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DD has a bruise that isn't going away.

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SaulGood · 10/06/2015 12:03

8yo dd complained a few weeks ago that she had a bruise on her inner thigh. She said she couldn't remember how she did it. It looked very much like a mark made by her little brother pinching her which on occasion, when frustrated, he does. He also tends to aim for her thigh or the tops of her arms. She's also as active as most 8yos and rides her scooter everywhere, occasionally crashing and bruising her legs. I put it down to that.

A week ago she mentioned it was still there and I had a good look and it had faded to a browny colour but I could feel a lump directly underneath it. Around the size of a pea. She said it was sore.

A week later and it's still there, same size, sort of a reddy colour but she says it's more sore than it was. She does admit though that she squeezes it because there's a lump underneath it and it 'feels funny'. I don't know if that's exacerbating things.

I have a terrible health anxiety, particularly where the dc are concerned and I am jumping to the absolute worst conclusions. Because that helps, obviously. Hmm

She's not ill, not tired or not herself. She's perfectly well. She's also had other run of the mill, fell off her scooter or got whacked with a golf club bruises in the last couple of weeks and they've cleared up within a couple of days. It's just this bruise on her thigh.

I've made a GP appointment for after school today as it's preying on my mind but is there a chance this is absolutely nothing and my sky high anxiety and terror is unnecessary? I need to stop googling.

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Wontsleepcantsleep · 30/09/2017 18:25

So happy that its benign. It must be such a relief for you.

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BurnTheBlackSuit · 30/09/2017 18:21

Hi SoH! You probably don't remember me, but we met once at Harry Potter World on the MN review trip.

I have only just come across your thread and had my heart in my mouth reading it. I am so pleased that it has turned out to be "nothing". Your experience reminds me so much of mine with my son 2 years ago, so I wish I'd seen your thread to post before to reassure you. Basically my son was "wonky"- he had blood tests and an x-ray and then suddenly we were on the dreaded 2 week referral. MRIs and CT scans and more blood tests and details being sent to specialists for meetings. Anyway, eventually they decided he'd had a stress fracture of his femur which had partially healed before the x-ray, hence it being hard to diagnose. And it was all fine. I still shudder when I think back to that time and the dread and fear that went with it (i.e. going to what I thought might be his last harvest assembly...). So you have my sympathy. I am so glad your story has a happy ending too Flowers

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FretYeNotAllIsShiny · 30/09/2017 18:12

So glad to hear your dd is okay (and your ds is getting over that horrendous sounding chesty nastiness). I don't think I've posted on here before (unless I have) but I have to admire your daughter's strength of character and humour. She sounds a lot like you x

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Cocolepew · 30/09/2017 17:50

How did I miss this?!
Im so happy everything worked out Showy, your DD sounds marvellous Flowers

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gonegrey56 · 30/09/2017 17:29

I am so thrilled for you all, and my admiration for your stoicism and care for your dd is immense. A huge bunch of Flowers

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hennipenni · 28/09/2017 17:42

That's fabulous news Saulgood, not been on for a few days so that's lovely news to come back to!

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Linzilou1985 · 28/09/2017 15:24

Amazing news! So happy for you and your dd! GrinFlowersCake

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DonkeyOaty · 28/09/2017 15:08

Oh this is super news, I'm jolly pleased to hear it.

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picklemepopcorn · 28/09/2017 13:25

Hooray for weird lumps with no discernible purpose!

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Haggisfish · 28/09/2017 13:15

Good grief-what a lot of things to process!! Well done on sobriety.

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Frazzled2207 · 28/09/2017 10:48

Fabulous news. Brilliant outcome. Massive sighs of relief I hope.


Note down all the questions in the world. Presumably you'll have another appointment soon. Make sure you ask them then but in the meantime lots of wine and chocolate.

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SaulGood · 28/09/2017 09:19

Good morning.

Sorry I disappeared yesterday. Everything truly caught up to us I think. DD came over a bit funny at school and was sick. I strongly suspect that it's a delayed reaction to last week. She obviously went back to school 24hrs after the procedure and has been very busy indeed, including on Tuesday doing PE, swimming and rugby. She said she just felt very hot all of a sudden and then very sick. She has been absolutely fine ever since, eating and drinking and reading and watching Once Upon a Time on Netflix. I also very strongly suspect she's about to start her periods. So today is a duvet day for both of us. We have a stack of books each, snacks and I might even watch that evil queen, snow white thingy mentioned above with her.

Can I just say a heartfelt thank you to absolutely everybody who posted on here and who sent me PMs offering support and practical help with the logistics of Birmingham and travel. I simply don't have the words to tell you how every single one of you has made a difference to how I've handled this. It was an extremely kind thing you all did in taking the time to talk, check in, support and reassure. I am so grateful.

And I'm still teetotal btw. Can you imagine if I had necked the wine? I did eat fish and chips though. And mushy peas. And curry sauce. And I don't care at all Grin

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Ojoj1974 · 27/09/2017 23:21

What a relief. I sincerely hope you necked the wine!!

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QOD · 27/09/2017 23:17

💃🏼
Doing a happy dance for you!

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misdee · 27/09/2017 23:06

Fantastic news.

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Magicme1 · 27/09/2017 22:27

Fantastic news !

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eaturveggies123 · 27/09/2017 22:20

So happy for you and your DD op!! Flowers

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SonicBoomBoom · 27/09/2017 21:08

Excellent news OP.

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RMC123 · 27/09/2017 19:45

Completely normal reaction but now you need to step away from Google. Two excellent hospitals have done loads of tests and have the answer. You are out the other side. Be kind to yourself and enjoy your amazing DD. X

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Restawhile · 27/09/2017 18:40

So very very relieved and happy for you all . Have checked in many times for updates and have been willing it be be okay . It is okay ! Our children are so precious to us. You must relax now, it's all good.

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Andro · 27/09/2017 16:35

Why do I feel so wobbly? I should be celebrating. I feel a bit battered and vulnerable. Wtf is that as a reaction?

Adrenaline crash, plus you've been living under the stress of 'what if' and having to hold it together which is both physically and emotionally exhausting...your reaction is perfectly normal.

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unweavedrainbow · 27/09/2017 10:53

Vascular malformations are pretty common in EDS. I have a cavernous hemangioma on my leg-it looks like a really nasty purple bruise as it's quite a bit below the surface. I wouldn't worry too much about it not looking like the pictures as there are many many different types and some are really quite rare. I would chase up the EDS thing though. Vascular malformations would point towards a true collagen disorder rather than just hypermobility and that does need watching in the long term. @SaulGood

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Maryz · 27/09/2017 10:42

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SaulGood · 27/09/2017 09:28

Morning all. I'll write a better and longer message later. I just wanted to say thank you for your messages overnight before I head off to work.

I haven't really slept. I feel most discombobulated. I keep googling vascular malformation and it looks and sounds nothing like dd's lump and its presentation. What do I know though? It's not a hemangioma stopyourhavering, they're slightly different apparently but fit into the same basic group of lesions.

Why do I feel so wobbly? I should be celebrating. I feel a bit battered and vulnerable. Wtf is that as a reaction?

I'm off to work. I will be back later.

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Ginslinger · 27/09/2017 08:17

excellent wonderful news - go off and do some xmas shopping (sorry Maryz)

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