I’ve now read all the way back through the thread, with tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat a few times along the way. You lot are incredible 💜
@spartanrunnergirl thank you again for bringing this community together. It’s so sad that there’s such a need for it, but at the same time, I’m so grateful for all the support and experience that is shared on here.
@chococakey flip….you’ve been through a heck of a 6 weeks 💐 It really doesn’t feel right that they’ve just left you hanging at this point. I guess you have to believe that they would have come back to you much faster if there was cause for concern. Keeping my fingers crossed 🤞
@quietmaelstrom sending (careful) hugs your way❤️🩹
@PemberleynotWemberley thank you for sharing your experience - my heart absolutely went out to you when I read your first post. I totally recognise that desire to stick on a brave face and pretend everything is fine: the thing I’ve found hardest through all of this has been talking to friends and family about what’s going on. Partly that’s because I’m very facts-based, and the first 6 weeks or so were ongoing investigations, so I didn’t know what I had, which made it harder to talk about, but theres definitely a part of me that would much rather pretend all is fine than admit not or ask for help. Your calling that out came as a timely reminder for me. I really hope this thread and community can give you some recognition and closure after all that time carrying it on your own 🫶💐
@catin8oots when do you expect to hear back?
@dancingwhilstfacingthemusic & @BatshitCrazyWoman you’re both absolute bloody legends. Hats off to the pair of you ⭐️👊
All my pre-op stuff is now complete. They struggled to get the wire into place (oh, the joy of dense breast tissue all over again!) and then took ages squishing me around for the mammograms.
Wire is poking out under my left arm; boob is feeling super bruised & I’m uncomfortably aware that this is probably the best I’m going to feel for a good few days to come.
Lumpectomy is first thing tomorrow morning. Thank you to whoever asked what to wear to hospital - I hadn’t even got that far in my head. So now I’m off to pack a small bag ( it’s meant to be a day case but they’ve suggested bringing stuff just in case) and work out what my comfiest clothing options will be.