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In a&e just told I have a brain tumour

930 replies

Wells37 · 26/09/2024 20:41

Just that really. It's 2cm ish on ct scan symptoms for 5 weeks. I can't stop crying. I just sent dh home as kids are at home.
Terrified

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SpidersAreShitheads · 04/02/2025 10:17

Thanks for updating us OP with everything you have going on. Sounds really tough - and I agree, you’re an absolute bloody warrior.

Fingers crossed things continue to go in the right way and it starts to get easier for you 💐

MissyB1 · 04/02/2025 12:47

So much to cope with bless you, sending a hug 🤗
It might help to frame it as "isn't my body amazing to be coping with all this and trying to mend itself". Don't forget to praise yourself for how well you are doing.

spiderlight · 04/02/2025 13:37

Thank you for updating. That sounds like a bit of a rollercoaster. I hope your funny head feeling calms down soon.

LushLemonTart · 04/02/2025 13:38

Thanks for explaining how you're feeling. I don't think a lot of us realise how gruelling this is. Sending much love ❤️

ArabellaScott · 04/02/2025 16:42

You are amazing, OP. Keep on keeping on. Flowers

Alltheyearround · 05/02/2025 13:11

@@Wells37 Flowers Thanks for letting us know how you're doing.

Hope things start to improve after the 3 months mark.

JaneHamChap · 12/02/2025 07:06

Hi how are you? I was diagnosed at A&E also, the week before you on 12th September 24.
I had two CT scans a year earlier & they missed it twice. This time they noticed it & I had an MRI. I’m on my journey, lots of appointments etc. sending you love and strength it’s hard I know. I have 3 children 28,21&22 & a grandchild of 2. Im 50.

xx

JaneHamChap · 12/02/2025 07:07

Sorry typo my children are 18,21&22

BellaVita · 12/02/2025 08:45

Wells37 · 04/02/2025 08:01

Thank you for thinking of me. A bit up and down, I've had reactions to the immunotherapy, some more seizures and a skin reaction and my bloods show my liver is a bit off! Liver is going in the right direction now. Seizures have stopped now but I get a really horrible tight feeling a lot. Skin reaction they treated very quickly and is on the mend.
If I could just get rid of the funny head I think I could cope fine with the side effects. When it happens it's like I can't think and feel out of control. Hopefully all the side effects means my immune system is working over time though and the immunotherapy isn't working!
I'm really hoping once I'm over the 3 month mark from radiotherapy my head will start feeling better and the immunotherapy isn't going to trigger the seizures too much.
My consultant said once my seizures are stable I can start gentle exercise which hopefully will help. I've been walking everyday but I think it will do me good both physically and mentally to get back to the exercise classes at Maggies.

How are you @Wells37? Sending love and strength xx

Jack had a scan last Friday (halfway through last resort treatment) and hopefully we will have the results on Monday when we go for his oncology appt. I am so not looking forward to it.

@JaneHamChap I cannot believe they missed it. Look after yourself and take any offer of help that is given xx

Pancakeflipper · 13/02/2025 21:11

Hoping you are having better days.
Totally get the anxiety of hospitals!

Just sending virtual hugs and determination

Wells37 · 16/02/2025 08:52

@BellaVita I really hope the scan brings some positive news for Jack and he's feeling ok. The build up to appointments is unbearable! Me and Dh had a big argument leading up to my latest treatment and think it was just all the tension of worrying about the side effects and the unknown. We are fine now though.

@JaneHamChap sorry to hear you are going through this too. What treatment are you having? What type of tumour do you have?

I had my second immunotherapy this week. So far no seizures thank goodness! On my last treatment I had had a few focal seizures by this time. I'm on the max dose of my anti seizure meds now, so hopefully it doing the job. I've had a few funny 5 minutes but nothing like last time. They have another drug they can add if it does happen again though. But so far I've seen them off with a small dose of lorazepam and rest.
The other side effects came about a week later last time but they were manageable and the trial I'm on monitored me very closely. If they can keep the seizures at bay I will be happy.
Have a good day everyone and thank you for your nice posts. I've just had breakfast in bed, breakfast in bed daily is the one good thing to come out of having cancer😂 Going to get up and walk the dog and get a nice coffee in a bit.

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Horses7 · 16/02/2025 09:03

You’ve handled all this brilliantly, thanks for the update. Enjoy your day.

ArabellaScott · 16/02/2025 09:11

Have a wonderful Sunday and a lovely coffee, and may the breakfasts in bed continue!

LushLemonTart · 16/02/2025 09:37

@Wells37 you sound so positive. Have a lovely day 😘

Wells37 · 16/02/2025 10:19

Just as an after thought as I know people search Mumsnet for lots of things. This is what I'm doing to try and support myself and my treatment. Nothing to wacky 😂

No processed carbs, I'm not doing keto but trying to keep my blood sugar level. Still do family meals but if they have pasta for example I replace mine with roasted vegetables.

Increased my fibre intake- flax seeds, chia seeds, mixed beans, psyllium husk. The fibre 35 mix from marks and spencers. There's proper studies on increasing fibre helping with immunotherapy.

Lots of vegetables, as many different ones as possible.

Making sure I eat plenty of protein. Eggs, meat, beans, Greek yogurt, during treatment I add protein powder to my yogurt to give myself a boost.

I also got a blood test to check vitamin levels and have added supplements accordingly. I also take a good quality fish oil.

Since I've been doing this I haven't really craved sweet stuff but I usually have some dark chocolate (85%) and nuts in the evening. Or m&s almonds with dark chocolate.

I always have a coffee first thing but otherwise drink water and fruit tea at home. Or if I go out I have another coffee.

I always have a bag of nuts in my handbag!

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dancingwhilstfacingthemusic · 16/02/2025 10:34

Good to hear things are ticking along positively. Many good wishes to you.

I'm also on breakfast in bed (my 15th out of 16 chemos is due next week). I’ve shifted my diet very much like yours although am vegetarian. I have overnight oats with lots of Greek yoghurt and fruit - plenty of figs at certain points in my chemo 🤣. I enjoy eating a couple of medjool dates in lieu of a sweet treat and find that a couple after my evening meal switch my appetite off for the night.

Thoughts with you and all affected by this bastard disease.

Wells37 · 19/04/2025 19:13

I thought I would do a quick update!
I’ve had some really good news from scans this week.
After 3 lots of double immunotherapy plus the trial vaccine my mri head is clear, just some swelling left over from op which is slowing going down. The only other area has had significant shrinkage, they were very pleased with how much it’s shrunk.
I had some nasty side effects and ended up in hospital for a few weeks on the last one but up until then was ok. Side effects really floored me but slowly building myself back up now.
So plan now to get me off steroids slowly and re start immunotherapy but single dose(better tolerated immunotherapy) plus vaccine 🤞rather than double dose, then just keep going till it’s all gone.
I really hope this is going to be a game changer for melanoma 🤞

Onwards and Upwards

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BettyBardMacDonald · 19/04/2025 19:15

Delighted for you, and glad you are over those side effects. Thank you for sharing your updates!! 🪻💐🪻

angela1952 · 19/04/2025 19:17

So pleased to hear your wonderful news, it must be such a relief to have good news. Onwards and upwards!

Marylou62 · 19/04/2025 19:18

Thank you for updating.. I've not commented before but I've got you on watched threads and often think of you..
Lets hope you continue to recover..

Loveallaroundyou · 19/04/2025 19:20

Absolutely happy for you!! What fantastic news. Even though the treatment has been very unpleasant and challenging, the results have made it so worthwhile.
We all appreciate your updates as we wonder how you are doing, but don’t want to intrude.
Have a lovely Easter.

Purplebunnie · 19/04/2025 19:20

Thank you for the update. Hope the side effects stay away. Hugs to you and your family x

Growsomeballswoman · 19/04/2025 19:21

That’s just wonderful news.

Beautyfadesdumbisforever · 19/04/2025 19:24

So pleased you have some positive news. I often wonder how you are doing.
My very best wishes I know that even when the treatment is going well it can be unbelievably hard. Lots of love.

MissyB1 · 19/04/2025 19:38

Wow I as only just thinking about you this morning! Must be telepathy 😂
Great news anyway, I'm sorry you've had such a tough time with side effects, but it sounds like you've got really positive results! Sending you all my best wishes, hope you are feeling better soon.