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Children's health

DD has a bruise that isn't going away.

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SaulGood · 10/06/2015 12:03

8yo dd complained a few weeks ago that she had a bruise on her inner thigh. She said she couldn't remember how she did it. It looked very much like a mark made by her little brother pinching her which on occasion, when frustrated, he does. He also tends to aim for her thigh or the tops of her arms. She's also as active as most 8yos and rides her scooter everywhere, occasionally crashing and bruising her legs. I put it down to that.

A week ago she mentioned it was still there and I had a good look and it had faded to a browny colour but I could feel a lump directly underneath it. Around the size of a pea. She said it was sore.

A week later and it's still there, same size, sort of a reddy colour but she says it's more sore than it was. She does admit though that she squeezes it because there's a lump underneath it and it 'feels funny'. I don't know if that's exacerbating things.

I have a terrible health anxiety, particularly where the dc are concerned and I am jumping to the absolute worst conclusions. Because that helps, obviously. Hmm

She's not ill, not tired or not herself. She's perfectly well. She's also had other run of the mill, fell off her scooter or got whacked with a golf club bruises in the last couple of weeks and they've cleared up within a couple of days. It's just this bruise on her thigh.

I've made a GP appointment for after school today as it's preying on my mind but is there a chance this is absolutely nothing and my sky high anxiety and terror is unnecessary? I need to stop googling.

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laurzj82 · 06/07/2017 19:10

How did you get on OP?

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LTBiscuit · 06/07/2017 19:23

Hope it's nothing serious op

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GlitteryFluff · 06/07/2017 19:40

Hope doctors went ok Flowers

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flumpybear · 06/07/2017 20:31

How'd it go Saul??

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MrsEricBana · 06/07/2017 20:43

Hi OP, How did you get on? Thinking of you x

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SaulGood · 07/07/2017 04:58

Sorry to disappear. The surgery was running behind and then I had a prior arrangement until quite late.

GP wants her to have an ultrasound which has been sent through as urgent. He doesn't know what it is.

I'm still wide awake and not sure how I'm feeling.

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gamerpigeon · 07/07/2017 05:13

I'm awake with my newborn so I will delurk to say I'm crossing my fingers for you OP, the chances are that the ultrasound won't find anything. They have to check if they don't know. I just had to take my baby for an ultrasound for hip dysplasia- turned out to be ok and the GP was just being thorough.

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SaulGood · 07/07/2017 07:19

Thank you for delurking and many congratulations on your newborn. I know you're probably exhausted and running on empty, but I sort of miss those early days and the long nights. Sort of. A tiny bit. Grin

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flumpybear · 07/07/2017 08:47

That's actually good news Saul because they'll tell you it's nothing to worry about

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Lukeandlorelai4Ever · 07/07/2017 10:38

Hope all goes well. Try not to worry, I know that's impossible!
How long do you think you will have to wait for scan? How is dd feeling?

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tinypop4 · 07/07/2017 12:42

This is good Saul. Although you are still worrying now, urgent usually means she'll be seen within two weeks (in my locality anyway) and then you will be able to put your mind at rest officially.

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MrsEricBana · 07/07/2017 16:09

Hi Saul, I'm not a doctor but I am guessing you are worrying about some sort of cancerous lump here. If it were me, and I also suffer from bad health anxiety, the fact that it appeared to go away before and the fact that it is painful would hugely reassure me. Far more likely to be cyst or somesuch. Try not to worry and the very good news is that the scan is soon and will help them get to the bottom of it and hopefully reassure you once and for all very soon xx

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SaulGood · 07/07/2017 18:57

You are all lovely Smile

DD is cool as a cucumber, absolutely fine.

I've spent the day with friends which helps but I don't ever talk about this stuff in rl. The distraction was good though. This is why I need MN, so I can admit to the anxiety instead of asking dh over and over and over what he thinks is wrong.

Hopefully, urgent implies within 2 weeks. That's the usual timeframe afaik.

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Doubledottvremote · 07/07/2017 19:02

Yes things that are urgent that they want check out is often a 2 week rule. Hopefully will be soon.

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Witchend · 07/07/2017 19:07

Dh gets bumps appear and disappear-he's one under his eye he's had for 30 years. I've a friend whose dd had a lump very like you describe.
Dd1 had a lump on her cheek for 6 years and only went in her teens. Doesn't have to be sinister.

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Member652554 · 11/07/2017 09:31

Hope it turns out to be nothing hun. I have a lump on my inner thigh. It's very obvious to the naked eye and is a darker colour too. I think it's from when I had chickenpox. It's not painful and doesn't bother me and it's been there for 20 years so not all long term lumps are sinister hun . Good luck for a scan xx

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MakeTeaNotWar · 18/07/2017 14:15

How is your DD, when is her appointment?

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SaulGood · 18/07/2017 15:58

DD's appointment was today while you were typing your message MakeTea!

We still don't know what it is. The doctor said that it's fat or fluid in 90% of cases and this rules out anything sinister. DD's lump isn't fat or fluid Sad

It is in the layer of fat under her skin. It's around a cm in diameter, spherical, has no blood supply and defined edges. That's pretty much all I know but no idea what that means iyswim.

He has referred her for an MRI but said that's likely to be inconclusive too and they'll probably have to remove it to find out what it is.

So more anxious waiting.

Thank you for asking Smile

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notapizzaeater · 18/07/2017 16:15

Oh no, so no peace for you, hopefully the appointment will be quick now she's in the system

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SaulGood · 18/07/2017 17:12

Same timeframe for the MRI, 2 weeks. We're away a lot from the end of July/first half of August and I desperately want it resolved before our holidays. For all of us.

I go from pragmatic to terrified several times a day.

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Stardustandicecream · 18/07/2017 19:27

Gosh how awful - i can only say that in my experience anxiety exists for a reason - to keep your kids safe. You haven't 'missed anything' here so you've been so right on it and got your child an MRI scan when most other mothers wouldn't have even noticed a lump! So ease off beating yourself up a bit - both for having anxiety and for doing exactly the right thing with your dd.
Now secondly - as you know this will most likely be nothing in your child. Any sinister would have shown other symptoms by now and yes you would have seen them because you are on the ball looking at her health. If it IS anything they'll have caught it super early. Please have some faith in yourself and that you are doing the right thing for your child, and that she will continue to be ok.

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DonkeyOaty · 18/07/2017 20:59

Showy no advice but have a gentle shoulder squeeze from an old-timer. No kisses though. Eurgh.

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SaulGood · 18/07/2017 21:09

Thanks ducky. For being lovely AND for not kissing me. You're a good egg.

Stardust, thank you. I don't feel like a great mother right now. I'm anxious and I can't fix things.

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CreekyOldKnee · 18/07/2017 22:03

Hi Saul
When I was in university I had something very similar to what you've described. It was a hard lump under my skin on the outside of my thigh. The skin on top of it was discoloured and looked like a small bruise. It didn't go away.
Obviously I convinced myself that it was cancer and that my time was up! I have always believed I will one day get cancer! Happy happy!!!!
Anyway, I went to the drs who said it was nothing to worry about and was most likely an insect bite that had hardened. Apparently this happens sometimes. I was reassured and just ignored it from then on. It was there for years.
20 yrs on (god that makes me feel old!), the skin is still discoloured! There's no lump now.
Obviously this might not be the same as your DDs lump but I wanted to let you know that lumps and bumps can be just lumps and bumps - even ones that last for years.
Fingers crossed for you and your DD.

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MakeTeaNotWar · 31/07/2017 23:16

How is your DD now?

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