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well, that was sudden...

102 replies

CanadianJohn · 16/02/2024 04:39

My wife, age 82, has been very lethargic for a few months, doesn't want to eat, sleeps a lot, no energy, etc.

On Sunday, she was okay, more or less, and we did a quick grocery shop.
On Monday, she was distinctly unwell, and we went to ER.
On Wednesday, she was moved to the cancer floor.
On Thursday, we were advised her cancer is terminal, and she has only a few months to live.

The children (all adults) are in shock. As am I, I suppose. She will be coming home as soon as the hospital finish all their tests, and I have to arrange palliative care, etc. Lots of things... making a bedroom downstairs, getting a walk-in shower installed.

Wow, my world has changed really quickly...

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neilyoungismyhero · 16/03/2024 20:17

So very sorry to read this. My condolences to you and your family.

maudelovesharold · 16/03/2024 20:18

So very sorry to hear the sad news about your wife. You must be in shock. A comfort that she wasn’t in pain and had a peaceful passing, but so hard for you to come to terms with.

EveryKneeShallBow · 16/03/2024 20:18

Sorry for your loss. Take your time and grieve as you need to. RIP Pamela.

betterangels · 16/03/2024 20:19

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Deep sympathy.

shrinkingbee · 16/03/2024 20:26

I am so sorry John, I'm thinking of you 🌷

Janedoe82 · 16/03/2024 20:29

How very sad. 😢

EarringsandLipstick · 16/03/2024 20:31

I'm so sorry 💔 you sound lovely, as does Pamela

SBHon · 16/03/2024 20:31

I’m sorry for your loss John. What a huge shock for you all.

herbygarden · 16/03/2024 20:33

I am so so sorry @CanadianJohn My heart goes out to you Xxx

Datafan55 · 16/03/2024 20:34

My sympathies to you and your family.

Nannyfannybanny · 16/03/2024 20:37

💐 so sorry for your loss John. Hoping your family are able to support you.

WearyAuldWumman · 16/03/2024 20:39

I am so very sorry. My condolences.

winewolfhowls · 16/03/2024 20:39

So sorry to hear about the loss of Pamela. So very sad.

loobylou10 · 16/03/2024 20:41

So sorry for your loss

Lovingtheglitter · 16/03/2024 20:42

I'm so sorry for your loss

Estellaa · 16/03/2024 20:44

💐

rokaaroundthechristmastree · 16/03/2024 20:45

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Iloveyoubut · 16/03/2024 20:46

I’m so, truly sorry for your loss John, you’re in my thoughts as is Pamela and your family. I’m so sorry 💐

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IvysMum12 · 16/03/2024 20:47

You have a very self revealing user name.

SpringSprungALeak · 16/03/2024 20:49

@CanadianJohn

I'm so very very sorry to hear about Pamela 🫶🏻🌷

it's such a shock when it all happens so quickly . I have to say though, a prolonged period is awful in a different way, especially for the person who knows they're dying.

its a true blessing she didn't have any pain.

Do your adult children live near to you?

How long had you & Pamela been together?

🤗🤗

merryandbrightdelight · 16/03/2024 20:49

I am so very sorry to read this - I wish you peace and comfort, God bless you and your family Flowers

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Morechocmorechoc · 16/03/2024 20:52

Sorry to hear your news, but glad to hear she did not suffer. That is worth a lot. Take care of yourself 💐

ILoveSalmonSpread · 16/03/2024 20:54

Much sympathy wends it's way to you. So sorry. 💐