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Am I in labour?

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slithytove · 17/09/2014 02:30

Third baby, 40+5, trying for a home vbac

Previous stillbirth and sections so this is my first 'normal' gestation and labour.

I had a sweep on Sunday and been losing bits of mucus plug ever since, no bloody show though.

I've been getting irregular contractions since midnight, sometimes 1 every 10 mins, sometimes 1 a minute. They take my breath away and I feel like I need to poo with each one. Also have a fair bit of back pain but this is pretty normal for me.

I am constipated and have terrible wind Blush

Could this be labour? Should I take any paracetemol or Fybogel or anything? If I'm going to have a baby tm I'd really like to get some sleep and at the moment contractions are preventing that.

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StarlightMcKenzie · 18/09/2014 20:48

And bearing down feeling can also be a result of your waters bulging through your fanjo.

FranksBobot · 18/09/2014 21:02

You went swimming whilst contracting?! I'm impressed, i wallowed in self pity with each one with DD.

Hoping you have some definite action going on by now. Flowers

PacificDogwood · 18/09/2014 21:34

Sending you effective contraction vibes tonight.

Well impressed with the swimming - you can always say you laboured in the pool, whether you use your home pool or not Wink

MummytoMog · 18/09/2014 22:01

Ooh, well done you - I managed sod all while in labour with my two.

MrsKoala · 18/09/2014 22:44

Not sure if you have the internet in your airing cupboard, but if you do i'm clocking in for the first of my nightly feedathons.

Hope you are in full swing by now, can't wait for a pic of a squidgy new baby - i'm so bored of mine now Wink

CarbeDiem · 18/09/2014 23:00

Found you :)

I hope you're holding your lovely little one by nowSlithy or if not I hope you're labouring away in the pool.
Thinking of you Xx

slithytove · 19/09/2014 02:23

Olivia Annabel made her way into the world at 40+6, 8.12pm, September 18th 2014, at home. She weighs 7lbs 14oz.

I was contracting once every ten minutes until about 7pm, agonisingly so, but thinking it wasn't active labour as they were so far apart. They had me crying they were so bad, but still infrequent. To the point I put DS to bed at seven, and helped DH clean my bathroom.

Then I was sick into our bin Blush. DH put me in the shower and unknown to me got my mum to call my midwife at 7.15. I had said up to this point I wasn't in active labour, they wouldn't give me gas and air, there was no point etc.

DH got me downstairs where mum was trying to fill the pool (frigging two connection didn't work) and I went into some sort of zone of pain in the living room. Lots of crying, groaning, and "I can't do this". I was thinking that if the pain was like that already, what the hell was it going to be like when my waters broke and I was in active labour.

Midwife the lovely Rachel arrived about 7.45, just got down on the floor with me and tried to help me breathe properly. But I couldn't. All I could do was pant and push. Thinking the whole while it was too soon and I was doing it wrong. I was begging for the gas and air and Rachel was hesitant to get it from her car because I was pushing, she had to put DH on guard for a head! She went and got it and that was the final impetus I needed. It helped me breath right, and push out a head. Into my knickers! DH had to run and get scissors and cut them off me. I think it was 2 pushes later and Olivia was born. The lovely thing is, DH saw her born as did my mum.

We did delayed CC and then DH cut the cord. Placenta followed a wee while later after I had to have the injection.

Total active labour was about 2 hours. Pushing was about 20 minutes. No tearing, just a couple of nasty flaps of skin on labia which sting like a bitch, peeing is not fun.

I think I'm in shock. Sat here in bed watching the referendum results, with a 6 hours old baby on my chest. I can't believe I was so lucky as to get my home vbac. I can't believe I didn't realise I was in active labour. 4 hours before she was born I was swimming!

And wee Olivia is half Scottish half English, so somewhat of an historical day for her to arrive.

:)

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CatWitch · 19/09/2014 02:31

Slithy, you must be over the moon! Fabulous birth story...many blessings to you, your family and your sweet Olivia! Xx

Pinotgrigioplease · 19/09/2014 02:34

Congratulations Slithy!

I only found your thread as I'm awake in bed watching the referendum results & MN in between declarations.

You are right, what a historic day for Olivia to make her arrival in the world.

Thanks
slithytove · 19/09/2014 02:38

Just realised I've typed DH name!

Whoops. Oh well!

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Hobby2014 · 19/09/2014 02:46

So pleased you got the labour you wanted. Congratulations!

Pinotgrigioplease · 19/09/2014 02:50

Blame the hormones Grin

I'm sure MN would edit the post if you reported it?

ilovevenice · 19/09/2014 02:50

Another one up with the election results and easily distracted by happy baby news - congratulations!

justjodie92 · 19/09/2014 03:14

Congratulations! Thanks

Wishfulmakeupping · 19/09/2014 03:25

Congratulations OP :) x

Missymoomum · 19/09/2014 03:28

Ah many congratulations! That's wonderful news and glad it all went well. Shame you didn't get to use the pool Wink!

NancyinCali · 19/09/2014 03:34

Congratulations! Enjoy those newborn snuggles.

AnotherStitchInTime · 19/09/2014 04:21

Aw congratulations slithy! Thanks

FoxSticks · 19/09/2014 04:26

Congratulations Slithy, you sound like you did a fabulous job, well done and enjoy those cuddles!

ilovemonstersinc · 19/09/2014 04:41

Congratulations Flowers

MrsKoala · 19/09/2014 04:57

how wonderful. well done all of you :) Congratulations. I demand a picture! Wink

DrFunkesFamilyBandSolution · 19/09/2014 05:33

Congratulations! Sounds like a lovely birth (in the end)! X

CarbeDiem · 19/09/2014 05:37

Congratulations Slithy (and Craig) Thanks
I'm glad it all went well for you. And little Olivia being half Scottish - What a day indeed.
Trying peeing with the shower head pointed at your sore bits for a few days, or fill up a washing up bucket with warm water, pop it on top of the closed loo and lower your bits in to pee - really helps to take the sting out.

Yes please to Photos - when you're up to it -

Again, many congrats Thanks

slithytove · 19/09/2014 05:38

Just finished our second night time bf Grin it's all coming back! Will post a pic tm definitely!

I'm still completely in shock, I can't believe how lucky I am to get the birth I wanted, to get a healthy little girl (who looks just like her older siblings), and to be at home loving my wee family. And I can't believe I went from "I'm not in active labour" to pushing out a head half an hour or so later.

And it's looking like it's going to be a no vote, so I'm pleased there as well!

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slithytove · 19/09/2014 05:40

I have figured out how to pee. Bend double in the bath so pee goes straight down but bypasses my bits. Use shower head to wash bits and bath. Use huge amounts of loo roll to dry bits. Spray bleach in bath while hopping about getting huge knickers and pad on.

Repeat half an hour later as needed. I tried with the water jug but kept missing.

And as for poos, I'm just never going to poo again. Easy.

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