We got scanned on the 26th Aug. DS is 7 and we have been on the ADHD/ASD pathway since he was 4. I never realised how difficult this would be.
OT would not see us, speech therapy wound not accept referral either. After a lot of fight we had an autism assessment… it only lasted for 30min and he masked for the first 15-20min. Once he was comfortable he started hands flapping and prescriptive speech. The report says he did not meet criteria but he was very hyperactive. We were referred again with a 17th months wait for new assessment for ASD and ADHD. School now seem to be on board after me crying like a baby in a meeting.
I am a single parent with literally no family or friends support (we isolate due to big emotions he has sometimes). I feel so let down by all agencies. At no point DLA was mentioned to support us. he still in nappies at night and we have accidents in the day (wee and poo), specially at home. He chews tops, coats, cushions until there are holes in them. He wakes up at night… sometimes nappies leak in his bed and then mine in the same night… so lots of washing… he also wakes his sister up at night too. We were just managing until this rising living costs. I heard I could apply from DLA from someone in work… until then I always though we needed a diagnosis.
Our little family really needs this, but I’m so rubbish with forms I am scared and so anxious now!! I can’t stop thinking about it.
sorry to long post… just need to get this out there to see if I can cope before my Night Shift.