I don't mind at all, but I really didn't post in an attempt to garner congratulations or anything, I just saw the thread and thought hooray, you're all going to feel amazing if you do this!
I've tried losing weight before, have probably been overweight most of my adult life, but lost about 2st (doing WW) before my wedding 11 years ago, then piled it back on again (married & content!),then didn't gain much in pregnancy, as was ill a lot, then lost a lot immediately after DD, and did OK on mat leave, but then piled it on massively the following year. Have had half-hearted 'get fit for skiing' campaigns of about a month most years.
This time I just started calorie counting, and doing some exercise, which has turned into running (this from a person who would have missed a bus rather than run 20 yds to catch it), and as calorie counting, have ended up eating smaller portions and probably fewer carbs/more protein as I seemed to get more calorie 'value' out of that approach.
Most of the way through I have tried to focus on being kind to myself, being kind to my body, giving it what it needs, so if I need a 'treat' I no longer reach for chocolate, as it isn't what my body actually needs.
Best thing about losing weight is a hard question, but I had a 'sad' moment just over a year ago, where I made a spreadsheet listing all the things I was unhappy about, it included:
No nice clothes
Bad/tired looking skin
Pelvic floor issues
Too fat (obv)
Work not going brilliantly, not saying things I think I should say
Too tired to play with DD, tired all the time
Too tired for sex
Worried about general health/wellbeing
Sorry if some of that is an over-share, and actually I've never told anyone about that list, but honestly, I feel like losing weight has solved all those things, I'm much more confident and funnier and assertive, I love running round and playing with DD, I love running anyway now, I'm interested in my DH again, I feel like I am functioning on a much fuller level. I've updated my wardrobe and my hair, and honestly, pelvic floor now fully reliable is quite a bonus!
I had a dark time after having DD with depression etc. but last year at new year, I almost felt like I was wiping the slate clean, and saying actually, it's time for me. And it has worked, and everybody in my life has seen in the benefit, so what sounded like a selfish statement at the time, actually wasn't.
So that was probably a bit more info than you really wanted, and I really didn't want to position myself as some kind of success story or inspiration or anything, we all need to find our own inspiration.
What I wanted to say was...have faith, you can do it and you will be glad you did.
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