you would like to happen.

Fill the cupboards with the foods you like to eat even if its not traditionally christmassy.

Let the day flow, don't hold any any expectations. You have no one to please except yourself and the dc.

Ban anyone that is going to cause you problems if possible. I wouldn't let STEHX anywhere near if he is unreliable/a PITA.

This is your chance to create Christmas exactly as you want it, with whatever traditions you choose. Smile

RetroRita · 23/06/2013 12:40

STBEH*

Halfcups · 23/06/2013 13:26

Thanks for ideas/advice so far! I m torn between staying at home or getting as faraway as possible!

Chottie · 23/06/2013 18:57

I think I would stay at home, but have relaxed day (with a loose timetable) of little treats to break up the day and make it special.

buildingmycorestrength · 23/06/2013 19:20

Thanks for Lakeland tip! Nothing in stock ATM, but will keep and eye out.

Have just enjoyed filling a basket at dotcomgiftshop...what a totally brill place! I'm always on the lookout for little light things to post to my enormous amount of overseas rellies. Some great stuff on there.

fuzzpig · 24/06/2013 06:36

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6 months til Xmas eve :o

Not usually up this early but I am about to go downstairs so a very excited DD Cain open her presents. :)

fuzzpig · 24/06/2013 06:36

can* (see, it's too early for me)

BiddyPop · 24/06/2013 10:26

Halfcups, if your DC are over-excited, have they gotten enough sleep the night before? One way to try and help that is a Christmas Eve hamper. New pjs, bath bubbles (I get a Santa bomb from Lush for DD), and perhaps a dvd or nice small treat (special Christmas chocolate or cookie maybe). These all come out late on Christmas Eve. If having a dvd, maybe straight after tea, so that it can be watched quietly before bed (or keep for Christmas Day sometime). We tend to have tea, put out stockings and have DD light the Christmas candle, and then produce the hamper so that DD goes off to have her bath and bed happily and on time. And we always read "Twas the night before Christmas" to help settle down once in bed. (I have had longer stories to follow too, another chapter(s) in Harry Potter maybe, which I can read til she's asleep if particularly hyper).

And this far out, you have time to think about what you would like Christmas to be about for the DCs, especially from their perspective. Do they have a chance to play with their new toys? do they have to behave "nicely" for hours before opening presents? do they like Turkey, or even roast, dinners? do they get a chance to have proper breakfast and decent snacks/drinks during day or are they starving by "dinner" time? are they allowed to watch some of the lovely tv that's on (not all, but a few things)?

The treasure hunt idea is good to burn off energy, or a walk somewhere can be magical (especially if there is anywhere where birds or animals might appear). Would they play a board game or some old-fashioned parlour games in the after noon/evening (charades, card games, ...), or work together on a jigsaw etc?

And maybe ask them what they would like to do. So while they might not get all their own way, it's not all imposed on them and they feel it's their day too.

(Is it your gran or STBXHs? And does she have to come to yours, does she stay or can you limit her visit in some way?)

It could be a very good year to re-evaluate the day, and TELL others who don't live in the house that this is what you will be doing in your house (or somewhere else). IF they want to come, your plan is ABC, you are eating X at Y time, and everyone will need to be gone by kids bedtimes. (And maybe have a second story for that night, and possibly another relaxing bathtime, to help settle them down after all the excitements again).

Sorry, that wasn't meant to be an essay or a lecture. (I've had to work hard on some things over the years to change other's expectations).

BiddyPop · 24/06/2013 10:38

Buildingmycorestrength, are you looking for a particular material? Pottery, glass, wood, moulded plastic? Perhaps visit some craft fairs, especially any in Nov/Dec, and you might find some lovely ones. (That's where my Aunt bought the set on behalf of a Gran-aunt as our wedding present - figures carved from lightweight stone and a wooden and straw stable, and that year we also bought a wooden cutout version that you push out the figures from a half moon log slice). Or also have a look in religious shops as well, they might have some interesting ones (and probably more "complete" ones as well, all the animals and a few shepherds etc).

Fuzzpig, Happy Birthday to your DD, I hope she has a lovely day. Would a kitchen be an idea for her, or cash register if she already has that (to shop and then cook her dinners!), or different foods to go with them? Imaginarium do lovely things (not cheap though), and IKEA have nice ones too.

6 months to Christmas Eve!! What will you all be doing this day in 6 months time? I was going to say I will be finishing off whatever work I have to finish, and wandering with DD to visit a few folks in here, before we go for our traditional hot choc and people watching on the main shopping street. But we will actually be down "home", so probably doing a LOT of visiting that day, and not going near the shops if we can avoid it. But going for a walk on the beach at some stage!! Grin

I bought a Moshi Monsters book on the theme of Night before Christmas (but with an actual story around it, not just character assasination of the classic) this morning (I had to get the next Harry Potter book). Another for my collection of Christmas stories for December. But mostly I am getting organised for the au pair leaving us and going on our own holidays 2 days later. So slightly chaotic chez Biddy this week!!

Overreactionoftheweek · 24/06/2013 11:23

So pleased to have found this thread! Dh thinks I'm crazy for being so excited about Christmas is June but what does he know? Grin

Looking forward to pinching everyone's lovely festive ideas - this will be my first Christmas out of the fog of PND after ds arrived Oct 2011 so I cannot wait to finally start doing all the fun stuff I kept planning on before

LentilAsAnything · 24/06/2013 18:35

Wow. Lots of new crazy people! Grin

claire, that sounds tough. Maybe not fret about it yet, you may not have to work, and can cross that bridge as and when. Do the forces not have some sort of support in place for this kind of situation?
Would your partner's mum and sister be happy to have you, if it came to it? You and their granddaughter/niece? It could be nice!

Happy Birthday to Fuzz's DD.

And 70, I absolutely love that your DD's name is Holly! :)

Ootw, hope you have a fabulous six months of planning, and a happy Christmas time.

Halfcups, sorry you had a horrid time last year. Hope this year is so wonderful you can forget the drama from the last one.

Six months til Xmas Eve! Woo hoooooo! :)

fuzzpig · 24/06/2013 21:06

I'm not really sure what we will be doing in 6 months! It really depends on my health, DH's job situation, and my nan's health.

Thanks for the birthday wishes. DD has only just gone to bed! She is over the moon with her presents. Some were inspired by school, as she has really enjoyed the artist topic - I expect topics will be inspiring Xmas too so I'm excited to see what they learn next term!

In case I forget tomorrow - happy birthday Holly! I love the name too :)

Hi OROTW, glad you are feeling positive about the coming Xmas! I am no stranger to PND (and depression in general) and I know it can really put strain on big days like that. Glad you are out of the fog now - go easy on yourself and my main advice would be don't put yourself under pressure to make it 'perfect' IYSWIM! That was my main issue for many years and I enjoy it much more now I'm relaxed about meeting some arbitrary and frankly unattainable standard that belongs in Hollywood! :)

Biddy I really love your ideas for Xmas eve/day. It really makes sense and breaks away from the idea of how Xmas 'should' be done. There's no point sticking to a tradition if none of you enjoy it - just make it how you want! For the last few years it has just been me DH and the DCs (DSCs always spend the 25th with their mum - so we have another Xmas with them during the holidays) and chill really, just play with their toys, eat nice food (not necessarily festive) and watch new DVDs or telly, and listen to festive songs.

I'd like to add the suggestion of making some of the presents crafty kits or supplies, if they generally like that sort of activity - if they want to do it during the day it might sneakily encourage some downtime while they focus on that. I'm thinking of putting together a craft supply centre (little set of drawers that will fit under the table) with lots of different paper, collage materials etc as a main Xmas gift this year. (Biddy, I think it was buzz rather than fuzz who wanted the advice on what to get their DD! :o I will be looking up imaginarium though!)

I love the idea of getting a nativity set.

BeaWheesht · 24/06/2013 21:11

Oh hello fellow Christmas obsessives!

Well I decided since its 'only' 6 months to go I would celebrate with buying my first pressie so bought ds a Ripleys book in Asda on special offer :)

Dh and ds have their birthdays in late December too so I need to be organised!

Anyone any ideas for a just turned 7 year old boy and a 3y3m girl????

buzzgirly · 25/06/2013 07:18

Hooray lots more Christmas nuts enthusiasts!!

Happy birthday fuzz dd for yesterday! And happy birthday 70s Holly - I love that you called her that!

Claremp - could your family come to you for Christmas? Then you could enjoy the day together, and family could watch dcs while you work.

6 months today we will be up to our eyes in wrapping paper whilst dcs ignore the carefully selecred expensive presents for a box/pen set/giant tube of smarties - I can't wait! WinkWinkWinkWink

fuzzpig · 25/06/2013 08:22

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We are halfway to Xmas! :o

Hope Holly has a lovely day!

BiddyPop · 25/06/2013 09:14

Happy birthday 70s Holly!!

And Blush to both Buzzgirly and Fuzzpig. That's what I get for trying to answer questions in my state of confusion (not an unusual state anymore these days unrfortunately). Sorry to you both, and I do see you both as quite different people, honestly.

Another lovely sunny day here. But another Rudy Day. Only 6 months - we are over the hump to now being nearer to the coming festivities than last year's ones!! Time to start getting excited Grin

fuzzpig · 25/06/2013 09:44

Start? :o

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