I had a VB with keilland (sp?) forceps and a 1cm episiotomy that healed within the week. I have suffered mild stress incontinence (not enough to affect my daily life at all, only an issue when I go for a long run and since corrected by physiotherapy).
I had an epidural from 3/4cm as I was induced due to obstetric cholestasis.
I remember in my antenatal classes the whole class of first time mums being obsessed with not having an epi or tearing, and all the midwives and HVs falling about saying "that'll be the least of your worries"
A ELCS where it is not required is an unnecessary expense and in the case of this OP, it would seem it is as much a cosmetic request as asking for a boob job on the NHS. I don't want my hard earned cash going on ELCS for a bunch of lily livered vain girls who don't want to ruin their "fanjo".
On the other hand I think it extremely important that where a c section is INDICATED (not just required, some element of forethought and consultation is required too) that cost shouldn't come into it.
Also I think the last thing women need is yet more guilt inducing tosh about differing birth methods affecting bonding with babies etc. One isn't "better" than the other, but major surgery shouldn't be a matter of whim, at least not when the state is paying for it.
One point that hasn't been made is that a lot of women I know who have had C sections have a caesarian "overhang" that they can't get rid of. Far worse IMHO than a 1cm cut :wink:
The Portland in London is the hospital that Posh used - I guess she had a tummy tuck at the same time. Not sure how much that would run to tho.