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Does anyone remember my little Blue-eyed Joseph? Bad news and I could use some support, please.

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Trazzletoes · 27/06/2016 19:51

My 6 year old, Joseph, was diagnosed with stage 4 high risk neuroblastoma cancer when he was 3. He had 14 months off treatment and then had no evidence of disease for 2.5 years. We were starting to imagine a future for us all and make plans.

We found out a fortnight ago that he has relapsed. 5 year survival rates from here are less than 5%. Possibly even less than 1%, I can't remember. Chemo starts tomorrow, I am struggling to understand how this has happened to us again (because there is no reason) and how on earth we are going to make it through this. I know it's by taking a minute at a time, but it feels so huge right now.

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CloudPerson · 15/07/2017 11:59

So sorry to hear this Sad
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Stinkyfeet · 15/07/2017 12:00

I am so sad to read this update. Sending you love and strength at this devastating time xx

Tilapia · 15/07/2017 12:00

Desperately sad news Sad

Ihopeyouhadthetimeofyourlife · 15/07/2017 12:14

I'm so sorry Trazzles. Thing of you all Flowers

Cherry78 · 15/07/2017 12:30

I saw the sad news on a mutual friends fb page but it was obviously not my place to write anything here.
Much love to you all. There are no words but you are all in my thoughts.

UsedToBeAPaxmanFan · 15/07/2017 12:37

Please let Trazzles know we are thinking of her and her family. I am so sorry.

HemiDemiSemiquaver · 15/07/2017 12:51

Please also pass on thoughts from another one who remembers her threads and was just thinking of Joseph recently. What a sad time for the family, and I hope that when she is able, she will be able to read how many people are thinking of them.

nothruroad · 15/07/2017 12:58

I'm so very sorry to hear this. I don't know what to say but I am sending you and your family love.

CheckpointCharlie2 · 15/07/2017 13:05

So devastating. Sending much love x

Frazzled2207 · 15/07/2017 13:12

Thinking of you all.
Xx

Sanscollier · 15/07/2017 13:12

Thank you for posting The1stMrsDV

Sending Trazzles heartfelt condolences for the terribly sad loss of Joseph, with love and prayers. Wishing her and all the family strength. (SC from fledglings) x

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Thurlow · 15/07/2017 13:15

I'm so sorry 💐💐💐

RaynaJaymes · 15/07/2017 13:21

So sad to hear this. Thinking of you all Flowers

Butterymuffin · 15/07/2017 13:25

So very sorry about Joseph. Lots of love Flowers

Whatslovegottodo · 15/07/2017 13:25

Oh Trazzles.
Lovely Joseph has been in my thoughts for many years.
I can't say anything that will bring you comfort but thinking of you and your family at this awful time.

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Golondrina · 15/07/2017 13:27

Oh, I'm so terribly sorry. Been thinking of you all this week.

Brenna24 · 15/07/2017 13:33

I am so sorry. Flowers There are no words i can say to help with your pain.

nether · 15/07/2017 13:45

So sorry to read this

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and wishing you peace

AnneofGreenGablesAgain · 15/07/2017 13:50

Dear Trazzeltoes, I am so very sorry that you have lost your lovely Joesph and that he has been taken away from you and from all who love him.

I have thought of you all many times over the last few years. I am just so very very sorry.

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ticolac · 15/07/2017 13:50

So, so sorry to hear this. I have followed the highs and lows of Joseph's illness. Much love to all x

Strokethefurrywall · 15/07/2017 14:01

This is such sad news to read - my sincere love and strength to the Trazzle family and this truly awful time - I hope they have some small measure of comfort from all the love and prayers many of us here are sending Flowers

CiderwithBuda · 15/07/2017 14:19

I'm so sorry to read this news. Thank you for letting us know MrsDV.

I having been thinking of Trazzles and Joseph a lot lately - especially with all the coverage of Bradley.

Thinking of you Trazzles. Huge hugs. Words are just so inadequate. Sad

FoodieToo · 15/07/2017 14:55

Oh god, I am so so sorry xxxx

SlightlyJaded · 15/07/2017 16:23

Oh no. No I am so so sad. I remember the very first post about Joseph when there was no indication of what was to come. I remember the photo posted and his little smile that has lingered in my mind for so so long.

I am truly surprised by how strongly I feel and just want to join the MN masses in sending as much love as a stranger on a screen can.

You fought so well Joseph. As did all the Trazzles. All I can wish is strength and love to you all.