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Maternity Leave Equivalent (Wild Speculation)

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NeonSoda · 21/11/2023 10:57

So I was wildly speculating with a friend last night, and I said that I thought it would be wonderful if child-free people could have the same 52 week x £172 benefit given as maternity leave, but without having to have a child.

If that was something you could opt to receive, as a childfree person, what would you do with your 52 weeks of subsidised break from full-time employment?

(NB - the condition here is that you cannot do your job for those 52 weeks and also receive the money, just like a person on maternity leave can't.)

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itsmabeline · 15/08/2024 17:46

Zamzamzamdeedah · 21/11/2023 15:11

It would equalise job market if everyone took 1 year off before 40 lets say. No "lost out because I went on maternity". Ultimate equality where everyone loses out which means it beclmes so normal for companies that actually no one would be losing out😁

Travel around cheaply, do some course, spend time with family abroad withput time restrictions

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You'd get so many people taking a year off and then getting pregnant after 40 and having maternity leave too

Possimpible · 15/08/2024 18:10

itsmabeline · 15/08/2024 17:46

You'd get so many people taking a year off and then getting pregnant after 40 and having maternity leave too

First of all, I doubt it. If someone really wanted a child at 30 they're not going to put it off and risk their fertility just to game the system slightly. And second of all, I don't think PP meant a year off before 40 necessarily instead of mat leave. It could be as well as. If she can even remember what she meant, given it was 9 months ago...

ColleenDonaghy · 15/08/2024 18:18

Possimpible · 15/08/2024 18:10

First of all, I doubt it. If someone really wanted a child at 30 they're not going to put it off and risk their fertility just to game the system slightly. And second of all, I don't think PP meant a year off before 40 necessarily instead of mat leave. It could be as well as. If she can even remember what she meant, given it was 9 months ago...

OP was very clear that the sabbatical would be used to cover maternity leave, not in addition to maternity leave. That's why it was so poorly received.

Possimpible · 15/08/2024 18:30

ColleenDonaghy · 15/08/2024 18:18

OP was very clear that the sabbatical would be used to cover maternity leave, not in addition to maternity leave. That's why it was so poorly received.

Did I say OP? No, I said 'PP'. The post I quoted referred to a different 'what if'.

And it was only poorly received by some...

KimberleyClark · 15/08/2024 22:00

sammylady37 · 24/11/2023 05:27

would you say that to a man? No.

Would I say what to a man? That pregnancy is something that people generally plan for and want to happen and it’s not something that “just happens”? Of course I would. Why wouldn’t I?

Stop pretending pregnancy is some kind of lifestyle choice women just stroll down to a shop to buy or something

It is a choice. You may not like hearing that, but it’s the reality, particularly in countries like Britain with such access to education, healthcare and abortion. Of course, it’s harder for some people to achieve it, but that still doesn’t mean they aren’t choosing it. The poster (you?) claiming it’s something that “just physically happens” as if people have no means of controlling that is being ridiculous.

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Exactly this. We are humans, with agency and reasoning capacity. Not rabbits.

Nc4dis · 20/08/2024 18:03

What batshit insanity have I read - pregnancy isn’t a choice but “something that just happens”? 🤣 I fucking hope not. Unless you’re in a severe domestic violence situation, it’s always a choice. It’s a choice to have sex, use or not use contraception, have or not have an abortion. Having children is a lifestyle choice, it’s not comparable to being ill or having a relative die! (Mat leave is not sick/bereavement leave)

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